tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-197415622024-03-19T04:18:15.099-04:00Patti Wood Body Language Expert Blog body language ladyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11258090507305790708noreply@blogger.comBlogger2195125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19741562.post-32872622906839814122024-03-16T14:02:00.005-04:002024-03-16T14:02:29.960-04:00Don Lemon's Body Language in His Interview with Musk and His Interview on CNN for the US SUN. <div><br /></div><div><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; white-space-collapse: preserve;">The body language analysis of Dom Lemon and his interview with Musk and his interview on CNN I did for the Sun. </span></div><div><header class="article__header" style="background-color: #222526; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222526; font-family: "The Sun"; font-size: 15px;"><div class="article__headline-section" style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 3.6rem; font-stretch: condensed; font-weight: 700; line-height: 4rem; margin-bottom: 1.1rem; overflow-wrap: break-word; word-break: break-word;"><span class="article__kicker t-p-color--dark" style="box-sizing: border-box; color: RGBA(var(--dark),1); display: inline; font-size: 3.6rem; font-weight: 400; text-transform: uppercase;">LEMON GOES 'SOUR' </span><h1 class="article__headline" data-original-text="Don Lemon’s body language in CNN return reveals he was left with ‘sour face’ when grilled on Elon Musk axing his show" style="box-sizing: border-box; color: white; display: inline; font-size: 3.6rem; font-weight: 400; margin: 0px;">Don Lemon’s body language in CNN return reveals he was left with ‘sour face’ when grilled on Elon Musk axing his show</h1></div><div class="article__subdeck t-p-border-color" style="border-color: RGBA(var(--primary),1); box-sizing: border-box; color: white; font-size: 16px; font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2.4rem; margin-bottom: 16px; overflow-wrap: break-word; word-break: break-word;">Musk said Lemon seemed inauthentic in his interview with him</div></header><div class="article__meta article_isFeaturedVideo t-p-border-color" style="background-color: #222526; border-color: RGBA(var(--primary),1); box-sizing: border-box; color: #222526; font-family: "The Sun"; font-size: 1.4rem; line-height: 2rem; margin-bottom: 0px;"><div class="article__name-date" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><div class="article__author" style="box-sizing: border-box; padding-bottom: 2px;"><ul class="article__ul article__noLabel" itemprop="author" style="box-sizing: border-box; list-style: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><li class="article__author-list t-p-background-color__before" style="box-sizing: border-box; display: inline-block; position: relative;"><a aria-label="Posts by Ashley Palya" class="author url fn article__author-link t-p-color" data-author="Ashley Palya" href="https://www.the-sun.com/author/ashley-palyathe-sun-com/" rel="author" style="box-sizing: border-box; color: white; font-weight: 700;" title="Posts by Ashley Palya">Ashley Palya</a></li></ul></div><ul class="article__time" style="box-sizing: border-box; color: white; list-style: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><li class="article__published" style="box-sizing: border-box; display: inline;"><time datetime="2024-03-14T04:10:30.000+00:00" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span class="article__datestamp" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span class="article__updated-medium" style="box-sizing: border-box;">Published</span>: 0:10 ET, </span><span class="article__timestamp" style="box-sizing: border-box;">Mar 14 2024</span></time></li><li class="article__updated" style="box-sizing: border-box; display: inline; margin-left: 16px; position: relative;"><time datetime="2024-03-14T19:57:59.000+00:00" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span class="article__datestamp" style="box-sizing: border-box; position: relative;"><span class="article__updated-medium" style="box-sizing: border-box; position: relative;">Updated</span>: 15:57 ET, </span><span class="article__timestamp" style="box-sizing: border-box;">Mar 14 2024</span></time></li></ul></div></div></div><div><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><br /></span></div><div><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222526; font-family: "The Sun"; font-size: 18px; margin: 0px 0px 16px; word-break: break-word;">Body language expert Patti Wood noticed that instead of directly answering CNN host Erin Burnett’s first question, he quickly changed the subject to thank the network for having him on.</p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222526; font-family: "The Sun"; font-size: 18px; margin: 0px 0px 16px; word-break: break-word;">“It’s really interesting how he starts out,” Wood told The U.S. Sun.</p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222526; font-family: "The Sun"; font-size: 18px; margin: 0px 0px 16px; word-break: break-word;">"He wanted to pull in the fact that he wanted to be a star again by saying, 'Thanks for having me on the show.'"</p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222526; font-family: "The Sun"; font-size: 18px; margin: 0px 0px 16px; word-break: break-word;">“Instead of it just being, 'you’re having me on here for this thing,' but 'Hey I have a relationship, I’ve been here before.'"</p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222526; font-family: "The Sun"; font-size: 18px; margin: 0px 0px 16px; word-break: break-word;">Wood also highlighted how <a href="http://www.the-sun.com/who/don-lemon" style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #0072ee;">Lemon</a> dodging the question suggested he wanted to be careful about what he was saying. </p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222526; font-family: "The Sun"; font-size: 18px; margin: 0px 0px 16px; word-break: break-word;">She noted that he knew it was a big deal to be on the show and wanted to be precise with his response. </p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222526; font-family: "The Sun"; font-size: 18px; margin: 0px 0px 16px; word-break: break-word;">“He was asked a really direct question right off the bat and instead of answering it immediately, he says ‘Thanks for having me on the show,’” Wood said.</p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222526; font-family: "The Sun"; font-size: 18px; margin: 0px 0px 16px; word-break: break-word;">“He wanted a moment to pull back on that, he wanted to wait before he approached the difficult question nonverbally.</p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222526; font-family: "The Sun"; font-size: 18px; margin: 0px 0px 16px; word-break: break-word;">“So when you answer a question immediately and you go to something else. </p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222526; font-family: "The Sun"; font-size: 18px; margin: 0px 0px 16px; word-break: break-word;">“That's always a sign that he knows how big this is and he knows how important this is and he wants to be very careful.”</p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222526; font-family: "The Sun"; font-size: 18px; margin: 0px 0px 16px; word-break: break-word;">Wood noted that Lemon also denied Burnett’s attempt to take control of the interview when he did not directly answer her question.</p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222526; font-family: "The Sun"; font-size: 18px; margin: 0px 0px 16px; word-break: break-word;">“Burnett wanted to jump in and take control of the interview but he was like ‘No I’m not going to let you do that,’’ Wood said. </p><h2 class="wp-block-heading" style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222526; font-family: "The Sun"; font-size: 2.4rem; line-height: 2.8rem; margin: 0px 0px 16px;">TONE CHANGED</h2><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222526; font-family: "The Sun"; font-size: 18px; margin: 0px 0px 16px; word-break: break-word;">However, Lemon's tone took a turn to micro-aggression when he was asked about Musk being his boss.</p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222526; font-family: "The Sun"; font-size: 18px; margin: 0px 0px 16px; word-break: break-word;">During the CNN interview, Lemon said, "First of all he's not my boss."</p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222526; font-family: "The Sun"; font-size: 18px; margin: 0px 0px 16px; word-break: break-word;">"He never was my boss, he never had any editorial control. I wanted my work to be seen by the biggest number of people who could see it."</p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222526; font-family: "The Sun"; font-size: 18px; margin: 0px 0px 16px; word-break: break-word;">Wood said she noticed major changes in Lemon at this moment.</p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222526; font-family: "The Sun"; font-size: 18px; margin: 0px 0px 16px; word-break: break-word;">"When he was asked about Musk being his boss he got very micro-aggressive and had 'explosive' delivery when saying the word boss," she said.</p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222526; font-family: "The Sun"; font-size: 18px; margin: 0px 0px 16px; word-break: break-word;">"He had a sour face and repeated himself multiple times to make sure it wasn’t missed."</p><h2 class="wp-block-heading" style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222526; font-family: "The Sun"; font-size: 2.4rem; line-height: 2.8rem; margin: 0px 0px 16px;">MUSK'S DISAPPROVAL</h2><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222526; font-family: "The Sun"; font-size: 18px; margin: 0px 0px 16px; word-break: break-word;">Lemon thought his conversation went well with Musk but said, "Clearly he felt differently.”</p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222526; font-family: "The Sun"; font-size: 18px; margin: 0px 0px 16px; word-break: break-word;">X was due to exclusively host a new talk show from Lemon, featuring the interview with Musk, on the platform but the deal was terminated on Wednesday.</p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222526; font-family: "The Sun"; font-size: 18px; margin: 0px 0px 16px; word-break: break-word;">Musk scrapped the partnership hours after their sit down chat, leaving Lemon baffled with a text which read, "contract terminated."</p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222526; font-family: "The Sun"; font-size: 18px; margin: 0px 0px 16px; word-break: break-word;">“His commitment to a global town square where all questions can be asked and all ideas can be shared seems not to include questions of him from people like me,” Lemon said.</p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222526; font-family: "The Sun"; font-size: 18px; margin: 0px 0px 16px; word-break: break-word;">"This will be just the first of many episodes of The Don Lemon Show.</p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222526; font-family: "The Sun"; font-size: 18px; margin: 0px 0px 16px; word-break: break-word;">"While Elon goes back on his word, I will be doubling down on my commitment to free speech and I cannot wait to get started.”</p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222526; font-family: "The Sun"; font-size: 18px; margin: 0px 0px 16px; word-break: break-word;">Musk said on <a href="https://www.the-sun.com/topic/twitter/page/8/" rel="" style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #0072ee;">X</a> that Lemon's approach to the interview came off as inauthentic.</p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222526; font-family: "The Sun"; font-size: 18px; margin: 0px 0px 16px; word-break: break-word;">"His approach was basically just 'CNN, but on social media', which doesn’t work, as evidenced by the fact that CNN is dying," Musk <a aria-label=" (opens in a new tab)" href="https://twitter.com/elonmusk/status/1767961809967829154" rel="nofollow noreferrer noopener" style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #0072ee;" target="_blank">said</a> on X.</p></div><div>https://www.the-sun.com/news/10775596/don-lemon-star-cnn-interview-elon-musk-partnership-canceled/?fbclid=IwAR0Ra0bn4VPe-6XHFwK24Qlts3Pfjq66NiyHoixA4FX-wehNf91fCeXNxBM</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div>Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.<br />
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<p class="MsoNormal"><a href="https://www.lifeandstylemag.com/posts/jennifer-aniston-has-always-had-a-thing-for-bradley-cooper/">https://www.lifeandstylemag.com/posts/jennifer-aniston-has-always-had-a-thing-for-bradley-cooper/</a><o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p><span style="background-color: white; font-family: "Playfair Display", serif; font-size: 2.625rem;">Jennifer Aniston ‘Has Always Had a Thing’ for Bradley Cooper: ‘They Have Chemistry’</span></p><div class="post-meta" style="align-items: center; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; display: flex; font-family: Taviraj, serif; font-size: 0.625rem; line-height: 1.5; margin: 10px 0px 20px; padding: 0px 20px; position: relative;"><div class="post-meta__category" style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px 8px 0px 0px; padding: 0px;"><a class="article_category" href="https://www.lifeandstylemag.com/posts/category/news/" style="background: rgb(233, 52, 102); border: none; box-sizing: border-box; color: white; display: inline-block; font-size: 0.9375rem; font-style: italic; font-weight: 600; letter-spacing: 0.2em; line-height: 1.33; margin: 0px; padding: 0px 9px; text-decoration-line: none; text-transform: uppercase; text-wrap: nowrap;">NEWS</a></div><div class="post-meta__inner" style="align-items: center; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: Montserrat, sans-serif; font-size: 0.625rem; font-weight: 800; letter-spacing: 0.06em; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-transform: uppercase;"><div class="post-meta__inner-date" style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">MAR 8, 2024 2:19 PM</div><div class="post-meta__inner-author" style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">BY <a class="author url fn" href="https://www.lifeandstylemag.com/posts/author/kschaffstall/" rel="author" style="background-color: transparent; box-sizing: border-box; color: black; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: none;" title="Posts by Katherine Schaffstall">KATHERINE SCHAFFSTA</a></div><div class="post-meta__inner-author" style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><br /></div><div class="post-meta__inner-author" style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box; font-family: Merriweather, sans-serif; font-size: 1.125rem; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 1.6; margin: 0px 0px 0.8em; padding: 0px; text-transform: none; word-break: break-word;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">raised some eyebrows during the </span><a href="https://www.lifeandstylemag.com/tags/sag-awards-15476/" style="background-color: transparent; box-sizing: border-box; color: #e93466; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: none; word-break: break-word;">Screen Actors Guild Awards</a> on February 24, between the lingering touches on the red carpet and their stolen glances onstage at LA’s Shrine Auditorium. “Jen has always had a thing for Bradley. When she’s around him, there’s no denying it,” a source exclusively dishes to <em style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">Life & Style</em>. “They have chemistry.”</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box; font-family: Merriweather, sans-serif; font-size: 1.125rem; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 1.6; margin: 0px 0px 0.8em; padding: 0px; text-transform: none; word-break: break-word;">“It’s the kind of touch you give somebody to indicate familiarity,” body language expert <span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-weight: 700; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">Patti Wood</span> says of Jen running her hands along Bradley’s back at the awards show. “They know each other well, and they’re comfortable with intimate touch.”</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box; font-family: Merriweather, sans-serif; font-size: 1.125rem; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 1.6; margin: 0px 0px 0.8em; padding: 0px; text-transform: none; word-break: break-word;">She then points out that Bradley, 49, “is looking down and enjoying the view,” adding, “He appreciates how good Jen looks, and she’s bringing him in closer.”</p></div></div></div></div>Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.<br />
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<p class="MsoNormal">Here is the video clip <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fxuN3i84FNY">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fxuN3i84FNY</a><o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">My talking points for my TV interview on NewNation are in
rough form there <o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraph" style="mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -0.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]-->1)<span style="font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size: 7pt; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal;">
</span><!--[endif]-->President Biden's Funny comic timing<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">When Seth teased and said he had classified information and
told Biden “You're currently 81 years old.” You see Biden’s comic timing. Biden
turns quickly with strength and a playful lift in his voice, “Who the hell told
you that” he smiles and pauses for the laugh smile then adds that’s classified and
smiles and laughs looking straight at Seth, he shows he loves what Biden did by lifting up and
out of his chair towards the president and you see them they share a moment of delight. <o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">And he continues to smile and joke about the other
guy who can’t even remember his wife’s name. He hits on the words wife’s name like a true
comic. <o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpFirst" style="mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -0.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]-->2)<span style="font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size: 7pt; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal;">
</span><!--[endif]-->Time code 4:14 The idea that the president/Trump
is inviting Vladimir Putin, Notice how he orients his body to the audience to
give the message to them he raises his hands then strikes down as he says
this showing his desire to slice that request away. Also, notice his face as he
says this and how bizarre it is. His face shows his dissonance. On one side of his face his eye is shut tight and twisted to the side and one side of his is twisted up and closed. <o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -0.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><b>3)<span style="font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size: 7pt; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal;">
</span></b><!--[endif]--> <b>This
next is scary to me because he says it and how he says it.<o:p></o:p></b></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle"><b>“I’ve known every major foreign leader…these
leaders longest time... They are scared to death for what it means to them…
scared to death if we walk away. In forensic linguistic analysis, he uses strong
terms SCARED TO DEATH, and repeats it to emphasize it. That is not a wishy-washy
