The world's obsession with British royalty
never made sense to me for the longest time. As far as I was concerned, they
were just rich folks who lived across the pond and wore fancy hats. But then, I
watched The Crown and everything changed. Yep, I caught royals fever bad.
Now, I totally get the desire for a peek behind the Buckingham curtain,
especially at the dynamics of the couples currently residing there. While
Prince Harry and Megan Markle are pretty openly affectionate, Prince William and Kate Middleton's body language is a bit
trickier to read. That's because their role demands they be more professional
and less overtly affectionate in public. To break down their dynamic, I
enlisted the help of Patti Wood,
author of Snap: Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language, and
Charisma, to help decode the subtle clues about William and Kate's
relationship that the two are giving off without even realizing it.
You may think that the couple’s tradition
of not showing any PDA might hinder Wood's read on the duo, but in fact, it
actually helps to illuminate the degree of connection between them:
"Whenever I’m doing a read, I want the baseline to know what’s normal and
that actually informs my read," says Wood. "I look at their norm, and
typically, they are not touching each other. They’re not standing super close,
so we're already looking at anomalies that are different from their baseline,
so that makes what they're doing even more significant."
So what do these anomalies tell us about
William and Kate? Here's what Wood sees.
1. They Are Affectionate
In Private And Laugh Together Often
To decipher the above image, Wood starts at
the bottom and works her way up, beginning with the Kate’s hand. “One of the
things that’s significant there is … that her fingers and the way that she is
holding her hands is actually holding a lot of tension. If you look at the
veins and the way the fingers are curled, it’s very awkward and tension-filled
instead of having the hands relaxed out,” says Wood. “What I believe that
indicates is that she would normally reach for him and she’s stopping herself.
And there is a lot of tension in her hand to stop that reach and touch.”
Further evidence of the couple’s closeness
here is what Wood calls “overlap,” which is they way that William's arm is just
slightly over Kate's, creating a slight overlap in their bodies. “The reason
that’s significant is … overlap is a way to show that couples are unified —
that they want to be seen as one, [and] that they are connected,” she says.
However, Wood’s favorite bit of evidence of
their connection is actually in the couple’s faces, specifically how in sync
their expressions are. “If you look at their smiles, all the way up from their
chin to their foreheads, they are a match and mirror for each other. So if you
look at their faces, even if you overlapped them, you will see their chin is in
the same position, the teeth are in the same position, the lips are in the same
position, the folds around the nose to the chin — they’re in the same
position,” says Wood. “That level of matching and mirroring in a couple —
especially with joyful moments — shows that they laugh together often and that
they care for and love each other.
2. They Have A Passionate
Love Connection
This second image offers hints about the
couple’s romantic connection. According to Wood, if you want to know how people
feel, just look to the angle of their hips. ”If you look at him on the left,
see how his body — the lower torso body and then the belly — [is] slightly
angled toward her, and her pelvis is slightly angled toward him … that’s called
the 'love V,'" says Wood. “It shows a love connection and that’s really,
really nice.”
Further up the body, you can see that love
connection is reinforced by the way their arms are touching. “They’re having a
little moment together. And they want to share that moment together," says
Wood. "And if you look at her body straight on up, it’s slightly in toward
him, to lean in and give him a little bit of her weight to make that moment
happen. It shows they are [sharing] an intimate moment together. It shows they
are connected.”
3. They’re A Solid Team
In this last image, Wood sees a couple who
form a united team. Despite being separated by seats, they both make efforts to
close the gap between them and create a sense of intimacy. “I do like how his
leg is crossed toward her, rather than away from her, that includes in and
blocks other people out — especially how high the knee is up and over,"
says Wood. “His hand out over the leg like that — that’s another block to the
outside world ... And we can’t see her touch on his arm, but we can see that
he’s going in toward it, and the touch is making him happy.” Basically, what
all of this says to Wood is, “Let us have our little moment. I’m with her and
I’m excluding you out.”
So what’s Wood’s overall assessment of this
couple’s dynamic? Well, it appears to be a real love story: “It’s clear that
they have a very healthy connection with one another — that publicly they laugh
and share intimate moments — and it’s an indication that they do that quite
often," she says. "The matching and mirroring specifically shows that
they do it quite often because, over time, if you love your partner, you match
and mirror.”
Here's to hoping Meghan and Harry build the
same strong love connection as Will and Kate clearly have.
Link to article: https://www.elitedaily.com/p/prince-william-kate-middletons-body-language-reveals-their-love-is-so-passionate-in-private-7662333
