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How Staff Can Maintain a Welcoming Environment with Social Distancing

Saying "Hi" without the high five and other tips for greeting guests without the usual body language cues.

June 2, 2020By Arthur Levine
At their heart, attractions and parks are highly social spaces where people join together in pursuit and celebration of fun. When the folks that operate the New Hampshire family entertainment center (FEC) Space Entertainment Center wanted to rebrand, they acknowledged the core mission of their business by incorporating the word “social” in the facility’s new name. But as they were getting ready to unveil the rechristened Block Party Social, the pandemic nixed their plans.
“We were joking that maybe we should call it, ‘Block Party Social Distancing,’” says Ron Weinberg, the FEC’s director of strategy and marketing.
Joking aside, Weinberg touches on pressing challenges that attractions face as they retool for the coronavirus era: How do places that are inherently social accommodate social distancing? How can they continue to project an image of carefree fun while adhering to “new normal” safety measures? How can employees provide the same quality of customer service while shielded behind a facemask and standing at least six feet away from guests?
Attractions are going to need to figure out new ways to connect with visitors, according to body language expert Patti Wood. The coach and consultant, who has worked with Ripley’s Believe It or Not and wrote “Snap, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language, and Charisma,” says that physical touch, such as handshakes and high-fives, equals three hours of face-to-face interaction.
“It immediately establishes rapport and trust,” she notes. “It helps make people feel safe in the environment.”
With the shortcut of physical touch now not an option, Wood suggests alternative body language behaviors. For example, even at 100 feet away guests would register broad waving motions from employees. “It signals the primitive brain that this place is safe,” she says. “At 15 feet, we break through the stranger barrier.”
So, what could employees do within the zone of 15 feet to the prescribed social distance of 6 feet? Wood says anything that would make guests feel comfortable and communicate fun, such as juggling, dancing, or generating bubbles, would do the trick.
With 29 locations across the globe, KidZania will be doubling down on the non-verbal gestures and other body language that is already featured in its culture, explains Jorge Guisasola, COO. For example, associates at the roleplaying centers greet guests by forming the letter “K” with the index and middle fingers of their right hands and placing it in front of their hearts. As part of the chain’s retraining, associates will also mimic some of the theatrical movements exhibited by KidZania’s costumed characters.
“Eyes communicate a lot,” Guisasola says, “but mouths and half of our faces will be covered, so we will need to compensate with a lot of body language.”
Wood agrees that eyes can express a great deal, and that engaging in eye contact is critical in a post-COVID environment. “Eyes can show a crinkled, sincere smile above and beyond the mask,” she notes, and suggests that attractions train employees by having them stand in front of a mirror with masks on and observe what happens around their eyes when they smile.
Rob Norris, president of Seabreeze Amusement Park in New York, understands that guests value the friendly, smiling employees who greet them on the midway and operate the rides. It will be important, perhaps more than ever, to maintain that dynamic during the pandemic.
“It’s going to be a challenge, but we know if you smile behind the mask, your face lights up,” Norris says.
In addition to smiling and eye contact, Wood also recommends that employees tilt their heads when they engage with guests. “It shows submission, friendliness, and a desire to listen and attend,” the body language expert says. To help disarm and reassure children, whom a masked stranger may put off, she suggests that employees bend their knees and get lower in space when encountering them. While the action would project approachability, Wood cautions that staff members shouldn’t linger in a crouched position, because it might encourage youngsters to think it’s okay to move in for a hug.
Behaviors such as these convey what Wood terms “open body windows.” She says it shows that “I feel safe having these vulnerable parts of my body open to you. I’m not dangerous. It’s safe, and I’m welcoming you into my space.”
One way to help overcome the challenges imposed by wearing masks is to make the masks themselves more attractive. Block Party Social is having fabric masks imprinted with the FEC’s new logo.
Big Thrill Factory, which operates two FECs in Minnesota, is ordering fun masks with facial expressions on them. It is also having signs printed that staff members can hold up for guests to see from a distance. Some might be functional, such as one used in a queue that says, “Next.” Others might have fun visual symbols printed on them such as a thumbs up. Of course, employees could give actual thumbs up or use other non-contact gestures like clapping.
These are some of the simple strategies that Barry Zelickson, owner of Big Thrill Factory, and his team are developing to counter the restrictions that facemasks and social distancing introduce. “Yelling would not make a better environment,” he says with a laugh.
At the large KidZania locations, guests often ask for directions to different locations within the facilities. Instead of verbal explanations delivered from a distance, Guisasola says that associates will use open arms and hands to walk them to the destination. “It will be more gentle and friendly for the visitors,” he says.
Operators know that all of the new procedures as well as the general anxiety caused by the pandemic could be stressful for their front-line workers. And stressed-out workers cannot maintain the fun atmosphere that is the hallmark of attractions. That’s why it is as important for facilities that are reopening to focus on employees as on guests.
“We want to create an environment where our employees still enjoy their jobs,” says Seabreeze’s Norris. “We want them to feel comfortable being here so they can have the same relationship with guests that they had in the past.”