statement and he says it with a strong voice and reaches out with cupped hands
to Seth to emphasize he needs to hold things together then at 4:35 we get a
flash of sadness and withheld tears, notice this crumbling chin and protruding lower
lip and the folds between his brows. This is an intense reveal of how bad this
is for the world. <o:p></o:p></b></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle"><b> </b></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpLast"><b>4.) 6:40 or so Twice during the interview he talks
about Trump’s behavior and then when he realizes he rants on jokes “I don’t want
to get started” with a comic delivery. <o:p></o:p></b></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><b>5) As he talks about Israel and Palestine… Notice how his
hand raises open cupped palms down and pats gently downward .. “You also have
to have an opportunity to have peace and security” This reveals his desire to calm
down or hold down the intense( raised hand rather than low) conflict. It
reveals both how big the conflict in the world is and also that he feels he must and can pat it
down. He keeps his hands there for a
moment revealing that it’s a long process, and he has to keep patting it
down. We could go on and talk about it.<o:p></o:p></b></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><b><br />
</b>Video of President Biden with Seth Meyers in an ice cream parlor. <o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">President Biden is leaning on the counter with a singular focus,
we know he loves ice cream, but it creates a “Gotcha” moment because eating ice
cream a joyful, silly body language and an ice cream cone stuck in his hand and
he is being asked about a ceasefire in Gaza. And though he subdues his smile
and answers in a calm confident voice His body language automatically doesn’t match
the seriousness of the question. <o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><b> </b></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraph"><b> </b></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><b> </b></p></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div>Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.<br />
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ice cream, but it creates a gotcha moment because eating ice cream is joyful,
silly body language, an ice cream cone stuck in his hand and he is being asked
about a ceasefire in Gaza. And though he subdues his smile and answers in a calm
confident voice His body language automatically doesn’t match the seriousness
of the question. <o:p></o:p></p></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div>Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.<br />
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<a href="http://www.linkedin.com/in/bodylanguagespeaker" target="_blank"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjKIXUhoIY81tO8C6qZMI2Zv2QTn2MAa_9V-UKd5gfdwXPAPkaqlfWmcNdY90JEGjMWwcImq_7ZU-KwUIEddqzz_A-qxsORF2NEhwTCtqtAfqJa2r6VP_uVZAk3coGn7ZxA4mqW/s200/linkedin.png" /></a><a href="http://www.twitter.com/bodylanguagepw" target="_blank"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgt-UF4YYIuR8YOeErYT9DDDXEzMRZF9pv9tSY1-FkRMUF4P7STFmuFu0BQo3ZUhpQ1StYmM8ZbDSq0a_vswPjB-2UVFOIaUFwhKxJPK48yob5ToxuCIZFUlL8AySlksjoredjQ/s200/twitter.png" /></a><a href="http://www.youtube.com/user/bodylanguageexpert" target="_blank"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiZA9XTQ5tUhyphenhyphenzPIa-F13K97oYbCRkNRlFGCYpOP9S6-psIR01kiYDGEIYhEwrZfgtvlNykF1rPKzSVgcaYmDbWlkWJjgmb4b-0nDso4lmssc07Yiy2P6Oj90SB-ul3f9eD0OiE/s200/youtube.png" /></a>body language ladyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11258090507305790708noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19741562.post-71729484311093915362024-02-02T16:48:00.009-05:002024-02-05T20:32:33.125-05:00Meaning Behind the Kiss Between Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce by Body Language Expert Patti Wood<div><div class="viewsHeader" data-test-id="views-title" style="background-color: white; color: #2b2b2b; font-family: "Segoe UI", SegoeUI, Roboto, sans-serif;"><h2 style="font-family: "Eb Garamond"; line-height: 40px; margin: 0px; max-height: 160px; overflow: hidden; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-top: 12px; text-align: center;">There's A Deeper Meaning to Taylor Swift And Travis Kelce's Kiss Here is the full article I contributed to for Elite Daily</h2></div></div><div><span face=""Segoe UI", "Segoe UI Midlevel", sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #2b2b2b; font-size: 17px;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiYplMDIuobaVVnjtBgcqWcRf0ueWnPwYqSjjundu7776RITjtrWyWYv_a3MHN8KdAP4iBvG8ofv-MV16J4r1DrnuCFioQVwajn87QrWtIVpOJqfLw4PDRrsbLswxYQJe52V4G05Ol19FY29XFYp5msMV9NbXxr4GrEGCYlxreUL4VAS6pP_8a_/s768/AA1ii20z.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="535" data-original-width="768" height="275" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiYplMDIuobaVVnjtBgcqWcRf0ueWnPwYqSjjundu7776RITjtrWyWYv_a3MHN8KdAP4iBvG8ofv-MV16J4r1DrnuCFioQVwajn87QrWtIVpOJqfLw4PDRrsbLswxYQJe52V4G05Ol19FY29XFYp5msMV9NbXxr4GrEGCYlxreUL4VAS6pP_8a_/w394-h275/AA1ii20z.jpg" width="394" /></a></div><br /><br /></span></div><div><span face=""Segoe UI", "Segoe UI Midlevel", sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #2b2b2b; font-size: 17px;">They made two back-to-back public appearances over the weekend, both of which involved them holding hands. Here they are on Saturday night at the </span><em style="background-color: white; color: #2b2b2b; font-family: "Segoe UI", "Segoe UI Midlevel", sans-serif; font-size: 17px;">SNL</em><span face=""Segoe UI", "Segoe UI Midlevel", sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #2b2b2b; font-size: 17px;"> after-party</span></div><div><div class="entry-content no-share" style="border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; counter-reset: footnotes 0; font: inherit; margin: 0px 0px 30px; padding: 0px; position: relative; transform: none; vertical-align: baseline;"><div class="content-inner" style="border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; color: #333333; font-family: inherit; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-size: 16px; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: 1.625em; margin: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; word-break: normal;"><p style="border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: Domine, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-size: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; margin: 0px 0px 1.25em; padding: 0px; text-rendering: optimizelegibility; vertical-align: baseline;">On Nov. 11, minutes after Taylor Swift wrapped up her second Buenos Aires show, she and Travis Kelce kissed in public for the first time. Since videos of the sweet moment went viral, <a href="https://www.elitedaily.com/entertainment/taylor-swift-travis-kelce-dating-rumor" rel="noopener" style="border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; color: #13aff0; font: inherit; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: none; vertical-align: baseline;" target="_blank">Swift and Kelce’s makeout</a> has been watched millions of times. And according to a body language expert, there’s a good reason for fans to be swooning over this kiss.</p><p style="border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: Domine, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-size: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; margin: 0px 0px 1.25em; padding: 0px; text-rendering: optimizelegibility; vertical-align: baseline;">In the video, <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@labyrinthaze/video/7300408421424139538?_r=1&_t=8hMPAbu8mz4" rel="noreferrer noopener" style="border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; color: #13aff0; font: inherit; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: none; vertical-align: baseline;" target="_blank">Swift ran to Kelce</a>, putting her arms around him and going right into a steamy kiss. “There’s an immediacy of her finishing her performance and going to him. She could have stayed and savored her audience, but what she wanted to do immediately was be with him,” <a href="https://www.pattiwood.net/" rel="noreferrer noopener" style="border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; color: #13aff0; font: inherit; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: none; vertical-align: baseline;" target="_blank">Patti Wood</a>, expert body language analyst, tells Elite Daily. “It wasn’t that she was pretending to run. It was a genuine rush — urgency that went through her whole body.”</p><div class="deu_ad deu_ad_article dnews_content_inline_ads" style="border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; font: inherit; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: center; vertical-align: baseline;"></div><p style="border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: Domine, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-size: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; margin: 0px 0px 1.25em; padding: 0px; text-rendering: optimizelegibility; vertical-align: baseline;">Swift also exhibited something Wood calls “up body language,” which is a sign of joy. Before the singer got to Kelce and kissed him, she put her arms up in preparation. “She’s a good eight feet away from him when her arms start to rise up [to hug him]. That kind of up body language usually happens at six feet away. Her doing it so early indicates that she has absolute certainty of a positive response from him.”</p><p style="border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: Domine, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-size: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; margin: 0px 0px 1.25em; padding: 0px; text-rendering: optimizelegibility; vertical-align: baseline;">Wood, the author of <em style="border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: inherit; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-size: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">Snap: Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language, and Charisma</em>, also notes how <a href="https://www.elitedaily.com/entertainment/taylor-swift-travis-kelce-easter-eggs?token=eyJhbGciOiJIUzI1NiIsInR5cCI6IkpXVCJ9.eyJpZCI6IjI1MjQwNzg4MiIsImlhdCI6MTY5NTY3MjMxNCwiZXhwIjoxNzAwODU2MzE0LCJhdWQiOiJwcmV2aWV3IiwiaXNzIjoiZ3JhZGl1c0AxLjAuMCJ9.FRhtDrHf-qOWdTcjVYLhLh4gylaBX6i1iGigXr1SV5U" rel="noopener" style="border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; color: #13aff0; font: inherit; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: none; vertical-align: baseline;" target="_blank">Swift jumped into Kelce’s arms</a>. “It’s like how a little kid jumps into their parents’ arms. She is absolutely certain that he is going to catch her.”</p><p style="border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: Domine, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-size: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; margin: 0px 0px 1.25em; padding: 0px; text-rendering: optimizelegibility; vertical-align: baseline;">Kelce, for his part, took the moment in stride. “When he lifts her, his arms are locked around her waist, so she feels secure. Then he swings her around, taking her full weight,” Wood says. According to her, his hold on Swift was “not possessive, but secure.” The moment was also very reminiscent of <a href="https://www.elitedaily.com/entertainment/travis-kelce-favorite-taylor-swift-song" rel="noopener" style="border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; color: #13aff0; font: inherit; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: none; vertical-align: baseline;" target="_blank">Swift’s lyrics from “Crazier,”</a> which she released in 2009: “You lift my feet off the ground / You spin me around / You make me crazier, crazier.”</p><p style="border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: Domine, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-size: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; margin: 0px 0px 1.25em; padding: 0px; text-rendering: optimizelegibility; vertical-align: baseline;">As they walked away together, Kelce kept his arm around her — and notably, his thumb was pointed upward. “It’s a sign that he’s feeling happy and joyful,” Wood says. Swift, meanwhile, kept her arm around Kelce’s shoulder, showing “a tiny bit of ownership,” Wood adds.</p><p style="border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: Domine, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-size: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; margin: 0px 0px 1.25em; padding: 0px; text-rendering: optimizelegibility; vertical-align: baseline;">And the kiss wasn’t the only noteworthy body language of the Nov. 11 show. When Swift performed “Karma,” the last song of her <a href="https://www.elitedaily.com/entertainment/taylor-swift-eras-tour-night-one-setlist-songs" rel="noopener" style="border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; color: #13aff0; font: inherit; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: none; vertical-align: baseline;" target="_blank">set list</a>, she gave Kelce a shoutout. The original lyrics go: “Karma is the guy on the screen, coming straight home to me.” But Swift changed them to: “Karma is the guy on the Chiefs, coming straight home to me.”</p><p style="border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: Domine, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-size: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; margin: 0px 0px 1.25em; padding: 0px; text-rendering: optimizelegibility; vertical-align: baseline;">A fan video caught <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@nfl/video/7300451840007851310?_t=8hMP7AmWn9y&_r=1" rel="noreferrer noopener" style="border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; color: #13aff0; font: inherit; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: none; vertical-align: baseline;" target="_blank">Kelce hearing the line</a> change in real-time — and per Wood, he seemed totally OK with the attention. “What’s cute is he has his hands over his face, but it’s a joyful embarrassment,” Wood says. “Look at how lifted up his elbows are, they’re almost straight up. When you’re more embarrassed in an ashamed way, you keep your elbows down and tend to move your body backward.”</p><p style="border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: Domine, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-size: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; margin: 0px 0px 1.25em; padding: 0px; text-rendering: optimizelegibility; vertical-align: baseline;">Kelce also kept bouncing and dancing after the moment, making it clear that he was having fun with Swift’s shoutout.</p><p style="border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: Domine, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-size: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; margin: 0px 0px 1.25em; padding: 0px; text-rendering: optimizelegibility; vertical-align: baseline;">All in all, Swift and Kelce’s vibe had a “playful” energy to it. Their body language reflected spontaneous joy, something they’re “on the same page” about, Wood says.</p><p style="border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: Domine, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-size: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; margin: 0px 0px 1.25em; padding: 0px; text-rendering: optimizelegibility; vertical-align: baseline;">The post <a href="https://www.elitedaily.com/relationships/taylor-swift-travis-kelce-eras-tour-kiss-body-language" rel="noopener" style="border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; color: #13aff0; font: inherit; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: none; vertical-align: baseline;" target="_blank">Taylor Swift & Travis Kelce’s Eras Tour Kiss Body Language Was Cute</a> appeared first on <a href="https://www.elitedaily.com/relationships/taylor-swift-travis-kelce-eras-tour-kiss-body-language" rel="noopener" style="border: 0px; 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padding-top: 12px;"><br /></h1></div><div><br /><br /></div><div>Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.<br />
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But Taylor Swift has been faring just fine under the pressure. Taylor has attended not one, but two Chiefs games alongside Travis Kelce’s mom, Donna Kelce — and according to a body language expert, the singer has made quite the impression.</p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: inherit; font-family: Graphik, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: var(--bodyTextSize); grid-column: text; margin-bottom: var(--mobiledocSpacing); margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; position: relative; z-index: var(--zIndexContent);">On Oct. 12, Taylor and Donna sat together to watch Travis play against the Denver Broncos, looking like the best of friends. But only six days earlier, Donna discussed Taylor on the <em style="box-sizing: inherit;">Today</em> show — and when she described meeting her as “OK,” fans thought Donna was a little unenthusiastic about <a href="https://twitter.com/KevinGraySports/status/1710302831003963803" rel="noreferrer" style="background: transparent; border-bottom: 5px solid var(--slot4); box-sizing: inherit; cursor: pointer; overflow-wrap: break-word; text-decoration-line: none;" target="_blank">hanging with the pop star</a>.</p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: inherit; font-family: Graphik, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: var(--bodyTextSize); grid-column: text; margin-bottom: var(--mobiledocSpacing); margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; position: relative; z-index: var(--zIndexContent);">Watching the Oct. 6 interview, expert body language analyst <a href="http://www.pattiwood.net/" rel="noreferrer" style="background: transparent; border-bottom: 5px solid var(--slot4); box-sizing: inherit; cursor: pointer; overflow-wrap: break-word; text-decoration-line: none;" target="_blank">Patti Wood</a> doesn’t think there was any shade directed toward Taylor. “She had asked [Hoda Kotb and Jenna Bush Hager] not to talk to her about that,” Wood points out to Elite Daily. “Her irritation in the moment is due to the fact that she’s uncomfortable because they broke a boundary.”</p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: inherit; font-family: Graphik, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: var(--bodyTextSize); grid-column: text; margin-bottom: var(--mobiledocSpacing); margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; position: relative; z-index: var(--zIndexContent);">TL;DR, there wasn’t any reason for Taylor and Donna to have tension at game No. 2, so their camaraderie on Oct. 12 makes total sense. Wood, author of <em style="box-sizing: inherit;"><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Snap-Making-Impressions-Language-Charisma/dp/1577319397" rel="noreferrer" style="background: transparent; border-bottom: 5px solid var(--slot4); box-sizing: inherit; cursor: pointer; overflow-wrap: break-word; text-decoration-line: none;" target="_blank">Snap: Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language, and Charisma</a></em>, explains that their body language at the Chiefs vs. Broncos game indicated “true intimacy and happiness together.” Here’s how she can tell.