Know
a rebuff is seldom about you
If not every single person says hi back or
takes you up on your offers for plans remember college is stressful, most
freshmen feel a bit insecure at times and if they seem distant, don't take it
personally. Most body language rebuffs such as lack of eye contact and
scowls are motivated by what is going on inside the person and not really about
you.
Patti Wood, MA, Certified Speaking Professional - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com. Also check out Patti's YouTube channel at http://youtube.com/user/bodylanguageexpert.
