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Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.
Reading Job Candidate Body Language, Job Interviewer Tips
Here is a piece I did on how to give a good interview with body language insights.
http://recruitingsocial.com/2017/02/body-language-in-interviews/
Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.
http://recruitingsocial.com/2017/02/body-language-in-interviews/
Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.
Body Language Read of Trump and Melania
"Trump's saying, I'm on my own, I am singular, I am president."
Here is the link http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a8647744/body-language-donald-melania-trump/
Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.
#FreeMelania: Twitter sends out call to ‘save’ Trump’s wife
In the wake of
a compromising video shot during the inauguration of Donald Trump, the Internet has sent out an
ironic SOS to #FreeMelania.
The clip, which
was filmed as Rev. Franklin Graham was delivering a blessing to the new
president, shows Melania smiling brightly at her husband as he looks over
his shoulder, and quickly dissolves into a scowl once his back is
turned. It has sparked speculation that the first lady is unhappy in her role
and has subsequently placed the Trumps’ relationship under the virtual
microscope.
Naturally,
Twitter users have been having a field day with the clip and other snapshots
from inauguration day.
“They are a very different couple than the Obamas,” says Patti Wood, a body language expert and professional speaker. “Couples who are connected will lean up against each other, briefly touch or kiss, and offer helpful gestures, like when Barack took Melania’s gift from Michelle.”
“When [Donald] glanced back in the video, he wasn’t looking directly at Melania and didn’t make a connection. Her smile was up and energetic, but there wasn’t a warm connection that was broken. It looks more like she was hoping for a connection.”
Wood says there were several gestures that he made that indicated he doesn’t think they’re on the same plane as a couple. When they arrived at the White House to greet the Obamas, he walked up the stairs without waiting for Melania to exit the car. Similarly, during their inaugural dance, he pulled away from her.
“Those were all interesting choices,” she says. “He could have made small changes toward his wife to indicate that he honours her. Instead, he didn’t do anything to make her feel comfortable.”
The Trumps have just celebrated their 12th wedding anniversary.
Link to full article - http://globalnews.ca/news/3204415/freemelania-twitter-sends-out-call-to-save-trumps-wife/
Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.
Body language expert explain Donald and Melania Trump’s relationship
Body language experts explain Donald and Melania Trump’s relationship
http://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/relationships/marriage/body-language-experts-explain-donald-and-melania-trumps-relationship/news-story/8c0424df65c1f9fd1566cc43835f62a7
If you found yourself watching the presidential inauguration and thinking, ‘Geez, you could cut the tension between Donald and Melania Trump with a knife’ you weren’t alone.
During the President’s first week in office, social media has been quick to scrutinise the relationship between the new First Family — and how it compares to that of former President Barack Obama and his wife, Michelle.
On Inauguration Day, the Trumps stepped out of their black security car to greet the Obamas who were waiting outside the White House.
This was the first moment body language expert, Patti Wood — who has been studying interactions between celebrity couples for more than 20 years — noted as the first flaw in the unit.
“What I didn’t see when they stepped out of that car was warmth or tenderness,” Ms Wood told news.com.au.
“There were several ways in which Trump could’ve waited for his wife before greeting the Obamas, which he failed to do.
“Instead, he walked ahead and left her behind, showing that he is more important and takes precedence.”
Ms Wood said that while President Trump could’ve escorted the First Lady up the stairs, or given the gift to the Obamas as a couple — “he didn’t make the choice we wanted him to make”.
“The big ticker for me is that he didn’t even look back, check on his wife and formally introduce her to the Obamas,” she said.
“He didn’t make eye contact or smile at her, and he didn’t bring her into the fold.
“During the gift exchange, it looked like he had told her what to do with the box.
“It didn’t indicate they were a unit.”
Ms Wood said while the day is about the new President, the meeting at the White House is more a family exchange — from one unit to another.
“The Obamas made her feel welcome, but I didn’t see him make her feel that way,” she said.
“Meeting at the White House is for one family welcoming the other, but from what we saw — it didn’t look like the Trumps were a unit.
The rest of the story.
http://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/relationships/marriage/body-language-experts-explain-donald-and-melania-trumps-relationship/news-story/8c0424df65c1f9fd1566cc43835f62a7
Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.Melania Trump and Donald Trump's body language throughout the inauguration weekend, as compared with Barack Obama and Michelle Obama.