</p><h2 style="background-color: white; border-top: 2px solid; box-sizing: inherit; font-family: var(--fontFamilyHeading); font-size: 3.5rem; grid-column: text; line-height: 0.95; margin: calc(var(--mobiledocSpacing) * 1.25) 0 calc(var(--mobiledocSpacing) * 1.5); padding: 1rem 0px 0px; position: relative; text-rendering: optimizelegibility;">Taylor Whispered In Donna’s Ear</h2><div class="sWr J8p lw9 R6j" style="background-color: white; box-sizing: inherit; font-family: Graphik, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; grid-column: text; margin: var(--mobiledocSpacing) auto calc(var(--mobiledocSpacing) * 2); position: relative; width: 762.609px;"><figure class="Qf5 s1I" style="--videolinkurlheight: calc(100% - 75px); background: transparent; box-sizing: inherit; display: grid; gap: 0.5rem; grid-template-columns: 1fr; grid-template-rows: 1fr auto; height: auto; margin: 0px; max-width: var(--maxContainerWidth); padding: 0px; width: 762.609px; z-index: var(--zIndexContent);"><div class="pxF heF mvL s-519117789" style="box-sizing: inherit; grid-area: 1 / 1; min-height: 1px; min-width: 1px; padding-top: 508.406px; position: relative;"><picture style="box-sizing: inherit;"><source media="(min-width:1025px)" srcset="https://imgix.bustle.com/uploads/getty/2023/10/13/7e0c70cd-6ad3-496b-8d59-6a37cebc2103-getty-1732427347.jpg?w=1320&h=880&fit=crop&crop=faces&auto=format%2Ccompress, https://imgix.bustle.com/uploads/getty/2023/10/13/7e0c70cd-6ad3-496b-8d59-6a37cebc2103-getty-1732427347.jpg?w=1320&h=880&fit=crop&crop=faces&auto=format%2Ccompress&q=50&dpr=2 2x" style="box-sizing: inherit;"></source><source media="(min-width:768px)" srcset="https://imgix.bustle.com/uploads/getty/2023/10/13/7e0c70cd-6ad3-496b-8d59-6a37cebc2103-getty-1732427347.jpg?w=688&h=459&fit=crop&crop=faces&auto=format%2Ccompress, https://imgix.bustle.com/uploads/getty/2023/10/13/7e0c70cd-6ad3-496b-8d59-6a37cebc2103-getty-1732427347.jpg?w=688&h=459&fit=crop&crop=faces&auto=format%2Ccompress&q=50&dpr=2 2x" style="box-sizing: inherit;"></source><source srcset="https://imgix.bustle.com/uploads/getty/2023/10/13/7e0c70cd-6ad3-496b-8d59-6a37cebc2103-getty-1732427347.jpg?w=374&h=249&fit=crop&crop=faces&auto=format%2Ccompress, https://imgix.bustle.com/uploads/getty/2023/10/13/7e0c70cd-6ad3-496b-8d59-6a37cebc2103-getty-1732427347.jpg?w=374&h=249&fit=crop&crop=faces&auto=format%2Ccompress&q=50&dpr=2 2x" style="box-sizing: inherit;"></source><img alt="Taylor Swift and Donna Kelce look on before the game between the Kansas City Chiefs and the Denver B..." class="N4z" decoding="async" height="466" src="https://imgix.bustle.com/uploads/getty/2023/10/13/7e0c70cd-6ad3-496b-8d59-6a37cebc2103-getty-1732427347.jpg?w=374&h=249&fit=crop&crop=faces&auto=format%2Ccompress" style="backface-visibility: hidden; border: 0px; box-sizing: inherit; display: block; height: 508.406px; left: 0px; max-width: 100%; position: absolute; top: 0px; transform: translateZ(0px); transition: opacity 0.2s linear 0s; width: 762.609px;" width="700" /></picture></div><figcaption class="rv9 SJc" style="box-sizing: inherit; font-family: var(--fontFamilyBody); font-size: 0.75rem; line-height: 1; text-transform: uppercase;"><span class="Afu gh3" style="box-sizing: inherit; display: inline;">DAVID EULITT/GETTY IMAGES SPORT/GETTY IMAGES</span></figcaption></figure></div><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: inherit; font-family: Graphik, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: var(--bodyTextSize); grid-column: text; margin-bottom: var(--mobiledocSpacing); margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; position: relative; z-index: var(--zIndexContent);">During the game, Taylor was photographed whispering to Donna — a move that Wood says indicates a certain level of closeness. “Taylor brings her face into the intimate zone of space and uses her hands to cover what she’s saying,” Wood says. (BTW, intimate zone of space is the technical term for close physical contact, about 16 inches.)</p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: inherit; font-family: Graphik, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: var(--bodyTextSize); grid-column: text; margin-bottom: var(--mobiledocSpacing); margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; position: relative; z-index: var(--zIndexContent);">The fact that Taylor raised her hand to hide her mouth is also noteworthy. “That’s an exclusionary body language cue,” Wood explains. “It tells me, ‘What I’m saying is just between the two of us. It’s not for public view.’”</p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: inherit; font-family: Graphik, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: var(--bodyTextSize); grid-column: text; margin-bottom: var(--mobiledocSpacing); margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; position: relative; z-index: var(--zIndexContent);">This combination of physical closeness and exclusionary signaling was an “indication of having an intimate and easygoing relationship that isn’t just for public view,” per Wood.</p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: inherit; font-family: Graphik, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: var(--bodyTextSize); grid-column: text; margin-bottom: var(--mobiledocSpacing); margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; position: relative; z-index: var(--zIndexContent);">It’s a dynamic that Donna seemed to enjoy. “Her laugh is sincere. It’s not for the audience, crowd, or photographers,” Wood says. There are a few ways she can tell. “Donna has an open mouth smile, showing the back of her mouth, her teeth are showing, and her cheeks are extremely lifted up. That kind of ‘up’ body language tells me this photo is capturing a true laugh and true joy.”</p><h2 style="background-color: white; border-top: 2px solid; box-sizing: inherit; font-family: var(--fontFamilyHeading); font-size: 3.5rem; grid-column: text; line-height: 0.95; margin: calc(var(--mobiledocSpacing) * 1.25) 0 calc(var(--mobiledocSpacing) * 1.5); padding: 1rem 0px 0px; position: relative; text-rendering: optimizelegibility;">Taylor Leaned In To Listen</h2><div class="sWr J8p lw9 R6j" style="background-color: white; box-sizing: inherit; font-family: Graphik, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; grid-column: text; margin: var(--mobiledocSpacing) auto calc(var(--mobiledocSpacing) * 2); position: relative; width: 762.609px;"><figure class="Qf5 s1I" style="--videolinkurlheight: calc(100% - 75px); background: transparent; box-sizing: inherit; display: grid; gap: 0.5rem; grid-template-columns: 1fr; grid-template-rows: 1fr auto; height: auto; margin: 0px; max-width: var(--maxContainerWidth); padding: 0px; width: 762.609px; z-index: var(--zIndexContent);"><div class="pxF heF mvL s-519117789" style="box-sizing: inherit; grid-area: 1 / 1; min-height: 1px; min-width: 1px; padding-top: 508.406px; position: relative;"><picture style="box-sizing: inherit;"><source media="(min-width:1025px)" srcset="https://imgix.bustle.com/uploads/getty/2023/10/13/199cacba-bde3-4939-bd30-3ffd14b26258-getty-1732429946.jpg?w=1320&h=880&fit=crop&crop=faces&auto=format%2Ccompress, https://imgix.bustle.com/uploads/getty/2023/10/13/199cacba-bde3-4939-bd30-3ffd14b26258-getty-1732429946.jpg?w=1320&h=880&fit=crop&crop=faces&auto=format%2Ccompress&q=50&dpr=2 2x" style="box-sizing: inherit;"></source><source media="(min-width:768px)" srcset="https://imgix.bustle.com/uploads/getty/2023/10/13/199cacba-bde3-4939-bd30-3ffd14b26258-getty-1732429946.jpg?w=688&h=459&fit=crop&crop=faces&auto=format%2Ccompress, https://imgix.bustle.com/uploads/getty/2023/10/13/199cacba-bde3-4939-bd30-3ffd14b26258-getty-1732429946.jpg?w=688&h=459&fit=crop&crop=faces&auto=format%2Ccompress&q=50&dpr=2 2x" style="box-sizing: inherit;"></source><source srcset="https://imgix.bustle.com/uploads/getty/2023/10/13/199cacba-bde3-4939-bd30-3ffd14b26258-getty-1732429946.jpg?w=374&h=249&fit=crop&crop=faces&auto=format%2Ccompress, https://imgix.bustle.com/uploads/getty/2023/10/13/199cacba-bde3-4939-bd30-3ffd14b26258-getty-1732429946.jpg?w=374&h=249&fit=crop&crop=faces&auto=format%2Ccompress&q=50&dpr=2 2x" style="box-sizing: inherit;"></source><img alt="Taylor Swift and Donna Kelce looked on at the Chiefs vs Broncos game" class="N4z" decoding="async" src="https://imgix.bustle.com/uploads/getty/2023/10/13/199cacba-bde3-4939-bd30-3ffd14b26258-getty-1732429946.jpg?w=374&h=249&fit=crop&crop=faces&auto=format%2Ccompress" style="backface-visibility: hidden; border: 0px; box-sizing: inherit; display: block; height: 508.406px; left: 0px; max-width: 100%; position: absolute; top: 0px; transform: translateZ(0px); transition: opacity 0.2s linear 0s; width: 762.609px;" /></picture></div><figcaption class="rv9 SJc" style="box-sizing: inherit; font-family: var(--fontFamilyBody); font-size: 0.75rem; line-height: 1; text-transform: uppercase;"><span class="Afu gh3" style="box-sizing: inherit; display: inline;">DAVID EULITT/GETTY IMAGES SPORT/GETTY IMAGES</span></figcaption></figure></div><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: inherit; font-family: Graphik, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: var(--bodyTextSize); grid-column: text; margin-bottom: var(--mobiledocSpacing); margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; position: relative; z-index: var(--zIndexContent);">As the game went on, Taylor and Donna were photographed talking to one another. At one point, Taylor leaned in to listen, so much so that their heads touched. “Both of them feel very comfortable,” Wood says. “Taylor is making the move to get in that close, and Donna is accepting of that. She still has that lifted facial expression, indicating genuine joy.”</p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: inherit; font-family: Graphik, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: var(--bodyTextSize); grid-column: text; margin-bottom: var(--mobiledocSpacing); margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; position: relative; z-index: var(--zIndexContent);">In the photo, Taylor and Donna are displaying similar facial expressions, especially if you look at their mouth and eyes. Apparently, the fact that they shared the “same expression” was another good sign. “They’re in the moment together,” Wood says.</p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: inherit; font-family: Graphik, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: var(--bodyTextSize); grid-column: text; margin-bottom: var(--mobiledocSpacing); margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; position: relative; z-index: var(--zIndexContent);">But Wood notes one surprising detail in this pic: how Taylor is holding her hands. “That odd way Taylor’s holding her hands tells me that she wants to put her hand on Donna’s shoulder, but she’s holding herself back from being too touchy-feely in front of the cameras.”</p><h2 style="background-color: white; border-top: 2px solid; box-sizing: inherit; font-family: var(--fontFamilyHeading); font-size: 3.5rem; grid-column: text; line-height: 0.95; margin: calc(var(--mobiledocSpacing) * 1.25) 0 calc(var(--mobiledocSpacing) * 1.5); padding: 1rem 0px 0px; position: relative; text-rendering: optimizelegibility;">They Mirrored Each Other</h2><div class="sWr J8p lw9 R6j" style="background-color: white; box-sizing: inherit; font-family: Graphik, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; grid-column: text; margin: var(--mobiledocSpacing) auto calc(var(--mobiledocSpacing) * 2); position: relative; width: 762.609px;"><figure class="Qf5 s1I" style="--videolinkurlheight: calc(100% - 75px); background: transparent; box-sizing: inherit; display: grid; gap: 0.5rem; grid-template-columns: 1fr; grid-template-rows: 1fr auto; height: auto; margin: 0px; max-width: var(--maxContainerWidth); padding: 0px; width: 762.609px; z-index: var(--zIndexContent);"><div class="pxF heF mvL s-519117789" style="box-sizing: inherit; grid-area: 1 / 1; min-height: 1px; min-width: 1px; padding-top: 508.406px; position: relative;"><picture style="box-sizing: inherit;"><source media="(min-width:1025px)" srcset="https://imgix.bustle.com/uploads/getty/2023/10/13/d08fbd7f-5699-474a-adc9-32e02336aa00-getty-1732433063.jpg?w=1320&h=880&fit=crop&crop=faces&auto=format%2Ccompress, https://imgix.bustle.com/uploads/getty/2023/10/13/d08fbd7f-5699-474a-adc9-32e02336aa00-getty-1732433063.jpg?w=1320&h=880&fit=crop&crop=faces&auto=format%2Ccompress&q=50&dpr=2 2x" style="box-sizing: inherit;"></source><source media="(min-width:768px)" srcset="https://imgix.bustle.com/uploads/getty/2023/10/13/d08fbd7f-5699-474a-adc9-32e02336aa00-getty-1732433063.jpg?w=688&h=459&fit=crop&crop=faces&auto=format%2Ccompress, https://imgix.bustle.com/uploads/getty/2023/10/13/d08fbd7f-5699-474a-adc9-32e02336aa00-getty-1732433063.jpg?w=688&h=459&fit=crop&crop=faces&auto=format%2Ccompress&q=50&dpr=2 2x" style="box-sizing: inherit;"></source><source srcset="https://imgix.bustle.com/uploads/getty/2023/10/13/d08fbd7f-5699-474a-adc9-32e02336aa00-getty-1732433063.jpg?w=374&h=249&fit=crop&crop=faces&auto=format%2Ccompress, https://imgix.bustle.com/uploads/getty/2023/10/13/d08fbd7f-5699-474a-adc9-32e02336aa00-getty-1732433063.jpg?w=374&h=249&fit=crop&crop=faces&auto=format%2Ccompress&q=50&dpr=2 2x" style="box-sizing: inherit;"></source><img alt="Taylor Swift and Donna Kelce look on before the game between the Kansas City Chiefs and the Denver B..." class="N4z" decoding="async" src="https://imgix.bustle.com/uploads/getty/2023/10/13/d08fbd7f-5699-474a-adc9-32e02336aa00-getty-1732433063.jpg?w=374&h=249&fit=crop&crop=faces&auto=format%2Ccompress" style="backface-visibility: hidden; border: 0px; box-sizing: inherit; display: block; height: 508.406px; left: 0px; max-width: 100%; position: absolute; top: 0px; transform: translateZ(0px); transition: opacity 0.2s linear 0s; width: 762.609px;" /></picture></div><figcaption class="rv9 SJc" style="box-sizing: inherit; font-family: var(--fontFamilyBody); font-size: 0.75rem; line-height: 1; text-transform: uppercase;"><span class="Afu gh3" style="box-sizing: inherit; display: inline;">DAVID EULITT/GETTY IMAGES SPORT/GETTY IMAGES</span></figcaption></figure></div><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: inherit; font-family: Graphik, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: var(--bodyTextSize); grid-column: text; margin-bottom: var(--mobiledocSpacing); margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; position: relative; z-index: var(--zIndexContent);">Throughout the game, Taylor and Donna seemed to be on the same page. In this photo, for example, Wood points out that they are “matching and mirroring” each other. “The fact that they’re both touching their noses is probably because something funny or crude happened.”</p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: inherit; font-family: Graphik, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: var(--bodyTextSize); grid-column: text; margin-bottom: var(--mobiledocSpacing); margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; position: relative; z-index: var(--zIndexContent);">It’s not just the one hand on the nose, either. “Both have their other hand up, too. And even their eye placement is very similar,” Wood says.</p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: inherit; font-family: Graphik, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: var(--bodyTextSize); grid-column: text; margin-bottom: var(--mobiledocSpacing); margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; position: relative; z-index: var(--zIndexContent);">That level of matching and mirroring is another good sign; not only were Taylor and Donna in the moment together, but they were sharing almost identical reactions to the experience, hinting at “like-mindedness.”</p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: inherit; font-family: Graphik, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: var(--bodyTextSize); grid-column: text; margin-bottom: var(--mobiledocSpacing); margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; position: relative; z-index: var(--zIndexContent);"><em style="box-sizing: inherit;">Source:</em></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: inherit; font-family: Graphik, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: var(--bodyTextSize); grid-column: text; margin-bottom: var(--mobiledocSpacing); margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; position: relative; z-index: var(--zIndexContent);"><em style="box-sizing: inherit;"><a href="http://www.pattiwood.net/" rel="noreferrer" style="background: transparent; border-bottom: 5px solid var(--slot4); box-sizing: inherit; cursor: pointer; overflow-wrap: break-word; text-decoration-line: none;" target="_blank">Patti Wood</a>, expert body language analyst and author of </em><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Snap-Making-Impressions-Language-Charisma/dp/1577319397" rel="noreferrer" style="background: transparent; border-bottom: 5px solid var(--slot4); box-sizing: inherit; cursor: pointer; overflow-wrap: break-word; text-decoration-line: none;" target="_blank">Snap: Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language, and Charisma</a></p></div><div><br /></div><div>Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.<br />
