How You Put Your Bra Reveal Your Personality Type
Patti Wood Body Language Expert discusses in Redbook, Cosmopolitan, Good Housekeeping, Women's Day and The Daily Mail.
Patti Wood Body Language Expert discusses in Redbook, Cosmopolitan, Good Housekeeping, Women's Day and The Daily Mail.
Front-claspers,
back-claspers, over-the-head claspers (yep)...you'll be shocked what your
preferred method says about you.
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Alright, ladies: Let's stop for one hot
second and answer a very important question: How do you put your
bra on?
Before you immediately say
something trivial like, "uhh, the normal way," just think about
it. Do you put it on and clasp it behind your back? Or do you clasp it in
the front, then rotate the bra to the back? Or perhaps you
hate clasping it in the back, so you get a front-closing bra.
Or maybe, just maybe, you can't be bothered to do something as trivial as
clasp a bra day in and day out, so you do it once, then slide that
sucker over your head and pull it into place.
See, it's not such an easy choice.
But now that you've taken time to figure out your preferred method,
we have news for you—the
way you put your bra on reveals a lot about your personality, says Patti Wood,
a body language and human behavior expert and author of Snap: Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language,
and Charisma. "There are four distinct personality
types—drivers, influencers, supporters, and careful correctors—who tend to have
very unique ways of doing things, even small tasks," she says.
"Everything you do—and the way you do it—comes together to form a story
about yourself, and there's no reason your undergarments shouldn't be a part of
that."
Yes, the way you put on your bra could just
be a habit that you learned from your mom when you were a tween, so you've been
doing the same thing for the last 20 years. Or it could be providing some
important insight into how you like to handle yourself. So read on, my
friends, and find out what your undergarments really reveal.
You Use A Back-Clasp Bra, And Clasp It
in the Back
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You're a supporter, which means you like to stick to
tradition and tend to follow along with what you've always been taught
(hey, if it ain't broke...). So it makes sense that you aim for the back-clasp,
as that's how mom—or your girlfriends in the gym locker room—taught you
how to do it. You also love being around people and getting along with
them, so bra shopping is just another excuse to get the girls together for a
fun day out on the town. And if anyone ever needs help choosing a sexy lingerie
set or finding the perfect sports bra—you're their gal. Not to mention you
always have a safety pin on hand, just in case someone's strap pops.
#NeverTooPrepared
You Clasp Your Bra In the Front, Then
Rotate It to the Back
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Hey there, influencer. You're a woman who likes to feel appreciated,
supported, and look the part that you're presenting yourself as (businesswoman,
mom, sexy wife, whatever), and your lingerie fits into that. You gravitate
toward pretty, standout bras (a girl who isn't afraid of color or making a
statement), and likely have an entire drawer dedicated to different kinds of
bras because hey, you never know where you're going or what you'll be wearing,
so your outfit needs to be able to adjust as well as you do. As for the
actual clasping of the bra, that's just another way for you to make sure you
look your best—there's no way in hell you're missing a clasp, or not
taking the time to adjust those straps properly. And once you find a go-to set,
you can bet there'll be a review or shout-out on your Instagram so
everyone can enjoy the lady love.
You Use A Front-Clasping Bra
As a driver, you look at life as a no-time-to-waste opportunity, so no one
will find you fumbling with clasps that you can't even see. That's why you opt
for a front-clasper—so you can efficiently get it done and move on with
your day. And since you don't like to waste time, you also make sure the
clothing you invest in is of high-quality (because if you have to go
shopping again, you are not going to be a happy camper). When it
comes time to shop for bras, there's no time for lollygagging—this definitely
isn't an all-day event with your besties. You make smart, well-researched
decisions (no Top 10 shopping choices for you popping up on Facebook), and
don't second-guess yourself. In other words, consider yourself a #boss, because
you like to kick a** and take names on a daily basis.
You Clasp Your Bra Once, Then Slide It
Over Your Head Each Day
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Consider yourself a careful corrector, meaning you like to make sure
things are done right. That's why you tend to clasp a bra in the proper
place once, then shimmy it on from there on out—you know it's set where it's
supposed to be, and you no longer have to worry about getting it correct
every single time (that's also why you likely feel the most comfortable in a
sports bra). You don't really like attention, so when it's time to get
dressed, you scurry to the closest private area for a fitting. Which also means
you're shopping solo—you likely have a calendar notice for when it's time to buy
some new bras (according to the expert recommendations, of course), make
sure you have the most accurate measurements, quietly select your
subtle purchases, and package them discreetly. At the end of the day, you
like to have what works, no bells and whistles required.
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Are you a dominant front-fastener, or a submissive back-clasper? How the way you put on your BRA reveals intimate details about your personality
- Patti Wood, a human behavior expert, says there are four distinct personality types who tend to have unique ways of doing things
- According to Patti there are four obvious methods of putting on your bra, each of which relates to a different personality type
- People who fasten their bra at the back tend to have a more 'supportive' or 'submissive' personality
- The research is based on psychologist William Moulton Marston's DISC theory which focuses on four different behavioral traits
Putting your bra on in the morning may seem likes a completely meaningless task, but according to research by one human behavior expert, the way you snap that clasp closed actually reveals a great deal about who you are as a person.