I analyzed Melania Trump and Donald Trump's body language throughout
the inauguration weekend, as compared with Barack Obama and Michelle
Obama. I shared what we can learn about Trump and his relationship with Melania through their body language. Below is a link to the article and the video that I watched.
https://mic.com/articles/166340/trump-melania-dance-inauguration-2017-awkward-behavior-experts-explain-compare-barack-michelle-obama#.tfXVKGlHi
Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.
https://mic.com/articles/166340/trump-melania-dance-inauguration-2017-awkward-behavior-experts-explain-compare-barack-michelle-obama#.tfXVKGlHi
Here are a few photos, gifs and video clips the journalist sent me. What do you think?
Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.
Body Language of Hillary, Obama, Trump and Melania at the presidential Inauguration
Here is a piece I did on the body language of Hilary, Obama, Trump and Melania at the presidential inauguration.
EXCLUSIVE - Hillary is fearful, Trump is selfish, and Obamas are sympathetic to Melania because Donald does not attend to her needs: Body language expert gives inauguration insights
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-4142298/Hillary-fearful-inauguration-Obamas-help-Melania.html
Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.
EXCLUSIVE - Hillary is fearful, Trump is selfish, and Obamas are sympathetic to Melania because Donald does not attend to her needs: Body language expert gives inauguration insights
- Hillary Clinton appeared 'fearful' before making her entrance at inauguration on Friday says body language expert Patti Wood, pointing to how her body froze
- 'She is steeling herself to make this entrance and her freeze response shows that she has a stark fear about what is going to happen,' said Wood
- Wood also said it showed 'weakness' when Hillary kept her eyes on the ground and her feet when she walked down the steps to her seat
- Meanwhile, the relationship between Barack and Michelle Obama is just as perfect as it appears based on their body language said Wood
- The couple were also sympathetic to Melania Trump when she arrived at the White House on Friday said Wood, with the Obama s realizing she was nervous
- Donald is selfish at times and does not a read the rest on the link.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-4142298/Hillary-fearful-inauguration-Obamas-help-Melania.html
Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.
Trump's Press Conference Body Language, Newsweek Magazine
WHAT’S DONALD TRUMP HIDING? HIS BODY LANGUAGE
SAYS IT ALL
BY JESSICA FIRGER ON
1/12/17 AT 1:02 PM
Experts have long known that humans communicate with much more
than just words. Nonverbal cues are critical in everyday situations, from
parenting effectively to dating to acing a job interview, or even getting
served in a timely fashion at a restaurant.
These cues are also important for assessing and forming opinions
about the people around us, including public figures. Plenty of research shows
that hand gestures, posture and facial expression and other visual
communication cues (even how close a person stands near others) are ripe for
interpretation. Often-cited (and debated) research from psychologist Albert
Mehrabian suggests that 55 percent of human communication is through body
language, 38 percent is the tone of voice and only 7 percent of the message
understood is the result of the words that come out of a person’s mouth. This
assertion may not hold true in all circumstances, but it does suggest that
nonverbal cues are critical to communication.
What makes this particularly interesting is that often these
visual cues don’t match up with what the person says, especially when it comes
to people in public prominence. More recent research suggests that when
people’s nonverbal communication isn’t in line with their words, these visual
cues are probably a better way to read their thoughts and feelings. Take, for
example, Donald Trump.
On Wednesday, Trump held his first press conference as the
incoming commander in chief. The event quickly turned raucous as Trump denied
he had any involvement with the Russian government and criticized members of
the press. Amid his more obvious, aggressive forms of communication (yelling
and finger-pointing) was a message that the president-elect is on the defensive
and perhaps has a little something to hide, says Patti Wood, a body
language expert for more than 30 years, speaker and author of Snap: Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and
Charisma.
Wood has been analyzing the nonverbal communication of
politicians since George W. Bush Jr. was in the White House, and she has made
some interesting observations about Adolf Hitler’s salutes and Sarah Palin’s
winks. Trump, she says, is a great study of how a person’s gesturing, posture
and facial expressions can be both confusing and persuasive.
“He is the perfect person to say the nonverbal has the power,”
she says of Trump. “People don’t hear the words, they don’t really pay
attention to the verbal message. It doesn’t matter at all.”