<a href="http://www.linkedin.com/in/bodylanguagespeaker" target="_blank"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjKIXUhoIY81tO8C6qZMI2Zv2QTn2MAa_9V-UKd5gfdwXPAPkaqlfWmcNdY90JEGjMWwcImq_7ZU-KwUIEddqzz_A-qxsORF2NEhwTCtqtAfqJa2r6VP_uVZAk3coGn7ZxA4mqW/s200/linkedin.png" /></a><a href="http://www.twitter.com/bodylanguagepw" target="_blank"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgt-UF4YYIuR8YOeErYT9DDDXEzMRZF9pv9tSY1-FkRMUF4P7STFmuFu0BQo3ZUhpQ1StYmM8ZbDSq0a_vswPjB-2UVFOIaUFwhKxJPK48yob5ToxuCIZFUlL8AySlksjoredjQ/s200/twitter.png" /></a><a href="http://www.youtube.com/user/bodylanguageexpert" target="_blank"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiZA9XTQ5tUhyphenhyphenzPIa-F13K97oYbCRkNRlFGCYpOP9S6-psIR01kiYDGEIYhEwrZfgtvlNykF1rPKzSVgcaYmDbWlkWJjgmb4b-0nDso4lmssc07Yiy2P6Oj90SB-ul3f9eD0OiE/s200/youtube.png" /></a></div>body language ladyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11258090507305790708noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19741562.post-50594402960131479952024-01-31T18:17:00.004-05:002024-02-02T15:02:30.710-05:00Body Language of Taylor Swift Analyzed by Body Language Expert Patti Wood<div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>Here is the <a href="https://www.elitedaily.com/relationships/taylor-swift-travis-kelce-afc-championship-body-language">LinktoTaylorSwiftBodyLanguagearticle</a> in Elite Daily<br /></div><div><br /></div><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEgLqRGkSzk3IjenTxN_1wDRnRC9jK4OMbzySZ8BKe03FkmnUqR95vTky-8vPv2fZ_ld0E0aNMYzKZrRzoXYw8oihqaCe5UmleN1p1c73dF8RrnyoPjs0is02ya0_HYVyprWS8CuKar9FF5KWnAerI5Qtjv-FmJRNBt1xICVJkJ-czBbxyhNHaSv" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="" data-original-height="1879" data-original-width="1320" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEgLqRGkSzk3IjenTxN_1wDRnRC9jK4OMbzySZ8BKe03FkmnUqR95vTky-8vPv2fZ_ld0E0aNMYzKZrRzoXYw8oihqaCe5UmleN1p1c73dF8RrnyoPjs0is02ya0_HYVyprWS8CuKar9FF5KWnAerI5Qtjv-FmJRNBt1xICVJkJ-czBbxyhNHaSv" width="169" /></a></div><br />Here is an Except for Elite Daily</div><div><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: inherit; font-family: Graphik, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: var(--bodyTextSize); grid-column: text; margin-bottom: var(--mobiledocSpacing); margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; position: relative; z-index: var(--zIndexContent);">Travis Kelce is headed to the <a href="https://www.elitedaily.com/lifestyle/travis-kelce-favorite-foods-donna-super-bowl-interview" style="background: transparent; border-bottom: 5px solid var(--slot4); box-sizing: inherit; cursor: pointer; overflow-wrap: break-word; text-decoration-line: none;">Super Bowl</a>, and Taylor Swift is celebrating her boyfriend’s success. On Jan. 29, the Kansas City Chiefs beat the Baltimore Ravens at the AFC Championship, meaning they’ll be at the NFL Championship on Feb. 11. Following the Chiefs’ 17-10 victory over the Ravens, Swift congratulated Kelce on the field, and their sweet post-game interaction is going viral.</p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: inherit; font-family: Graphik, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: var(--bodyTextSize); grid-column: text; margin-bottom: var(--mobiledocSpacing); margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; position: relative; z-index: var(--zIndexContent);">According to body language expert <a href="https://www.pattiwood.net/" rel="noreferrer" style="background: transparent; border-bottom: 5px solid var(--slot4); box-sizing: inherit; cursor: pointer; overflow-wrap: break-word; text-decoration-line: none;" target="_blank">Patti Wood</a>, there’s a legitimate reason behind fans’ interest in the couple — and it’s not just because both Swift and Kelce are uber-successful hotties. Instead, she tells Elite Daily that the sincerity in the couple’s body language is what’s so appealing — and it’s something fans are picking up on, even subconsciously.</p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: inherit; font-family: Graphik, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: var(--bodyTextSize); grid-column: text; margin-bottom: var(--mobiledocSpacing); margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; position: relative; z-index: var(--zIndexContent);">“When you're looking at them together, it makes you feel good,” Wood, who wrote <em style="box-sizing: inherit;">Snap: Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language, and Charisma</em>, explains. “People are saying, ‘Why are we so fascinated by them?’ It's because it's real. You're feeling some of their emotional state.”</p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: inherit; font-family: Graphik, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: var(--bodyTextSize); grid-column: text; margin-bottom: var(--mobiledocSpacing); margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; position: relative; z-index: var(--zIndexContent);">Tere’s a full breakdown of Swift and Kelce’s post-win body language. At the blue link above. </p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: inherit; font-family: Graphik, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: var(--bodyTextSize); grid-column: text; margin-bottom: var(--mobiledocSpacing); margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; position: relative; z-index: var(--zIndexContent);"><br /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: inherit; font-family: Graphik, Geneva, sans-serif; font-size: var(--bodyTextSize); grid-column: text; margin-bottom: var(--mobiledocSpacing); margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; position: relative; z-index: var(--zIndexContent);"><br /></p></div>Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.<br />
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Sweeney has been carrying herself in public recently, according to a body
language expert.<o:p></o:p></span></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 12pt;"><b><span style="color: #222526; font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 14pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"><br /></span></b></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 12pt;"><span style="color: #222526;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;"><a href="https://www.the-sun.com/who/sydney-sweeney/"><span style="color: #0072ee;">Sweeney</span></a> stars in the new film Anyone But
You alongside <a href="https://www.the-sun.com/entertainment/7951163/who-glen-powell-net-worth/"><span style="color: #0072ee;">Glen Powell</span></a> and has been engaged to <a href="https://www.the-sun.com/entertainment/4806081/sydney-sweeney-engaged-jonathan-davino-fiance-euphoria/"><span style="color: #0072ee;">Jonathan Davino</span></a> since early 2022.</span><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif; font-size: 14pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi-KHdzJKfnQWiGs83ZAtEHF4UZx3Ri-_1Ywhot-d5I1-WuGrIFA_xSlj3Hc5_vrXe5qOzbXFqik0WICEBhT12xlt9O91RToznQr9isrPqPLiRW832-nQ6Oq_5vdspXjTyTnGMXMrHNGYtCEeexwZJsPYsrDE5reDKuO3wUYi9vOu4eQGFHosAR/s680/1%20link.webp" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="680" data-original-width="620" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi-KHdzJKfnQWiGs83ZAtEHF4UZx3Ri-_1Ywhot-d5I1-WuGrIFA_xSlj3Hc5_vrXe5qOzbXFqik0WICEBhT12xlt9O91RToznQr9isrPqPLiRW832-nQ6Oq_5vdspXjTyTnGMXMrHNGYtCEeexwZJsPYsrDE5reDKuO3wUYi9vOu4eQGFHosAR/w365-h400/1%20link.webp" width="365" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span class="article__media-span" style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; margin-right: 4px; text-align: start;"><span style="color: #222526; font-family: The Sun;"><b>Sydney Sweeney and Glen Powell (pictured) have been making the rounds as they promote their new film, Anyone but You <br /></b></span></span><span class="article__credit" style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #6e7070; display: inline-block; font-family: "The Sun"; line-height: 2.2rem; text-align: start;">Credit: Getty Images - Getty</span></span></td></tr></tbody></table><p class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="color: #222526; font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 107%; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"> </span></b></p>
<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiUUh6EpB3Ca4VLf2_Rreup0Nzs9aGtz2qz4RczKbzCaWU35b2NRbcSiMFmMfyygJqA9tFNro4gzSieh0At9XLtTPt0RXA7SFZOZIULpHP9iu9YaTFEbTZJxXXo4JrjoyBl-dfh0RDAyx1aBnjJGJtrp-YFaRLs8v0PkvlWwhmtHMZwwCjO37Pp/s929/link%202.webp" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="929" data-original-width="620" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiUUh6EpB3Ca4VLf2_Rreup0Nzs9aGtz2qz4RczKbzCaWU35b2NRbcSiMFmMfyygJqA9tFNro4gzSieh0At9XLtTPt0RXA7SFZOZIULpHP9iu9YaTFEbTZJxXXo4JrjoyBl-dfh0RDAyx1aBnjJGJtrp-YFaRLs8v0PkvlWwhmtHMZwwCjO37Pp/w268-h400/link%202.webp" width="268" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span class="article__media-span" style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222526; font-family: "The Sun"; font-weight: 700; margin-right: 4px; text-align: start;">Jonathan Davino and Sweeney have been engaged since early 2022</span><span class="article__credit" style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #6e7070; display: inline-block; font-family: "The Sun"; line-height: 2.2rem; text-align: start;">Credit: Getty Images - Getty</span></span></td></tr></tbody></table><br /><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #222526;">Sweeney and Powell - who </span><a href="https://www.the-sun.com/entertainment/7975848/sydney-sweeney-and-glen-powell-dating/" style="background-color: white;"><span style="color: #0072ee;">sparked rumors</span></a><span style="background-color: white; color: #222526;"> earlier this year
while </span><a href="https://www.the-sun.com/entertainment/7834699/glen-powell-sydney-sweeney-kiss-movie/" style="background-color: white;"><span style="color: #0072ee;">looking flirty on set</span></a><span style="background-color: white; color: #222526;"> - have been
promoting the recently released film.</span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 12pt;"><span style="color: #222526;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;">Davino has also joined for some of Sweeney's appearances,
including earlier this week in Sydney, <a href="https://www.the-sun.com/where/australia/"><span style="color: #0072ee;">Australia</span></a>.<o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 12pt;"><span style="color: #222526;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;">But there have been some stark contrasts in how Sweeney has
carried herself around the two.<o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 12pt;"><span style="color: #222526;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;">Body language expert Patti Wood spoke exclusively to The
U.S. Sun to explain the differences in Sweeney's posture and positioning around
each of the men.<o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p style="background: white; margin-bottom: 12.0pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; margin: 0in 0in 12pt;"><span style="color: #222526;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;">In photos of
Sweeney and Davino about to board a private jet following a red-carpet
appearance in Sydney, Wood noticed some friction.<o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p style="background: white; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0in 0in 12pt; word-break: break-word;"><span style="color: #222526;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;">"She's got
so much tension in her body," the expert said of Sweeney.<o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p style="background: white; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0in 0in 12pt; word-break: break-word;"><span style="color: #222526;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;">But Wood noted
that Sweeney's super high heels and the fact that she had to hold her dress up
affected how she carried herself.<o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p style="background: white; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0in 0in 12pt; word-break: break-word;"><span style="color: #222526;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;">Sweeney looked
over her shoulder at Davino in one snap, which Wood said was "not a
pleasant look."<o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p style="background: white; margin-bottom: 12.0pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; margin: 0in 0in 12pt;"><span style="color: #222526;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;">“It is like
a little bubble beside her head would be saying 'Ew.’”<o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p style="background: white; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0in 0in 12pt; word-break: break-word;"><span style="color: #222526;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;">Wood said that could
have been because she had to climb stairs with an initial big step up to get on
the plane in those high heels.<o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p style="background: white; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0in 0in 12pt; word-break: break-word;"><span style="color: #222526;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;">“That's the only
time there’s a moment between them," she said.<o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p style="background: white; box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0in 0in 12pt; word-break: break-word;"><span style="color: #222526;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;">"The only
moment that she is sharing with him is that 'What the heck am I supposed to
do?' And he cannot really help her.”</span><span style="font-size: 14pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh0QYbkuAqq9lgw9cSFAZn6q9AwoagS7OJEj060-2CP5UejzKRPC_qk_dKSspDd2Ezx_o_E6u0UVaLBfFwnsMYYEA7vz79w0EhafcWU12wkIm35QiCdBK4xq-HfTF0abkKvsNSpyblIcoEEl77bycUAxPsORopTU13jskdLr-VY_iIKZOzB6g7d/s875/link%203.jpg" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="875" data-original-width="620" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh0QYbkuAqq9lgw9cSFAZn6q9AwoagS7OJEj060-2CP5UejzKRPC_qk_dKSspDd2Ezx_o_E6u0UVaLBfFwnsMYYEA7vz79w0EhafcWU12wkIm35QiCdBK4xq-HfTF0abkKvsNSpyblIcoEEl77bycUAxPsORopTU13jskdLr-VY_iIKZOzB6g7d/w284-h400/link%203.jpg" width="284" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span class="article__media-span" style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222526; font-family: "The Sun"; font-weight: 700; margin-right: 4px; text-align: start;">Sweeney and Davino board a private jet out of Sydney, Australia, after her movie premiere</span><span class="article__credit" style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #6e7070; display: inline-block; font-family: "The Sun"; line-height: 2.2rem; text-align: start;">Credit: BackGrid</span></span></td></tr></tbody></table><br /><p class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="color: #222526;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;">'DOESN'T REALLY WANT TO BE THERE'</span></span></b></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 12pt;"><span style="color: #222526;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;">But Sweeney was not alone in her seeming discomfort.<o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 12pt;"><span style="color: #222526;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;">Wood said of Davino: “More than anything, it just feels
like he is awkward, more like a kid dressed for Sunday school and does not want
to be dressed up.<o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 12pt;"><span style="color: #222526;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;">"That's the way his body language is - as if he
doesn’t really want to be there."<o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 12pt;"><span style="color: #222526;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;">Wood called Davino's leg placement awkward, along with his
choice of shoes with his suit and how he is holding his arms.<o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 12pt;"><span style="color: #222526;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;">"I’m getting this, 'I'm not where I want to be' kind
of vibe from him," she said.<o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 12pt;"><span style="color: #222526;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;">In all the images of the couple, Wood could physically see
Sweeney's discomfort.<o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 12pt;"><span style="color: #222526;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;">"She is holding the dress right at her 'private parts'
- so she is not showing that elegant-ness, ‘I’m super confident’ vibe,"
Wood said.<o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 12pt;"><span style="color: #222526;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;">"Even though she's gorgeous in that dress, she doesn't
feel that.<o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 12pt;"><span style="color: #222526;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;">"I’m getting the vibe that he's not helping her feel
that," Wood said of Davino.<o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 12pt;"><span style="color: #222526;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;">“He's not giving her a reassuring touch; he’s not learning
toward her ... [with her look back at him] there’s sort of an expectation that
he should help her and he's not fulfilling that role."</span><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif; font-size: 14pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 12pt;"><span style="color: #222526;"></span></p><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhs9G3kucwAzEI20qIEY2sDy8YpW6xW3pT15-M2V5J2xJ32lz1H5nqSQRj6FHhKAUKT3xS-ltIKGNjs6Dek8ecRVXElVLFEZAQyXyekv3e9qaw2djPhlwhKAPBoxJWfUEYRTHPOnwQahSnAdbggAxRn7CDIXPLOocFDNI7uUWA5hAidD5UVfVgK/s929/link%206.webp" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="929" data-original-width="620" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhs9G3kucwAzEI20qIEY2sDy8YpW6xW3pT15-M2V5J2xJ32lz1H5nqSQRj6FHhKAUKT3xS-ltIKGNjs6Dek8ecRVXElVLFEZAQyXyekv3e9qaw2djPhlwhKAPBoxJWfUEYRTHPOnwQahSnAdbggAxRn7CDIXPLOocFDNI7uUWA5hAidD5UVfVgK/w268-h400/link%206.webp" width="268" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span class="article__media-span" style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #222526; font-family: "The Sun"; font-weight: 700; margin-right: 4px; text-align: start;">Sweeney posed on the red carpet in Australia to promote the new film</span><span class="article__credit" style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #6e7070; display: inline-block; font-family: "The Sun"; line-height: 2.2rem; text-align: start;">Credit: Getty Images - Getty</span></span></td></tr></tbody></table><span style="color: #222526;"><br /></span><p></p><h3 style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222526; line-height: 2.8rem; margin: 0px 0px 16px; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;">'COMPLETELY DIFFERENT HER'</span></h3><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222526; font-family: "The Sun"; font-size: 18px; margin: 0px 0px 16px; word-break: break-word;">In a separate shot of Sweeney from the same evening, where she’s posing and confident, Wood picked up significant differences.</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 12pt;"><span style="color: #222526;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;"></span></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222526; font-family: "The Sun"; font-size: 18px; margin: 0px 0px 16px; word-break: break-word;">“This is a completely different her,” Wood said, comparing Sweeney with Davino to one particular press photo of the solo starlet.</p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222526; font-family: "The Sun"; font-size: 18px; margin: 0px 0px 16px; word-break: break-word;"><b style="background-color: transparent; font-family: times; font-size: large;">Continue reading:</b></p><p class="MsoNormal"><a href="https://www.the-sun.com/entertainment/9928547/sydney-sweeney-glen-powell-anyone-but-you-body-language/">'Different her,' Sydney Sweeney 'not getting what she needs' from fiancé but ‘feels like queen' with co-star Glen Powell | The US Sun (the-sun.com)</a></p><p class="MsoNormal"><br /></p><p class="MsoNormal">Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.</p></div>
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preparation for my TV interview</span></b></h2></blockquote><p> <b style="font-family: times;"><span style="font-size: medium;">1: RAMASWAMY Attacking
Haley about not being able to name PROVINCES</span></b></p><div><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;"><span>Vivek - “It is one thing
that Joe Biden and Nikki Haley have in common. Is that neither of them could
even state for you three provinces in eastern Ukraine that they want to send
our troops to fight for. Look at that. This is what I want people to
understand. She has no idea what the names of those provinces are but wants to
send our sons, daughters, and military equipment to go fight it.”</span><span><o:p></o:p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;"><span>My read - Ramaswamy FINGER
WAGGING Pointing– He did throughout the debates as a symbolic weapon, which was
not even acceptable in debates until a few years ago, but here it's worse he is
attacking a woman, yelling, and pointing over and over. You can say oh it is a
speech but in domestic violence and my threat assessment work that is a red
flag warning that the man wants to physically hurt you.</span><span><o:p></o:p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;"><span>It reminded me of the
Hilary Clinton Trump debate where he came across the stage and stalked up her
as she spoke. This is no small nonverbal behavior.</span><span><o:p></o:p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;"><span> <b>2: CHRISTIE
RAMASWAMY BLOWHARD </b>(CHRISTIE ATTACKING RAMASWAMY)</span><span><o:p></o:p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;"><span>Christie: “We see it on
video. We confront you on the debate stage. You say you did not say it and back