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My Dad's Magical Visit on Father's Day - The Perfect Parking Spot

I can’t believe this happened. My father always had a white convertible and always got the best parking spot anywhere we went. As a kid, I thought he had magical powers. Since he passed away, when I am out with my family and we get the perfect parking spot we joke that daddy’s with us. The day before Father's day friends, who were on their home from the classic car club event came to my house for a visit, but as they left their classic white convertible broke down and they ended up having to leave it at my house. They asked me to move my car so they could keep their vintage baby safe in my garage. The perfect spot. The next day I woke up Father’s Day, missing my dad with this photo of him and my sister and myself (I am in red) and his white convertible on my Facebook Timeline, and then I went to go outside and realized there was a white convertible at my house in the perfect parking spot. Yep, my father came to visit me for Father’s Day.





Here is my friend's classic white convertible. 



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Lily Allen & David Harbour's Body Language.



First photo with Dior her in a black skirt.
Here pose here is so unusually modest and shy for a carpet photo shoot. Note how close together her feet are, how tight her arms are to her body and the way her fingertips are nervously interlaced, her oversized top and long black skirt, black boots large black bag protecting her vulnerable, “Ventral Front/Belly Window, her front orientation with shoulder closest to him held forward and away along with her head tilted away from him and demure closed mouth smile. She wants to protect herself from scrutiny, he is facing towards her feet on either side of her protectively and to show she is his, but note his hands are in his pocket. They are both smiling but there is tension. (Is she pregnant here??? Has she been criticized publicly? Why the need to protect the front of her body so much)


Second photo seated at the game, Again we see her sweet modest dressing with the school mark peter pan collar and bulky sweater and hair back while her Knees tightly pressed together, arms held close to the body and gathering security by holding the cup. What I love is that she is leaning into him with her lower body and her outside foot lifted to bring her knees up and touching and resting her left shoulder into his chest and her smile. I just love how unabashedly happy he looks with his crinkled eye mouth open in a laughing smile and his legs splayed out in alpha male manliness. She makes him feel like a hero.


Third photo red dress My goodness she is beautiful here, but she is slightly afraid, note the stiffness in her arm how straight and tense her posture is and see how she is doing a slight comfort clasp with her hand so the front fingers touch and her slightly frozen look. He again has a nice protective foot stance but he is so straight up and down and stiff in his arm around her.  He is still her protector here and loves that role as you can tell with his smile.


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Princess Diana and Prince Charles Body Language at the end


Not much in this photo except it seems apropos that in the first photo I analyzed he was pointing towards her and now he is pointing away. She how she is shielding her pelvis awkwardly arms tight to her body and fingers pressed into protect.



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Prince Charles and Princess Diana’s Body Language on their last official trip


Prince Charles and Princess Diana’s Body Language on their last official trip together: a classic of marital misery she is again closing him off hands in lap, but her head is held down as if she is afraid of being admonished. He is gazing up and away as if she is not there, his hand holding his knee to self-comfort.


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Princess Diana and Prince Charles Body Language after Camila Affair Known

 By now, everything's out in the open; Diana confronted Camilla earlier in 1989 at Camilla's sister's birthday party. His shoulder turned away, mouth a tightly sealed envelope holding his arm down, acting as if he was forced to take her to the school dance by his mom but he is mad to be there with her while Diana is proper, and closed down legs tight together showing she no longer wants sexual intimacy and hands in lap enforcing the closed access.