Patti Wood, a body language and human behavior expert who teaches at Emory University in Atlanta, Georgia, and is the author of Snap: Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma, has revealed that the way you put on your bra correlates with four different types of people and personality.
'There are four distinct personality types - drivers, influencers, supporters, and careful correctors - who tend to have very unique ways of doing things, even small tasks,' she told Redbook. 'Everything you do - and the way you do it - comes together to form a story about yourself, and there's no reason your undergarments shouldn't be a part of that.'
Back to back: People who clasp their bra in the back are supporters who follow tradition and stay true to what they have been taught
Patti's survey and observational research is based around American psychologist William Moulton Marston's DISC theory, which focuses on four different behavioral traits: dominance, inducement, submission and compliance.
According to the expert's previous research on how our belongings and clothing reflect our behavior, simple activities such as putting on your bra can give you clues into your inner psyche.
For example, those who snap their bra on their back tend to fall in the submissive category, while those who opt to fasten their lingerie at the front and then rotate it to the correct position are more prone to inducement.
Here, FEMAIL examines each bra-clasping style and what each means in relation to their linked personalities.
If you fasten your bra behind-the-back you're a 'supporter'
If you use use a back-clasp bra and clasp it in the back you are thought to be a supporter. People who fall into this personality type tend to follow tradition and stay true to what they have been taught.
In an article about recognizing DISC personalities through body language, Patti explained that supporters think carefully before taking any action, so it is unsurprising that supporters prefer the tried and true method for putting their bras on.
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Turn around: Those who opt to clasp their bra in the front before twisting it around to the back is an influencer who likes to make sure that they always look their best
'They don’t like change so you really need to talk them through any new projects or changes in old routines to get them to buy in and follow through otherwise they will keep doing it the old way or what they may consider the way that has "always worked before", she said.
Supporters are said to be friendly, thoughtful and great listeners. They'll always remember your birthday and be there for you if you need a shoulder to cry on.
When shopping for bras, supporters will mostly likely be found in the fitting room with a group of friends.
If you fasten your bra at the front and then rotate it, you're an 'influencer'
Someone who fastens a bra in the front before twisting it to the back is an influencer.
Influencers are charismatic and love to be noticed and appreciated, so when it comes to their lingerie they are drawn to bright colors and added details.
Time saver: If you opt for a front-clasping bra, you are most likely a driver who hates to waste time
Clasping their bras in the front ensure influencers they will look their best because they will be sure they never missed a hook.
They appreciate a good sense of humor and like to be challenged and learn new things, however, they have a tendency to get bored easily. An influencer may not always follow through on things that require an attention to detail or multiple steps.
If you use a front-clasping bra, you're 'commanding'
People who purchase bras that fasten in the front are drivers who refuse to waste time, especially when it comes to trying to clasp a hook they can't see.
Drivers value brevity and efficiency, and they tend to be directing, forceful and commanding. Because they are quick to the point, they expect other people to do the same.
Because they fear a lack of control, it is important for drivers to be in charge in all aspects of their lives.
Unique technique: People who fasten their bra before sliding it over their head and pulling up the strap are careful correctors who like to make sure they are doing things right from the get go
Patty told Daily Mail Online that drivers prefer name-brands and superb quality, so they may be drawn to high-end end bras from lingerie companies such as La Perla and Agent Provacateur.
Drivers are known to make smart, well-researched decisions, so when it comes to bra shopping the have a no-nonsense attitude.
If you clasp your bra before sliding it over your head, you're a 'careful corrector'
If you fasten your bra and make sure it is properly adjusted before putting it on over your head, you are a careful corrector.
People with this personality type like to make sure they are doing things right from the get go. They are cautious analyzers by nature. Unlike drivers, they crave lengthy explanations and statistical evidence to back up whatever you are telling them.
Having their bra fastened before they slip it over their heads allows a careful correctly to be sure that it is perfectly clasped as soon as they put it on.
Careful correctors are discreet and try to avoid attention, which means they may be most comfortable in a sports bra.
When it comes to bra shopping, a careful corrector will most likely have accurate measurements and expert opinions handy before heading to the dressing room solo.
However, the way you put on your bra is not necessarily a window into your soul.
'Putting on your bra is often a learned rather than spontaneous behavior,' Patti told Daily Mail Online. 'Some women have done it the same way all their lives so it does not always reflect their personality.'
And when it comes to her own technique, the human behavior expert explained that she puts her bra on backwards and hooks it before turning it around, which is something she learned in 'charm school in sixth grade'.
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Patti Wood, MA, Certified Speaking Professional - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com. Also check out Patti's YouTube channel at http://youtube.com/user/bodylanguageexpert.