away. This is the fourth debate and you will be
voted in the first 20 minutes as the most<i style="font-weight: bold;"> obnoxious blowhard </i>in
America so shut up for a little while. (cheers).”</span><span><o:p></o:p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;"><span>My read - Christie – It is a
sword fight; you see Christie finger-pointing and wagging and Ramaswamy
pointing back. Christie's is Matching and Mirroring that level of violence.
Christie is relaxed resting his arm on the podium, in a nonverbal response that
says, “I have been fighting in the real world all my life buddy, you can’t
scare me.” Nonverbal Response</span><span><o:p></o:p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;"><b><span>3: Video of Haley being
attacked HALEY ATTENTION FELLAS</span></b><span><o:p></o:p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;"><span>DeSantis: “We know from
her history that Nikki will cave to those big donors when it counts”
//flash//Ramaswamy: “The only person more fascist than the Biden regime now is
Nikki Haley who thinks the government should identify every one of those
individuals with an ID. That is now freedom, that is fascism and she should
come nowhere near the levels of power let alone the white house.”
//flash//Haley: “<b><i>I love all the attention fellas, thank you for that.”</i></b></span><span><o:p></o:p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;"><span>My read - They Attacked
Haley for a good twelve minutes at the beginning of the debates. Their yelling,
angry faces, verbal insults, and the length of time were clear behavioral
indications. They think she is the one to beat. Notice she smiles, it is a
little bit tight, but her voice is warm and lilting beauty pageant way. </span><span><o:p></o:p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;"><b><span>4: DESANTIS TRUMP AGE</span></b><span> – “FATHER TIME IS UNDEFEATED”
(HAS LOTS OF YELLING)</span><span><o:p></o:p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-left: 1in; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; text-indent: -0.25in;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;"><span>a.</span><span> </span><span>(In 0:00) – (Shows Christie and DeSantis
yelling) “Someone that is almost 80 years old it does not mean that someone can
get elected. Ron! Ron!” //flash//” Father time is undefeated, and I do not know
how someone will score on a test, but I know this we have an opportunity to
nominate and elect someone for two terms.”</span><span><o:p></o:p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;"><span style="font-family: times;"><span style="font-size: medium;">My read - DeSantis here and
throughout the debates is giving an overly extended raised forehead, eyes wide
look that is the poster face for deception. In my deception detection speeches,
I give the example of a little 2-year-old covered in cookie crumbs saying with
that face, “I didn’t still the cookies I didn’t do it!”</span><span><o:p></o:p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;"><br /></p><p></p></div><div>Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.</div>
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system is your human lie detector, your early warning system for potential
stress and danger. When you feel safe, when something feels right and true, and
when you are with a good honest person with integrity your central nervous system
is calm. It alerts if there is danger.</span><span style="mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;"><span style="mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">For example, your limbic system can read thousands of nonverbal cues in a
fraction of a second in fact when you meet someone.</span><span style="mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<ol start="1" type="1">
<li class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list .5in;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;"><span style="mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"> </span><span style="mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">Receive the
visual image of a person's face in a hundredth of a second.</span><span style="mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list .5in;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;"><span style="mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"> Analyzes
details in a quarter of a second.</span><span style="mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list .5in;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;"><span style="mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">Synthesize all
the information into a single whole.</span><span style="mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list .5in;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;"><span style="mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"> </span><span style="mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">Recognizes this
face out of thousands, memory details second.</span><span style="mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list .5in;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;"><span style="mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">Interprets
expression on the face…</span><span style="mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list .5in;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;"><span style="mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">Forms feelings
toward the person</span><span style="mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list .5in;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;"><span style="mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">Decides what to
do with the person.</span><span style="mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></li>
<li class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; tab-stops: list .5in;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;"><span style="mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">Adjust the body
to deal with them.</span><span style="mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></li>
</ol>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;"><span style="mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"> <b>How can you tell if someone is honest, deceitful, or dangerous?</b></span><span style="mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;"><span style="mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">When you are in the presence of an honest person who has integrity your
body calms and unfolds, breathing deepens moving from high in the chest to the
belly.</span><span style="mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 12pt; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;"><span style="mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">When you are in danger your Limbic system will respond with the <b>Freeze,
Flight, Fight, Fall/Faint, or Friend Response. </b>Think of a squirrel in
the road in response to your car coming at them.<b> </b>When we are stressed,
doing something wrong or dangerous, or when we are in the presence of someone
who is out of integrity, lying, or doing something dangerous our limbic system
immediately gets the body ready. A first early warning perhaps hairs may rise
on your arms and legs, and your body will tense and tighten, your blood
pressure will rise, your heartbeat will increase, your cortisol levels may
rise, your breathing rate may increase, you may perspire and you may flush to
the surface of the skin or leave you pale as you freeze in place and or rushes
to your extremities so you can flight and flee... As your blood pressure
increasing the blood mu our blood pressure may rise your run-and-fight
breathing may increase, at any point, your mouth could go dry, you could have
trouble swallowing or yawning, you may perspire heave, start to heave, and or
fight-breathing may increase, your heart rate may increase anymore, you may
perspire, go dry mouth, have trouble swallowing, blink and you may feel nauseous,
YOUR GUT FEELS BAD. You may Freeze in place holding your body tense and tight,
Flight -you may pull back down or away, point or bounce your feet towards an
exit, Fight -tense up and form your hands into fists, feel faint, and or Friend
you may smile, tilt your head and lower and sweeten your voice to sound
unusually passive, even childlike or seductive or charming its accommodating
passivity.</span><span style="mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in; vertical-align: baseline;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;"><span style="mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">You may give off Comfort Cues when you are with someone bad or in a dire
situation. For example, you may <b>hug yourself, hold your hand touch your
face, adjust your clothing, hold on to the chair arms, or clutch an object
because. </b>Touch stimulates the nerve endings in the</span><span style="mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; vertical-align: baseline;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;"><span style="mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">skin so it sends signals to the brain
to release calming endorphins.<b> </b>When we are stressed, the brain
wants to restore itself to “normal” condition. The brain will enlist the body
to provide comforting touch behaviors. In other words, the brain requires the
body to do something that will stimulate nerve endings to release calming
endorphins in the brain so that the brain can be soothed.</span><span style="mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 12pt; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;"><span style="mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">AGAIN, THIS IS COMPLETELY DIFFERENT TO HOW YOU FEEL IN THE PRESENCE OF A
True North person. In the presence of a True North good person or a good
situation, your body warms and relaxes, you feel safe, comfortable,
calm, and sometimes both calm and energized in their presence. With free open
relaxed body movements and gestures, you may even notice that your breathing
changes, moving from high on your chest to your belly, is easy full, and deep
with regular interval flowing breaths, and your voice changes, becoming warmer,
fuller, and richer. You feel you can be fully yourself, say and do anything.</span><span style="mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 12pt; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;"><span style="background: white; color: #222222; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">Below is a very short video of me
talking about this and the technique to know if you are with a good person you
can trust.</span><span style="color: #222222; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"><br />
</span><span style="mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"><a href="https://www.blogger.com/blog/post/edit/19741562/1311958861702923895"><span style="background: white; color: #2288bb;">http://youtu.be/QQw4PCi18i0</span></a></span><span style="mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 12pt; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;"><span style="mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">You feel good after you are with them. You can get a highly charged
feeling of euphoria when you meet the Right Person, which means you still feel
good after you are with them. Your body has not had to go overdrive, so you
feel good. When you are with an emotionally toxic person, your central nervous
system goes on in overdrive to protect you. It may push tons of adrenaline and
cortisol into your system while you are with them, giving you a high, but that
is your body in danger mode of Freeze, Flight Fight, Fall, or Friend response. It
is quite different from the pleasant limerence high of love, and one of those
differences can be monitored by how you feel AFTER you are with them and how
you feel when you are about to see them. Do you think overstimulated with
racing thoughts and worries about what you said and did or what they might say
or do, or are you pleasantly excited?</span><span style="mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">2) How can someone tell if a gut feeling is based on emotion versus
intuition? Why is this an important distinction? There is a difference between
stereotypes and intuition. Stereotypes are based on past experiences and
prejudice and are formed in the neocortex where word language is formed and is extremely
low in accuracy, and you can feel highly emotional about your stereotypes or
preconceptions. Intuition or your gut response should take place in the limbic
system where emotions and body language are processed and is based on thousands
of cues you're able to detect and process so quickly that you may not be able
to have words to describe how you know<br />
<br />
3) How can believing you are lucky increase your chances of being lucky? How
does curiosity relate here and increase your chances for positive
opportunities? Pay conscious attention to what your body is saying to you. When
you are with new people, are in new situations, or making a decision do a
“Check In” scan of your body. What is your body language? Are you relaxed or
tense? Is your body open or closed? Write it all down. Record your gut
instincts. Then see if you were right. The more you notice, the more you can
improve. Research says that Judges are some of the best judges of deception
detection because they meet new people and have new situations, they have a gut
feeling they typically have notes on that feeling and then they see if they are
right and keep improving.</span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 12pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"><o:p></o:p></span></p></div><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhYhNbCV9v884JLCBWjqujAtaElyD5H_5FgQPpLoPjtR_wcDnXjUhk3xqq6VFMZ6_jYspSyuxsq1XP5eW-b60TMFVEFDWbVfzE6K0cvDjOy-isdRCYf8CLel4Gf3VLHqcjkPOGc4U9pQfaj0JlWiE3CXNTq7A7ZowAUjYuvmjJ6_GwU8afbq2EG/s1024/US181208B-FEA-four-leaf-David-P.-Leonard-Courtesy-Teva-Harrison-768x1024.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1024" data-original-width="768" height="353" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhYhNbCV9v884JLCBWjqujAtaElyD5H_5FgQPpLoPjtR_wcDnXjUhk3xqq6VFMZ6_jYspSyuxsq1XP5eW-b60TMFVEFDWbVfzE6K0cvDjOy-isdRCYf8CLel4Gf3VLHqcjkPOGc4U9pQfaj0JlWiE3CXNTq7A7ZowAUjYuvmjJ6_GwU8afbq2EG/w265-h353/US181208B-FEA-four-leaf-David-P.-Leonard-Courtesy-Teva-Harrison-768x1024.jpg" width="265" /></a></div><br /> <o:p></o:p><p></p></div><div><br /></div>Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.<br />
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work, he would give a high two-note whistle to signal he was home and my
mother, my sisters and I would run to him. It did not matter what we
were doing. My mother’s cake batter could be stirred later, my sister’s music
or homework could be tended to later and my Barbie could wait to go out in the
convertible with Ken. Daddy was our priority, we loved him, and we would run to
him, sharing hugs and kisses. He would grab me in his arms and throw me in the air. We would all share love and laughter. This is what love looked like to me and I thought everyone shared it. </span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: large;">Years later I learned how special and valuable that ritual is. I was about four years into a relationship with my love, my fiancé Bud. And every day no matter what I was doing, on a deadline for a proposal, deep into writing a speech, or on the phone with an important client in my upstairs office, when I heard Bud come home, I would stop whatever I was doing and run to him, leap to his arms and kiss him. It was wonderful.</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;"><span style="font-family: times;"><span style="background: white; color: #222222; font-size: large; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">One day Bud came home and ran to him
and while I was in his arms, my head resting on his chest, he started crying, I
led him to the sofa and asked him what was wrong. Bud had been married and
divorced two times when I met him, and he had a life-limiting health issue. He
had been through a lot. </span></span><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: times; font-size: large;">He said, "Patti, you know I was married twice before I met you and you
know my family, my parents were never affectionate. And some days at work it is
so hard, and I must go out to my car in the parking lot and do my breathing
exercises and it can get so bad. But I just hold on, because I know with
absolute certainty that when I come home you will run to me. I have never been
loved like this before, I didn’t even know what it looked like, but now I have
it and love you so much for always running to me."</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;"><span style="font-family: times;"><span style="background: white; color: #222222; font-size: large; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">I share with my audience around the country the importance of
greeting your loved ones in my Body Language and First Impressions speech, but
I do not share this story in every speech, because when I do share it, I start
to tear up. He should have had that kind of love his whole life. I wrote a song
about it that is at the bottom of the article. Also when I share it I get phone calls and emails from audience members sharing how profoundly changing their greeting behavior impacted their relationships.</span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;"><span style="font-family: times;"><span style="background: white; color: #222222; font-size: large; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">Here is the science behind it that shows how important it is in all our relationships. </span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: large;"><span style="background: white; color: #222222; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">In <b>Persuasion Theory</b>, the <b>Primacy
Effect</b> profoundly affects our viewpoint. The Primacy effect says people
remember the first thing you say or do. In my book, <b>"SNAP Making the Most
of First Impressions Body Language and Charisma"</b> I share insights into how
first impressions impact our relationships. The first thing you say or do when
you come through the door or when someone you love comes through the door is
what they will most easily remember about you for the rest of the evening, or
longer. Your first behavior also creates an <b>“Anchoring Bias."</b> That is that
we rely heavily, sometimes too heavily, on the first behavior, that first piece
of information we get about someone. Greeting loved ones at the door is a
first-behavior opportunity. It is the first set of behaviors we have about how
the person or people in the house feel about us. </span><span><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: large;"><span style="background: white; color: #222222; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">I highly recommend that no matter
where you are in the house, drop whatever you are doing, and greet your sweetie
and other family members with a kiss or a hug hello. Go to them
immediately, even if you are on the phone, working, cooking, online, watching
TV, whatever. It communicates that they are the most important thing to you.</span><span><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: large;">In business, the Primacy Effect and Anchoring Bias affect
how customers see your business and how employees feel about their fellow team
members, managers, and executives. For example, if you come into the workplace or
a meeting while on your phone and do not greet people in the room you are