When Wood assesses someone’s communication skills—verbal and
nonverbal—she thinks about what’s customary for any person in a given scenario
and environment (in this case, a high-profile press conference held by the
president-elect). She also considers the “baseline” behavior of that particular
person. Wood has been studying Trump’s idiosyncratic communication habits over
the past 18 months and says there have been some small changes in the way
he addresses the public since he began campaigning for the presidency. For
example, Trump now raises his hands higher when he gestures, suggesting he may
have a higher opinion of himself after winning the election.
The way he evokes feelings through facial expression has also
evolved. In the beginning of his campaign, Trump had what she calls a “broad
emotional range,” meaning he could move freely from facial cues of laughter to
rage and anger. “And then I noticed a transition where he stayed in anger more
often,” she says.
But there are also many things that remain consistent, such as
his habit of evading questions and then providing an answer that’s seemingly
unrelated and ultimately falls apart into fragmented language. “His
baseline is often the baseline of someone being deceptive,” says Wood, adding
that these are communication cues she looks for when asked to analyze a video
of an interrogation. “He’s someone who doesn’t use complete sentences and
chooses to answer questions with an odd mix of words. That would typically be
an indication of deception.”
That verbal communication is underscored by some visual cues,
such as Trump’s trademark gesture: an emoji-like AOK symbol with his index
finger and thumb touching at the tips. In public speaking, many people are
trained to clench their thumb and finger tips together to evoke the
message “I’m being precise.”However, Trump’s gesture is different, and
Wood says that can be confusing to people watching and listening. In that way,
the hand movement becomes a great distraction from his imprecise verbal
communication.
Trump, Wood adds, also uses plenty of “weapon-like gesturing.”
This includes “chopping motions,” which he employed on Wednesday when he
declared, “I have no ties with Russia.” When he reprimanded BuzzFeed for
leaking an unverified intelligence document outlining his ties to the Russian
government, he moved his hands aside as if “pushing something out of the way,”
Wood says. That’s a less subtle visual cue. Unsurprisingly, it’s one of the
uncommon occurrences when his verbal and nonverbal communication actually match
up.
Even when Trump isn’t standing before a mic, his body language
sends plenty of strong messages. (It didn’t take a Ph.D. to conclude that
Trump’s lurking behind Hillary Clinton while she answered questions during the second
presidential debate was an attempt to intimidate her.)
During Wednesday’s press conference, after giving up the podium
to Sheri Dillon, Trump’s attorney, others on the stage, including his
daughter Ivanka and son-in-law Jared Kushner, stood formally with arms
folded, hands in front of their groins. This is what’s known in the public
speaking world as the “fig leaf position” since private parts are being
shielded. It’s a stance that’s customary at public meetings like press
conferences and evokes respect but also vulnerability.
Trump wasn’t guarding his loins at this point. He stood
on the sideline swaying back and forth, what Wood calls “self-soothing.”
He could also be seen biting his lip several times, a subconscious behavioral
cue that indicates “self-punishing” and suppressed anger, she says.
In several instances, Trump turned his head slightly to see
behind him, which reflects a “primal need to be an alpha animal and know your
territory,” Wood adds. It also didn’t take long before Trump’s entire body
faced the audience. Meaning: “I want to be the center of attention.”
In short, she says, the 45th president of the United States
looked bored.
Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.
How Important is Appearance in a Job Interview/
Many people know that most hiring decisions are made in the
first 10 seconds of the interview and then the interviewer gather information
to confirm their first impression. So appearance does matter.
Research shows the validity of the “What is beautiful is
good stereotype and that people judge attractive individuals more positively. In
my book SNAP Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma I
share that the four first impression factors are Credibly, Likeability,
Attractiveness and Power and it’s interesting that attractive people are often
perceived as having the other three factors. In terms of “Appearance” If
someone is well dressed and well groomed, it gives them credibility. If there
dress is high end (expensive) and high status, and or they give power cues,
like taking up space verbally and visually, and giving extended eye contact we
typically perceive them as powerful. And if they smile sincerely and give off
other warm cues we perceive them as likable. And by the way all of those
assessments can be done in the limbic system in as little as 1/300th
of a second.
Here is some of the scientific data.