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Prince Charles, And Princess Diana each holding a hand of their son Prince Harry.


Prince Charles, And Princess Diana each holding a hand of their son Prince Harry.  You see how she is looking down is submission. There are far too many photos of her looking down and sad. Prince Charles holds his songs hand, but gives not leeway the hand close to his side rather than reaching out and downward turned mouth and furrowed brow of suppressed anger. 


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Princess Diana Body Language in Family Photo as she is edged out


December 1986 with the kids, Princes Diana looks like she was photoshopped into this photo of familial bliss that her husband is having with their sons Prince William and Prince Harry. Her smile is pasted and her eyes look like she has been crying and sleep-deprived



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Body Language of Prince Charles and Diana on a visit to Canada in 1986.


Prince Charles and Diana on a visit to Canada in 1986. If we didn’t know they were a couple, we could barely decern so from this photo. If you look at their sad expressions you might think they are at a funeral. See how Diana grips her hands, I would guess in an attempt to suppress her sadness.




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Body Language of Diana and Prince Charles




Body Language of Diana and Prince Charles 1986 On a ski vacation after Diana has already strayed and Charles is rekindling with Camilla we see two people out of sync with each other. They are not looking at the camera, Charles face looks sunken and slightly haunted and Prices Diana is looking away with holding her skis between them that acts as a barrier.



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There's a LOT going on in this photo with Diana (pregnant w/Harry) and Charles and Mannakee, her lover



There's a LOT of body language to decipher in this photo with Diana (pregnant w/Harry) and Charles and Mannakee, her lover.  Actually if we didn’t know what was going on. That Diana’s love was here between them we would only see that Princess Diana with her arms tightly folded and feet planted father apart in fighting mode than her normal dainty feet close to each others stance is suppressing her anger and Prince Charles with his left foot forward and left arm outstretched is suppression his desire to walk or more aptly as his foot is raised and slightly lean forward ride his horse away from this situation.


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Body Language of Diana Princess of Wales with Prince Charles and Prince William p


Body Language of Diana Princess of Wales with Prince Charles and Prince William posing on the lawn of Government House in Auckland.
 What’s stunning about this body language is how far Prince Charles is sitting away from his wife and child. He is out of arms reach to give comfort or play though he is siting cross-legged like a little boy, his hands that one would expect to be touching his baby son are instead held one in his lap and another oddly held low palm up showing he doesn’t know what to do. Princess Diane is holding her son up arms out to show him off to the cameras her focus on him, not the cameras. Giving her son attention.





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Prince Charles and Diana body language on their honeymoon.


Prince Charles and Diana's body language on their honeymoon. Did the camera catch her filling a cold chill that made her go into a reflexive turtle protection pose or is it Prince Charles arm around her and hand resting on her shoulder? I do see her squinted eyes and the small turn down of her lips that say she is not just cold but afraid. His gaze and twisted mouth with puckered chin show his conflicted feeling. He wants to look calm but he is showing suppressed anger. Was It too many cameras that bothered them? I wish she was less afraid and more comforted by him here. 

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Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.
     

Prince Charles and Diana's body language during their engagement.



Prince Charles and Diana's body language during their engagement.  
I remember reading the body language in this photo all those years ago. Her gaze is so purposefully away from him, with hooded eyebrows down and eye so filled with sadness you can feel the tears in them. And notice how she holds her shoulders up to ears and her arms are straight down tense and glued to her sides in a classic Freeze response to danger. She may be fearful of the cameras, but you notice hoe Prince Charles is not leaning in or reaching out in comfort but also holding his arms to his sides and not showing affection. 
















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Body Language in the official Engagement Photo of Prince Charles and Diana


Body Language in the official Engagement Photo of Prince Charles and Diana.  See how demure her downward titled head, partially closed eyes and shy smile show her deference to Prince Charles? Though he has a wonderful head positioning into the intimate “zone of space” with Diana that is in an unusual zone for him when he is with her,  he holds one his hands over the other belying his nervousness about showing that intimacy.






Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.