communicating to them that they are not important.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: large;">Here is a related article for you about your business greeting impression. <a href="https://www.pattiwood.net/article.asp?PageID=13306">https://www.pattiwood.net/article.asp?PageID=13306</a></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: large;">In
addition to being an author and keynote speaker, I am a songwriter. Here is the
song I wrote about the feeling someone gets from having you ru</span><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;">n to them written
from my Fiancé’s Perspective. <o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in; text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;"> </span><b style="text-align: center;"><span><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;">You Run to Me </span></span></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in; text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;"><b><span>by Patti Wood</span></b><span style="text-align: left;"> </span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;">Mornings, I kiss you, grab my coffee and I drive. <o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;">I turn
on the radio, the traffic hell on 285.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;">At work
I’m invisible, no one even knows what I do.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;">Break my
back, gets no thanks, but I grind through.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;">Life is
hard, takes me low, <o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;">but one
thing is guaranteed,<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;">I can
get through bad days ‘cause I know.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;">When I
get home, you run to me.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;">When I
get home, you run to me. <o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;">Today
everybody’s tense. They let 2 guys go. <o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;">Have to
stay late. I’m tired, but I don’t let it show.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;">I hold
on to thought of you in my arms all day.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;">Roll up
my sleeves, buckle down, earn my pay.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;">Life is
hard, takes me low, <o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;">but one
thing’s guaranteed.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;">I can
get through bad days ‘cause I know.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;">When I
get home, you run to me.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;">When I
get home, you run to me.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;"><b> <i>Bridge</i></b><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;">I’ve
never told you this before.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;">How you
make me feel when I open the door<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;">That
there’s one thing I am certain of<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;">I can
always count on your love.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;">Life is
hard, takes me low,<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;">but one
thing’s guaranteed. <o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;">I can
get through the bad days ‘cause I know.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;">When I
get home, you run to me.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;">When I
get home, you run to me.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in;"><span><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;">When I
get home, you run to me.</span><span style="font-family: Times New Roman, serif; font-size: 14pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><b> </b></p></div><div><br /></div>Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.<br />
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DESANTIS IN THE DEBATE</span></b></div><div><p class="MsoListParagraph" style="mso-list: l1 level1 lfo1; text-align: left; text-indent: -0.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpLast" style="background: white; line-height: normal; margin-left: 2.25pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;"><b><span style="color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">Smiles
are a key nonverbal behavior to show “Likeability” one of the four first
impressions factors. Smile makes us feel safe as in, “Hey that guy is smiling
and looks like he would be safe to approach.” We like to see candidates give
sincere smiles. It feels especially good to see them smile as they talk about
something positive so there is an ideal emotional match to their smile.</span></b><span style="color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 10.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; line-height: normal; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;"><b><span style="color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">I have researched
smiling including research as the National Spokesperson for the Natural Dentist
Toothpaste. They sponsored my research. We showed that the way you smile
reveals your DISC personality preference.</span></b><span style="color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 10.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; line-height: normal; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;"><b><span style="color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">On the DISC personality
inventory, DeSantis is C. Critiques tend to give brief subtle “closed mouth
smiles with little arching,” but he has been coached to smile so he overdoes it
and gives it when it doesn’t match what is being said, and he has to force it
to be large and last so we see him paste it on, can’t keep it there drops off
and expends enormous effort to turn it on again. Newsom has a resting smile
face. He is an I, influencer, on the DISC which creates an advantage in
Debates.</span></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; line-height: normal; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;"><b style="text-indent: -20.25pt;"><span style="color: #2b2c30; font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">2 - <span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size: 7pt; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal;"> </span></span></b><b style="text-indent: -20.25pt;"><span style="color: #2b2c30; font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">NEWSOM’S TAKEDOWN AND DESANTIS’
RESPONSE</span></b></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="background: white; line-height: normal; margin-left: 2.25pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;"><b><span style="color: #2b2c30; font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">Note
Newsom’s hand to chest, how is that going for you? To say he knows DeSantis
should feel it. Notice how DeSantis gives a big smile and tries to hold, his
subtle smile would have shown Newsom, “You’re not bothering me,” and at one
point we see forehead brows, mouth turn down, smiling through my tears face, which
was painful to watch.</span></b></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; line-height: normal; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;"><span style="color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">a.</span><span style="color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 7.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"> </span><span style="color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">Newsom:
"You trolling folks and trying to find migrants to play political games
and trying to get some news and attention so you can out-Trump Trump and by the
way how’s that going for you? How is that going for you, Ron? You are down 41
points in your own home state.” (ends with Newsom pointing a finger)</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; line-height: normal; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;"><b style="text-indent: -0.25in;"><span style="color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">3 - </span></b><span style="color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 7pt; text-indent: -0.25in;"> </span><b style="text-indent: -0.25in;"><span style="color: #2b2c30; font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">SOT
DESANTIS NEWSOM FIL</span></b></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; line-height: normal; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;"><span style="color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">a.</span><span style="color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 7.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"> </span><span style="color: #2b2c30; font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">DeSantis
“So I was talking to a fellow who had made the move from California to Florida
and he was telling me that Florida is much more governed, safer, much better
budgeted, lower taxes all this stuff and he was really happy with the quality
of life and </span><span style="color: #0f1419; font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">then he paused and said ‘by the way, I’m Gavin Newsom’s
father-in-law.’</span><span style="color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"> So, we do count Gavi’s in-laws as some of the people
who have fled California. (ends with Gavin smiling and looking at the camera).</span><span style="color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 10.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; line-height: normal; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;"><b><span style="color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">Here we see Newsome
enjoy the ribbing, he gives a big smile that comes more naturally, you see it
rise and go up his full face, his cheeks his eyes change and go all the way up
to lift his forehead., so it shows he is enjoying himself.</span></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; line-height: normal; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;"><b style="text-indent: -0.25in;"><span style="color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">4 -</span></b><span style="color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 7pt; text-indent: -0.25in;"> </span><b style="text-indent: -0.25in;"><span style="color: #2b2c30; font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">SOT
DESANTIS SF POOP MAP Talking point could have been funny if DeSantis’ nonverbal
delivery had been playful, instead, he held his body stiff and gave loud gruff
angry voice delivery and held his body stiff</span></b></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; line-height: normal; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;"><span style="color: #2b2c30; font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">DeSantis: “This is a map of San
Francisco. There are a lot of plots on that, and you may be asking what is that
plotting? Well, this is an APP where they plot the human feces that are found
on the streets of San Francisco. You can see how, just about, the whole map is
covered.”</span><span style="color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 10.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; line-height: normal; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;"><u><span style="color: #2288bb; font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"><a href="https://twitter.com/ClayTravis/status/1730431474359255079">https://twitter.com/ClayTravis/status/1730431474359255079</a></span></u><span style="color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 10.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; line-height: normal; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;"><b><span style="color: #2b2c30; font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">SOT NEWSOM IMMIGRATION
(DESANTIS SAYING “FALSE”) What is interesting here is that Newsome, DeSantis
says the word, “False” the second time, and instead of an easy-going full face
flowing smile he actually grits his teeth, then his head and upper body dip
down and when he comes up we see him transform to an angry eyed glare.</span></b><span style="color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 10.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; line-height: normal; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;"><span style="color: #2b2c30; font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">Newsom: “You supported Obama’s efforts
to (DeSantis: that is false) advance comprehensive reform (DeSantis: “false”).
The last guy you want to talk to on immigration. Your immigration policy can
best be described as, “a governor from the state of Florida going into another
state, the state of Texas, and lying to migrants promising them jobs and
housing.”</span><span style="color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 10.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; line-height: normal; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;"><span style="color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 7.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"> </span><b><span style="color: #2b2c30; font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">SOT
DESANTIS GENDER QUEER BOOK Here DeSantis is delivering what he feels is a
serious message, so his emotions are in alignment with what he is feeling so it
comes off well.</span></b><span style="color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 10.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; line-height: normal; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;"><span style="color: #2b2c30; font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">“I have something that I brought that
some parents have objected to. This is a book that is in some of the schools in
California. In Florida, this is not consistent with our standards. Called
“Gender Queer.” Some have been blacked
out as you would not be able to show it on air, this is pornography, it is not
cartoons, it is aimed at children, and it is wrong.”</span><span style="color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 10.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; line-height: normal; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;"><br /></p></div>Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.<br />
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 14pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">In these straitened times, however, it seems all you must do is carry it
in the right way.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 14pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">Body language expert Patti Wood has analyzed how women hold their
handbags and suggests there are ten distinctive styles that reveal volumes
about their personalities.<o:p></o:p></span></p></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEjSET89YihPn2Sa6FumNlSLG3mOdcVkyNIa4eDQtbxTFJ7gI74KI0xsYUKf-G7Cqo1U-JYncNClrWrXJGyvIxXShXZNbVt_2uNdQuC5gZUl1FRc5etD_bY4c0rXd3kEJIe5kaNOh4itAAcIyMp3HPyIvnbt_jkwU9MkQL4dok5mT0ik5Y6CCFNP" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="" data-original-height="1059" data-original-width="991" height="640" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEjSET89YihPn2Sa6FumNlSLG3mOdcVkyNIa4eDQtbxTFJ7gI74KI0xsYUKf-G7Cqo1U-JYncNClrWrXJGyvIxXShXZNbVt_2uNdQuC5gZUl1FRc5etD_bY4c0rXd3kEJIe5kaNOh4itAAcIyMp3HPyIvnbt_jkwU9MkQL4dok5mT0ik5Y6CCFNP=w600-h640" width="600" /></a></div><div><br /></div><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 14pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">For example, while a woman who holds her handbag tightly under her arm in
the ‘Armpit Vice’ may merely think she is freeing up her arms, the look also
suggests awkwardness, according to American author Patti Wood.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 14pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">Younger women, she says, tend to go for ‘The Hands-Free’ look, wearing a
bag draped across their body from one shoulder.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 14pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">But Miss Wood warns: ‘The girl who wears a hands-free bag willingly
covers up her silhouette and outfit. It is useful but it also shows you are
slightly dorky.’<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 14pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">Meanwhile ‘street-smart’ women are likely to adopt the protective
‘Thumb-to-Pit’ style, keeping their thumb firmly hooked around the bag’s handle
in a look often sported by Sarah Jessica Parker’s character Carrie in Sex and
The City.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 14pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">Few mere mortals, however, are likely to find themselves in the final
category – the ‘I’ve Got a Bag Bitch’ look.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 14pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">Usually reserved for royalty and, occasionally, Victoria Beckham, it
involves not carrying a handbag at all, because you have an assistant – or
boyfriend – to carry it for you.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 14pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">‘When people feel the need to look fabulous all the time, they can’t be
encumbered with anything,’ Miss Wood said.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 14pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"><br /></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 7.5pt; margin-top: 0in; margin: 0in 7.5pt 0in 0in; text-indent: -0.25in;"><span style="font-family: ""Times New Roman"",serif; font-size: 7pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"> </span><span style="font-family: Symbol; font-size: 10pt; text-indent: -0.25in;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size: 7pt; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size: 7pt; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal; text-indent: -0.25in;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: 0in; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 7.5pt; margin-top: 0in; margin: 0in 7.5pt 0in 0in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo2; tab-stops: list .5in; text-indent: -0.25in;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-size: xx-small;"> </span><span style="font-size: medium;">Read more: </span></span><span style="font-size: medium;"><a href="http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2263105/What-way-hold-bag-says-The-distinctive-styles-reveals-volumes-personalities.html#ixzz32RYmBJOK"><span face=""Arial",sans-serif" style="color: #003399; line-height: 115%; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2263105/What-way-hold-bag-says-The-distinctive-styles-reveals-volumes-personalities.html#ixzz32RYmBJOK</span></a><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="line-height: 115%;"> </span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><br /></p></div><div><br /></div>Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.<br />
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is your New Year's Resolution and or What are your goals for the new year and
how do you achieve them?<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 16pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 16pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">I
do two-day team building workshops with the C-Suites Executives of a company.