Substantial empirical evidence and three meta-analyses have
firmly established the existence and validity of a "what-is-
beautiful-is-good stereotype" (e.g., Dion, Berscheid, & Walster, 1972;
Eagly et al, 1991; Feingold, 1992; Jackson et al., 1995). For example,
meta-analyses by Eagly et al. (1991) and Feingold (1992) showed that
attractiveness has (a) a strong effect on perceptions of social competence,
social skills, and sexual warmth, (b) a moderate effect on perceptions of
intellectual competence, potency, adjustment, dominance, and general mental
health, and (c) a weak effect on perceptions of integrity and concern for
others. In addition, sex-of-target differences were observed for the
perceptions of sexual warmth and intellectual competence. More specifically,
the effects of attractiveness on perceptions of sexual warmth were stronger for
women than for men (Feingold, 1992). However, the effects of attractiveness on
perceptions of intellectual competence were stronger for men than for women
(Jackson et al., 1995).
Furthermore, more recent meta-analyses (Langlois et al.,
2000) have shown that (a) following actual interaction with others, perceivers
judge attractive individuals more positively (e.g., in terms of interpersonal
competence, occupational competence, social appeal, adjustment) and treat them
more favorably (e.g., visual/ social attention, positive interaction, reward,
help/cooperation, acceptance) than less attractive individuals, and (b)
attractive individuals experience more positive outcomes in life (e.g.,
occupational success, popularity, dating experience, sexual experience,
physical health) than less attractive individuals."
I am an expert in body language and first impressions with degrees in nonverbal communication, and the author of 8 books including my book SNAP Making the Most of First Impressions Body Language and Charisma.
Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.
Body Language Read of J Lo and Drake by Patti Wood Body Language Expert
Jennifer Lopez and Drake have everyone talking about
their new romance after they both posted an intimate photo of themselves
snuggling up to the camera. Is their relationship all for show or is it the
real deal? HollywoodLife.com
reached out to top body language expert Patti Wood who gave us the EXCLUSIVE
411 on this sexy pair.
There’s no mistaking that Jennifer Lopez, 47, and Drake, 30, look like one
happy couple in the adorable photo they both shared on Instagram on Dec.
28. And body language
expert Patti Wood agrees! “It’s
significant that JLo’s eyes are closed because she’s typically looking at the
camera. In this photo, she’s in the moment with Drake,” Patti explains. “The
eyes closed is a very vulnerable way of presenting herself non-verbally. In the
moment means she’s actually experiencing the connection with him.” Awe!
What about Drake? Is he just playing
games with the megastar or does he have real feelings for the
beauty? “I like how
Drake’s arm is wrapped around JLo and how his hand is wrapped lightly around
her wrist with his relaxed fingers. This shows that Drake is confident and
relaxed,” Patti tells us. “It makes the moment more tender as well. I think she
feels cherished by him, that he’s a sweetie-pie. Her body is relaxed. She’s
cuddled in.” We love it!As we told you earlier, J.Lo seems to be quite taken with the Canadian singer. In fact, the mother of two is “smitten” with Drake, a source revealed to PEOPLE. “Jen is looking forward with excitement to the new year. She keeps hanging out with Drake, and he has visited her house,” a friend of J.Lo’s told the outlet. Sounds serious!
Let’s Celebrate Christmas till July
Let’s
Celebrate Christmas till July
Rough Draft
by Patti Wood
Spent two hours untangling the Christmas
lights
Strung them up, then they didn’t work right
Went to three stores to find more in white
Decorating the tree will take all night
I’m keeping
up all the Christmas lights
Santa can
see them next time he flies by
I’m not
taking down our tree all bright
Let’s
celebrate Christmas till July
Not packing
up the boughs down the banister
I’m not
retying all those big red bows
Not baking
more cookies for the canister
No more
cooking for me. You heat up all I froze
I’m keeping
up the Christmas lights
Santa can
see them next time he flies by
I’m not
taking down our tree all bright
Let’s
celebrate Christmas till July
I’ve picked
up and vacuumed this house enough
I’ve filled
ten garbage bags with all our trash
I’ve battled
crowds and traffic to buy you stuff
Let’s enjoy
it and next year give me cash
I’m keeping
up the Christmas lights
Santa can
see them next time he flies by
I’m not taking
down our tree all bright
Let’s
celebrate Christmas till July
I want to sit
with my feet up by the fireplace
And listen
to each Christmas carol
I want us
together not rushed let’s feel God’s grace
And drink a
little mulled wine, make that a barrel
I’m keeping
up the Christmas lights
Santa can
see them next year when he flies by
I’m not
taking down our tree all bright
Let’s celebrate Christmas
Let’s celebrate Christmas
Let’s celebrate
Christmas
Let’s celebrate
Christmas tilllll July
Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.
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