As part of that program, I help them create or update their company Mission
Statement and set goals to achieve and maintain their mission statement as well
as help the individual set a personal resolution for the year. Here are some of
the tools I use in the workshops and in my business that may help you achieve
your New Year's Resolutions. <o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 16pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoListParagraph" style="mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -0.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 16pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;">1<span style="font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size: 7pt; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="font-size: 16pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">Post your resolutions/goals
above your desk and or put them on your laptop and or on your paper planner. Read
it/them each morning. When you have to make any difficult decisions and or you
find you aren’t getting anything done read it again. <o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoListParagraph"><span style="font-size: 16pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">Set up a time to check in and see if your resolution is working for you
and if your behaviors are in alignment with them. ng in with their resolution
to see if it was in alignment. Give yourself permission to change your
resolution if it’s not serving you. <o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoListParagraph" style="mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -0.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 16pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;">2)<span style="font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size: 7pt; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="font-size: 16pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">When setting a resolution
for your work you may want to ask your clients/customers for feedback to
determine WHAT to work on. I teach this to my clients and do this myself. In
December I call all my clients from the previous year and ask for their
feedback on how my team and I served them and what we can do better. That helps
me determine my resolution and goals for the next year. <o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoListParagraph" style="mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -0.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 16pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;">3)<span style="font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size: 7pt; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="font-size: 16pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">I have a one-sentence Resolution
that changes each year. Yours can be as simple as, “How can I best serve others
in this moment?” “Choose what will bring
you peace.” “What is the most important thing to work on at this moment to make
my business successful?” “What can I do today to become the go-to expert in
body language and nonverbal communication.”
the go-to expert in your field?”, “Chose Joy” and “Say yes to
adventure.” “Do what brings you wealth and happiness.” <o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoListParagraph"><span style="font-size: 16pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoListParagraph" style="mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -0.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 16pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;">4)<span style="font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size: 7pt; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="font-size: 16pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"> Share your statement with someone. You can get
a Resolution Partner, a Mastermind Group, or a friend. You don’t have to do
more than share it but it helps to plan a time say twice a year, once a month
or so to share your challenges and successes around your resolution and goals.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoListParagraph"><span style="font-size: 16pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoListParagraph" style="mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -0.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 16pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;">5)<span style="font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size: 7pt; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="font-size: 16pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">“Calendar Out” your
resolution and goals. Break them down and set daily time to achieve them. Go
through your entire calendar year and set aside specific days times, and
amounts of time to work on your goals. <o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 16pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoListParagraph" style="mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -0.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 16pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;">6)<span style="font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size: 7pt; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="font-size: 16pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">The fifteen-minute tool. I
teach my clients that consistently planned work on tasks to achieve their
resolution/goal and doing it at the same time each day and for a certain amount
of time makes it easy to do the task and it pays off.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoListParagraph"><span style="font-size: 16pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoListParagraph"><span style="font-size: 16pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">For example, each morning I spend 15 minutes or more if I have time,
working on a task that can help me achieve my mission. For example, years ago
when I was working on the resolution to become one of the top body language
experts in the country, I set aside 15 minutes each morning to check the news
for any top story that could be related to body language and write a blog post
about it. I did that for FIVE YEARS and that led to being contacted by the
media, a job as a national spokesperson for Wrigley’s Gum, my first national TV
interview on Regis and Kelly, and regular guest segments on other news shows,
and change in my keynote status and fees to “Expert Speaker.” The joke was some of my colleagues said I
suddenly became an “overnight success.” <o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoListParagraph"><span style="font-size: 16pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 16pt; text-indent: -0.25in;">7)<span style="font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size: 7pt; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><span style="font-size: 16pt; text-indent: -0.25in;">Pair gratitude with your
resolution and goals. I recommend using a gratitude journal that also has a
space to set daily, weekly, and monthly goals and if they work in a creative
field, space to do Julia Cameron’s “Morning Pages. Morning pages get rid of the
garbage thoughts, worries, and concerns that keep you from working effectively.</span></p><p class="MsoListParagraph"><span style="font-size: 16pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoListParagraph"><span style="font-size: 16pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal">
</p><p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal">Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.</p></div>
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communication, there is a category called <b><span style="color: #222222; letter-spacing: -.25pt;">Artifacts. Artifacts -</span></b><span style="color: #222222;"> are material things we wear or attach to or put on our
bodies to express our identities and connections to other people. These include
wedding rings, earrings, makeup, tattoos, a small dog we carry, etc. In addition, they include things like long painted fingernails,
uniforms to display professionalism and draw respect from people, colors like
red that create excitement, and high-end luxury branding on items. <o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="color: #222222; font-family: "Calibri Light",sans-serif; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-theme-font: major-latin; mso-bidi-theme-font: major-latin; mso-hansi-theme-font: major-latin;"> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="color: #222222; font-family: "Calibri Light",sans-serif; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-theme-font: major-latin; mso-bidi-theme-font: major-latin; mso-hansi-theme-font: major-latin;">In nonverbal communication, the amount of space
something takes up and the significance of that space communicates. So a larger
matching tattoo would symbolize more significance and a more visible and or
important space on the body would also increase the significance and the
importance of the bond between the couple. In addition, the symbol would
communicate what is important to the couple. It could be a shared memory like
an Irish </span><span style="background: white; color: #202122; font-family: "Calibri Light",sans-serif; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-theme-font: major-latin; mso-bidi-theme-font: major-latin; mso-hansi-theme-font: major-latin;">A <b>Claddagh </b> (</span><span style="font-family: "Calibri Light",sans-serif; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-theme-font: major-latin; mso-bidi-theme-font: major-latin; mso-hansi-theme-font: major-latin;"><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Irish_language" title="Irish language"><span style="background: white; color: #3366cc;">Irish</span></a><span style="background: white; color: #202122;">: </span></span><i><span lang="GA" style="background: white; color: #202122; font-family: "Calibri Light",sans-serif; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ansi-language: GA; mso-ascii-theme-font: major-latin; mso-bidi-theme-font: major-latin; mso-hansi-theme-font: major-latin;">fáinne Chladaigh</span></i><span style="background: white; color: #202122; font-family: "Calibri Light",sans-serif; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-theme-font: major-latin; mso-bidi-theme-font: major-latin; mso-hansi-theme-font: major-latin;">) is a traditional Irish symbol a heart
represents love, the crown stands for loyalty, and two clasped hands symbolize
friendship</span><span style="color: #222222; font-family: "Calibri Light",sans-serif; font-size: 14.0pt; mso-ascii-theme-font: major-latin; mso-bidi-theme-font: major-latin; mso-hansi-theme-font: major-latin;"> or it might be a shared memory like a mountain to
symbolize a trip/location where they became engaged or a musician’s name or
face that they share a passion for. <o:p></o:p></span></p>
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relationship with your device by bending your head, neck, and upper body over
it staring at the device, and touching the device. There are critical “Body
Windows” at the eyes, neck, heart, and palms of the hands that you would
normally have open to your partner that you are now closing off from them and
opening to your device. For example, typically when you communicate you turn
your heart towards the person and do not have barriers, like folded arms or
objects between you as you communicate. So, even if you start talking to your
partner while you have a device, the device may keep you from turning
completely towards them and may function as a barrier preventing clear
communication and signally you want to be open honest and connect fully. I have
a chapter in one of my books where I recommend the best body language cues for
listening called GENTLER body language that I will put at the end of my
responses.</span></span></p><p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin-left: 2.25pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;">Also, research shows
that when you are in communication situations, merely with your device in the
room and off you tend to pay less attention to the humans in the room, have
lower levels of cognition, and retain less information from the interactions.</span></p><p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin-left: 2.25pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;"><span style="text-indent: -20.25pt;"><span style="font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal;">3.</span><span style="font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><span style="text-indent: -20.25pt;">How To Bring Up
Phubbing with Your Partner. Be clear and specific. Say what you want and why. Do
not generalize or attack. “I care about you and our relationship and want to
connect with you more.” “The last three weeks you have come home on your phone
as you enter the house and don’t stop to say hello or hug me and during dinner,
you have your phone on and keep checking it and when you watch TV you are bent
over it, looking at it or the TV for hours at a time rather than turning
towards me and interacting’ I feel ignored. I want to know what you are doing
and feeling and would like us to talk about making our relationship a priority
and how much time you are on your device when we are together.”</span></span></p><p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin-left: 2.25pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;"><span style="text-indent: -20.25pt;"><span style="font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal;">4. How</span></span><span style="text-indent: -20.25pt;"> to Stop Phubbing
Your Partner Change the settings on your devices to either turn off social
media when you are home with your partner or reduce the hours you can be on
your device. Have a box by the door to drop your device in when you come
through the door to show your partner, they are now your priority. Do not bring
your phone to the table or the sofa!</span></span></p><p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin-left: 2.25pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;">When you are talking
with people you form strong neural pathways to the social centers of the brain
that make it easier and more comfortable to communicate and bond and according
to research even make it easier to make decisions and deal with stress.</span></p><p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: normal; margin-left: 2.25pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto;"><span style="font-family: times; font-size: medium;">The quick shallow
decisions you make on a device rewire your brain to create neural pathways to
the ego centers of your brain and give you a dopamine hit. You may feel a
dopamine withdrawal when you reduce your hours on your devices. Notice the
times of day and the locations where you may have created an unhealthy ritual
to always be on your phone and see if you cannot have a device with you in that
location or at that time. It may be helpful to do activities with your partner
that preclude being on a device, like cooking together, exercising and walking
together, playing card games, or going to a concert. You can create healthy new
rituals and make those activities always device-free going forward. </span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 107%;"> </span></p></div>Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.<br />
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but when you get to the other side of the conflict you feel better. If you
know what normal, happy, and healthy behavior is in your relationship it is
easier to see when your partner's behavior changes to something that feels
uncomfortable. Your body does not relax and feel calm. Often this occurs
because your limbic system is noticing negative nonverbal cues, and your
central nervous system is keeping you alert to danger. </span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 12pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; line-height: 13.8pt; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; vertical-align: baseline;"><span style="color: #111111; font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">When
you stay stressed and feel that something is constantly off, but you cannot put
your finger on it, it may be time to consciously look for concrete observable
behaviors that are making you feel uncomfortable and address them with your
partner. </span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 12pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; line-height: 13.8pt; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; vertical-align: baseline;"><span style="color: #111111; font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">What
you are looking for are changes from their normal behavior that cannot be
explained by other external issues like health problems and work stress.
Ideally, you see a sign and address it. If you see multiple signs there is more
danger, and even then, it is best to start by addressing one issue at a time in
a conversation. </span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 12pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; line-height: 13.8pt; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; text-indent: -0.25in; vertical-align: baseline;"><span style="color: #111111; font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">1.</span><span style="color: #111111; font-family: ""Times New Roman"",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"> </span><b><span style="color: #111111; font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">Space </span></b><span style="color: #111111; font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">One of
the most important things to be aware of, and one of the basic foundational
principles of body language, is that you go towards what you like, and you
retreat from or run away from what you do not like. If the norm was for your
partner to lean in as you spoke, a healthy sign in a relationship, and now they
are leaning away or reverting when you come near, it may be an indicator
something is off in the relationship. Do they change how much time they spend
sitting near you? Do they change the amount of time they spend in the same room
as you?</span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 12pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; line-height: 13.8pt; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; text-indent: -0.25in; vertical-align: baseline;"><span style="color: #111111; font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">2.</span><span style="color: #111111; font-family: ""Times New Roman"",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"> </span><b><span style="color: #111111; font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">Time</span></b><span style="color: #111111; font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"> A
Be aware of the time spent together - and apart. Although it is normal for
schedules to become busier, couples should want to spend time together. If this
changes, becoming anything from not spending weekend days with you that they
did before or coming home late or leaving for work early, and there is no other
“external cause,” it might be worth speaking to your partner. Another indicator
is eye contact or a lack thereof.</span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 12pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; line-height: 13.8pt; margin-bottom: 0in; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; text-indent: -0.25in; vertical-align: baseline;"><span style="color: #111111; font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">3.</span><span style="color: #111111; font-family: ""Times New Roman"",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"> </span><b><span style="color: #111111; font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">Eye
contact </span></b><span style="color: #111111; font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">When somebody loves you, they like looking at you. If there
is a sudden change in the amount of time, they spend looking at you and making
eye contact with you,” it is not a good sign. </span><span style="color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">Touch
is a powerful communicator so changes in the number of times they touch you or
the location they touch you are telling. If your partner used to love holding
your hand but suddenly has no interest in physical contact, their body may be
telling you something that they have not verbally said. Whether they are
made consciously or not, non-verbal clues can be an important indicator of
the health of your relationship. </span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 12pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 13.8pt; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; text-indent: -0.25in;"><span style="color: #111111; font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">4.</span><span style="color: #111111; font-family: ""Times New Roman"",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"> </span><b><span style="color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">Phubbing,</span></b><span style="color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"> They
are paying attention to their devices instead of being fully present with
you. </span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">Especially if there is a sudden change/increase.</span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 12pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 13.8pt; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; text-indent: -0.25in;"><span style="color: #111111; font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">5.</span><span style="color: #111111; font-family: ""Times New Roman"",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"> </span><b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">Wedding ring
behavior </span></b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">Playing with or not wearing their wedding ring. <span style="background: white; color: #222222;">Your central nervous system is stressed
when you see human behavior that does not make sense to you. When for example
the body language and the words spoken do not align. So for example a man says
he cares for you but does not wear the wedding ring you have him or plays with
he plays with it when he is out with you and there are other attractive women
around, or you are single and out with a business colleague and he is flirting
with you subtly while playing with a wedding ring that his wife gave him. There
is a mismatch there and it drives the limbic brain crazy and alerts the central
nervous system to stress mode. (The stress responses are freeze flee, fight,
fall, or faint) So if you see the behavior and for a moment you freeze in place
and are speechless be wary and know that something is very wrong. Side note. I
am fascinated with autobiographies and biographies of women. I read Elizabeth
Edwards autobiography a few years ago and was struck by a chapter where she
discusses how her husband kept losing his wedding band when he went out
running and how she bought several wedding bands for him so he would always
have one. The writing in that section was so odd and stilted. You know she
wanted to say, I know my husband is cheating on me, but darn it, I am going to
fight for this relationship.</span></span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 12pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 13.8pt; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; text-indent: -0.25in;"><span style="color: #111111; font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">6.</span><span style="color: #111111; font-family: ""Times New Roman"",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"> </span><b><span style="background: white; color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">Sleep </span></b><span style="background: white; color: #222222; font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 13.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;">Are
there changes in the way they sleep? I have done research on couples’ sleep
positions and a sudden change, which is not to physical health can indicate
unhappiness in the relationship. Even a change in sleep behavior like suddenly
not going to bed when you do can signal an issue.</span><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman",serif; font-size: 12pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ligatures: none;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; line-height: 115%; margin-bottom: 0in;">
</p><p class="MsoNormal"><br /></p></div>Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.<br />
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the earth in place"Gesture<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle"><span style="font-size: 18.0pt; line-height: 107%;">So when he did point as he talked about Putin in made his stabbing motion
stronger. <o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 18.0pt; line-height: 107%; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;">2.<span style="font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size: 7pt; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="font-size: 18.0pt; line-height: 107%;">American is a beacon, power of the
point- his eyebrow goes up with emphasis. Point downwards. I refuse to let that
happen. ( I will take them down.) <o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 18.0pt; line-height: 107%; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;">3.<span style="font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size: 7pt; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="font-size: 18.0pt; line-height: 107%;">Jim Jordan presser. Look at this body
orientation he is run off the stage body alignments and instead of standing
firm straight up and down he is leaning quite dramatically to the side and onto
the podium showing a lack of strength. Also,he is nervously playing with his note cards using them as comfort security.
And finally notice his even faster than normal vocal pace, another strong
nonverbal indicator that he wants to be out of there. <o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpLast" style="mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-size: 18.0pt; line-height: 107%; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;">4.<span style="font-feature-settings: normal; font-kerning: auto; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-size: 7pt; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-variation-settings: normal; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="font-size: 18.0pt; line-height: 107%;">Head back laughing, unbridled over
the top glee at what’s going on. In context in most business meetings in the
corporate world if coworkers laughed like that at a potential boss they would
have been at least reprimanded if not full-on fired for inappropriate behavior. <o:p></o:p></span></p></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div>Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.<br />
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But it’s normal in these circumstances.”</p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222526; font-family: "The Sun"; font-size: 18px; margin: 0px 0px 16px; word-break: break-word;">However, Wood said it's "unusual to show anger of that magnitude in mugshots and in court.</p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222526; font-family: "The Sun"; font-size: 18px; margin: 0px 0px 16px; word-break: break-word;">"So that choice is an interesting choice."</p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222526; font-family: "The Sun"; font-size: 18px; margin: 0px 0px 16px; word-break: break-word;">Wood continued, noting Trump's posture sitting at the table between his two lawyers.</p><div class="advert-wrapper advert-wrapper--articlempu" style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222526; font-family: "The Sun"; font-size: 18px;"><div class="dfp-ad advert--inarticle" id="articlempu" style="box-sizing: border-box;"></div></div><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222526; font-family: "The Sun"; font-size: 18px; margin: 0px 0px 16px; word-break: break-word;">“His body is strangely kind of hunched forward," she said.</p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222526; font-family: "The Sun"; font-size: 18px; margin: 0px 0px 16px; word-break: break-word;">"That hunching of his shoulders downward, the protecting of his body, actually is a more honest reveal.</p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222526; font-family: "The Sun"; font-size: 18px; margin: 0px 0px 16px; word-break: break-word;">"That reveals that he’s scared and he doesn’t feel powerful, he’s hunching forward almost like a child would do if they’re being scolded.”</p><h2 style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222526; font-family: "The Sun"; font-size: 2.4rem; line-height: 2.8rem; margin: 0px 0px 16px;">'LACKED HIS USUAL VIGOR'</h2><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222526; font-family: "The Sun"; font-size: 18px; margin: 0px 0px 16px; word-break: break-word;">Trump addressed the media before the first day of the trial began, on a lunch break, and then at the end of the day.</p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222526; font-family: "The Sun"; font-size: 18px; margin: 0px 0px 16px; word-break: break-word;">Wood said that while Trump had his normal talking points, his body language told a different story.</p><div class="advert-wrapper advert-wrapper--advert-inarticle-mpu" style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222526; font-family: "The Sun"; font-size: 18px;"><div class="dfp-ad advert--in-article-mpu nuk-ad-placeholder" data-ad-label="inArticleMPU" id="advert-inarticle-mpu" style="box-sizing: border-box;"></div></div><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222526; font-family: "The Sun"; font-size: 18px; margin: 0px 0px 16px; word-break: break-word;">“He had to power himself up and I got that from his breathing, the way he’d lift up and go into a talking point and just deliver it," Wood said.</p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222526; font-family: "The Sun"; font-size: 18px; margin: 0px 0px 16px; word-break: break-word;">"But it didn’t work because he’d start a sentence and then he’d have to start it over again."</p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222526; font-family: "The Sun"; font-size: 18px; margin: 0px 0px 16px; word-break: break-word;">Wood noted that Trump has trouble getting to the end of a sentence and that while he didn't speak for a long time, he did stop and restart several times.</p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222526; font-family: "The Sun"; font-size: 18px; margin: 0px 0px 16px; word-break: break-word;">“He acted as if he was strong and powerful and angry and attacking but his nonverbal was to stop midsentence and there to be this pause, and then he would finish, sometimes repeating words or changing to finish the sentence," Wood said.</p><div class="advert-wrapper advert-wrapper--advert-inarticle-mpu-1" style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222526; font-family: "The Sun"; font-size: 18px;"><div class="dfp-ad advert--in-article-mpu nuk-ad-placeholder" data-ad-label="inArticleMPU" id="advert-inarticle-mpu-1" style="box-sizing: border-box;"></div></div><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222526; font-family: "The Sun"; font-size: 18px; margin: 0px 0px 16px; word-break: break-word;">“That’s a tell for the fact that he doesn’t really feel full confidence.</p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222526; font-family: "The Sun"; font-size: 18px; margin: 0px 0px 16px; word-break: break-word;">"His mental energy [is] not there to fight fully.”</p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222526; font-family: "The Sun"; font-size: 18px; margin: 0px 0px 16px; word-break: break-word;">As far as his gestures were concerned, Wood was quick to note that Trump's usual gestures were tighter to his body than normal.</p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222526; font-family: "The Sun"; font-size: 18px; margin: 0px 0px 16px; word-break: break-word;">“It’s the same accordion gesture he always does," she said, adding that "his arms from the shoulder up to the elbow were held tighter and closer to his body.”</p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222526; font-family: "The Sun"; font-size: 18px; margin: 0px 0px 16px; word-break: break-word;">“The way it showed up to the viewer is, again, a lack of power, a lack of energy.</p><div class="advert-wrapper advert-wrapper--advert-inarticle-mpu-2" style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222526; font-family: "The Sun"; font-size: 18px;"><div class="dfp-ad advert--in-article-mpu nuk-ad-placeholder" data-ad-label="inArticleMPU" id="advert-inarticle-mpu-2" style="box-sizing: border-box;"></div></div><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222526; font-family: "The Sun"; font-size: 18px; margin: 0px 0px 16px; word-break: break-word;">“It lacked his usual vigor.”</p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222526; font-family: "The Sun"; font-size: 18px; margin: 0px 0px 16px; word-break: break-word;"><br /></p></div><div><br /></div>Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.<br />
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The Recency Effect, that is the last thing you say or do has been shown in research to have a profound impact on your credibility.</div><div><br /></div><div>1.<span style="white-space: pre;"> </span>McCcarthy had the opportunity to show inspirational leadership. With at least one well-crafted inspirational talking point to the nation that would be quoted not just by the media but in history books. Instead, he spent most of his speech blaming others for his ousting. </div><div>2.<span style="white-space: pre;"> </span>His nonverbal delivery, rather than being strongly delivered, with a powerful voice and volume level carried to the end of his sentences and open posture with large forceful gestures, was more like a “back room”, “look here guys”, talk with a loss of volume and strength in his voice at the end of his sentences showing weakness and lack of confidence in his messaging. Rather than speaking to the nation at a critical point in history, he was talking to his buddies after he lost the game. And showed poor leadership by blaming the other team and his horrible team. </div><div>3.<span style="white-space: pre;"> </span>He also showed fear and lack of confidence with comforting gestures like touching the back of his neck and pressing his fingernail to his forehead in a "Self-Beating" gesture as he quoted President Lincoln. He also showed a lack of respect and lack of confidence with small “Tongue Thrusts” as he spoke. People often give passive-aggressive tongue thrusts when they are cornered but don’t have the strength to fight. I see tongue thrusts in perp walks and when people are caught in crimes and are questioned on the courtroom steps and sometimes in murder trials by a suspect on the stand has dark triad behaviors.</div><div><br /></div><div>Check out the photo. It's so<span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: #f0f2f5; color: #050505; font-size: 15px;"> interesting here how he starts the speech with a thumb to the forehead. It's a form of "self beating" showing he has bad thoughts and wants to press the off button on them.</span></div><div><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: #f0f2f5; color: #050505; font-size: 15px;"><br /></span></div><div>I am one of the top body language experts in the country. I have been giving national media interviews at least twice a week for over 20 years. I speak to Fortune 500 Companies, and I am a media coach. </div></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEghMkGfUAW0Fhd0ujfZc7jjySavHR-I0GpogVpeypa750r4Ct5ju0b0PT7ByKnW7mFkEKGkqgI-_C-uTdGYYW4cXU0N5NuJJ2thyu608Wf_vtHnX4avT21oH0GvyPl5r7uSlOPbE-D4BdrrQQrwk3guSAVnR00nn9J7kyUAFAXKL_qW5ndTEWHw/s1920/Macarthy%20speech%20thumb%20to%20head.PNG" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1213" data-original-width="1920" height="202" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEghMkGfUAW0Fhd0ujfZc7jjySavHR-I0GpogVpeypa750r4Ct5ju0b0PT7ByKnW7mFkEKGkqgI-_C-uTdGYYW4cXU0N5NuJJ2thyu608Wf_vtHnX4avT21oH0GvyPl5r7uSlOPbE-D4BdrrQQrwk3guSAVnR00nn9J7kyUAFAXKL_qW5ndTEWHw/s320/Macarthy%20speech%20thumb%20to%20head.PNG" width="320" /></a></div><br /><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div>Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.<br />
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of the eyebrow going down and the outer part of the outline going sharply
up he forms what is called the devil's horns, and how his forward wrinkles on the you, the </span><span style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody, serif; font-size: 14pt;">viewer's left side mimic that horned shape. The brow and forehead lines are sharp-edged. Our limbic brain 'reads" sharp edges in silhouette, gestures, and facial expressions as dangerous. They indicate someone is not feeling normal healthy peaceful happy emotions that appear smooth rounded. In addition, his face shows a lack of symmetry. The left side of the face is different than the right side, even the eyebrows and the forehead wrinkles are different. A lack of facial symmetry also is "read by the limbic brain as a danger sign. I go deeper into the lack of symmetry later in this article. </span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 2.25pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in; margin: 0in 0in 2.25pt;"><span style="font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody, serif; font-size: 14pt;"><br /></span></p>
<p style="margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "UICTFontTextStyleBody",serif; font-size: 14pt;">Notice
how his lips are s</span><span style="font-family: "UICTFontTextStyleBody",serif; font-size: 16pt;">lightly
pressed together and appear thinner than normal indicating his anger. </span><span style="font-size: 16pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p style="margin: 0in; min-height: 26px;"><span style="font-size: 16pt;"> </span></p>
<p style="margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "UICTFontTextStyleBody",serif; font-size: 16pt;">Look at this photo. How do you feel? Typically
when somebody views a face expressing emotion of anger their limbic system responds very quickly with a strong emotion such as fear or
corresponding anger and may go into the the freeze flight fight fall or
faint response. </span><span style="font-size: 16pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p style="margin: 0in; min-height: 26px;"><span style="font-family: "UICTFontTextStyleBody",serif; font-size: 16pt;"> </span><span style="font-size: 16pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p style="margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "UICTFontTextStyleBody",serif; font-size: 16pt;">I’ve
analyzed perp walk courtroom behavior and mug shots for years, it is unusual to
see the mug shot of a white-collar criminal with such obvious anger. </span><span style="font-size: 16pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p style="margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "UICTFontTextStyleBody",serif; font-size: 16pt;"><br /></span></p>
<p style="margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "UICTFontTextStyleBody",serif; font-size: 16pt;">It’s
also interesting to see the difference in the right and left side of his
face. </span><span style="font-size: 16pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p style="margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "UICTFontTextStyleBody",serif; font-size: 16pt;">When
someone is feeling conflicting emotions their limbic system may show it on one
side of the face before they can fully control it so you see a lack of symmetry
on the left and right side of the face of someone who’s feeling conflicted
emotions. </span><span style="font-size: 16pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p style="margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "UICTFontTextStyleBody",serif; font-size: 16pt;">Though
he is clearly angry, if you as the viewer put your hand over the right side of
the face you see the full complete facial configuration of the emotion of
anger. If you put your hand over the left side of the space you can see slight
traces of sadness at the mouth. As the outer corner of the lips is turned down
slightly. But it’s not true sadness because his eyebrows and forehead still are
in that focused downward motion of anger. So what he’s truly showing is the
mouth expression that people make signaling their disbelief or negation of
what’s going on. </span><span style="font-size: 16pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p style="margin: 0in; min-height: 26px;"><span style="font-size: 16pt;"> </span></p>
<p style="margin: 0in;"><span style="font-family: "UICTFontTextStyleBody",serif; font-size: 16pt;">Also,
note his extreme pupil dilation. While it’s highly unusual in most people and a
signal of possible stroke or brain injury or drug use. He has Jonas unusually
large pupil dilation from the very first time I read him for the international
news just before he ran for president the first time. </span><span style="font-size: 16pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div>Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.<br />
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and How Can You Deal With it? </span></b></p><p class="MsoNormal"><b><span face=""Arial",sans-serif" style="color: #2c2d30; font-size: 13.5pt; line-height: 107%;">By Body Language and Relationship Expert Patti
Wood from her book and speech<o:p></o:p></span></b></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span face=""Arial",sans-serif" style="color: #2c2d30; font-size: 13.5pt; line-height: 107%;">Hoovering is a technique with a wide set of varying
behaviors a malignant narcissist uses to suck you back into their influence and
gameplaying. <o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span face=""Arial",sans-serif" style="color: #2c2d30; font-size: 13.5pt; line-height: 107%;">Malignant Narcissists are said to have a
different reward system in their brains. Most people like a moderate amount of positive
attention and work not to receive negative attention such as criticism and
anger. <o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span face=""Arial",sans-serif" style="color: #2c2d30; font-size: 13.5pt; line-height: 107%;">Malignant Narcissists are insatiable. They have
a dark void and never-ending need for attention and if they don’t get positive attention,
they will seek negative attention. Just as a drug addict needs their supply of drugs,
MC needs their narcissist supply, they need it to not fall into what feels to them a dark void of nothingness. Their self-esteem and their very existence
depend on that supply. <o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span face=""Arial",sans-serif" style="color: #2c2d30; font-size: 13.5pt; line-height: 107%;">People they can control, and influence
provide their first supply source, and then also people they can say and show
as being connected to. <o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span face=""Arial",sans-serif" style="color: #2c2d30; font-size: 13.5pt; line-height: 107%;">Secondary supply includes economic safety, group
acceptance, status, and visible success factors like a high-level job title,
big house, or boat/yacht. <o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span face=""Arial",sans-serif" style="color: #2c2d30; font-size: 13.5pt; line-height: 107%;">When they need a supply, and can’t get it or
get enough of it from their current people under their control, say for example
if a girlfriend breaks up with them, or they are out of town and feel lonely,
they will go down their list of past controlled contacts and try to hoover them
back in. <o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span face=""Arial",sans-serif" style="color: #2c2d30; font-size: 13.5pt; line-height: 107%;">Hoovering can include everything from
suddenly showing up at your door, to a simple out-of-blue, “Haven’t heard from
you in a while.” Text. sending cards and gifts, to middle-of-the-night drunken phone
call pleadings that can also turn into vicious threats and ranting attacks. <o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span face=""Arial",sans-serif" style="color: #2c2d30; font-size: 13.5pt; line-height: 107%;">One of the ways to look at a potential Hoovering behavior to tell if it’s a sign that you are being targeted is to see or hear
their behavior and check in with how it makes you feel. If your gut doesn’t
like it, it’s hoovering, and you need to avoid being sucked in. Or if you feel
overly elevated and overwhelmed by a love bomb Hoover attempt, check in with
yourself and think how you felt at your worst with them. I recommend you write
down all the bad things that happened when you were in their sphere of
influence to remind yourself. MNs are master persuaders. They may woo and
flatter, they may threaten, they may appeal to you by saying things like made a
mistake, or I realize now I am lost without it. Whether your MN was a romantic
partner, a relative, or an old boss they may try to lure you back into the “fairytale”
of what was or what you hoped it would be. <o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span face=""Arial",sans-serif" style="color: #2c2d30; font-size: 13.5pt; line-height: 107%;">Remember a MN does not care about you. They
just remember you were a source of supply. It doesn’t matter how they hurt you
in the past. It's all about what they need from you. They feel like it's their
right to seek supply from you because you gave it to them at one time. Even if
they got supply from abusing you, attacking you, assassinating your character, and
other more horrible behaviors they will get out the hoover and come for you. <o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span face=""Arial",sans-serif" style="color: #2c2d30; font-size: 13.5pt; line-height: 107%;">How you deal with hoovering should be monitored
by the fact that they will keep coming back till they continue to get absolutely
nothing from you. <o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Two
factors that can help them stay away and not seek contact.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">1. You
must make sure they no longer get <b>any</b> “supply” from you. That means don’t
respond, or if you are face to face or on the phone and can’t break the
contact, be boring, have an emotionless voice and body language be bland. Don’t
share anything about yourself and how you feel. <o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">2. You
have to hope are fed by lots of other people and sources of supply so they
don’t cycle back to you as a formally reliable supply source. So, if your ex
has a new gal, as much as you may fear for her future, her as a source of
supply may keep him from hurting you. If a coworker is now getting his or her
anger, that coworker is supply and not you. <o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">3. You
have to hope they won’t keep playing with you at a distance with actions like
smear campaigns, name-calling, and damaging your other relationships as that
can continue to feed them so they continue to feel connected and in contact and
or you need to not care or give any energy to these actions they do to stay
connected. <o:p></o:p></p>
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