Patti will be on the Steve Harvey Show for his annual "LOVE WEEK" sharing her insights on Kissing on February 13th at 1 pm, EST. You can view the show on NBC. If you miss the show, watch Patti's blog for a future post in which we will have the entire segment for your viewing.
Patti Wood, MA, Certified Speaking Professional - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com. Also check out Patti's YouTube channel at http://youtube.com/user/bodylanguageexpert.
10 Different Kisses and What They Mean
Different Types of
Kisses to Try
Cheek Kiss
A peck on the cheek for a first date is also a friendly way of greeting someone. A woman can signal she wants a cheek kiss by leaning in. To kiss your date or partner on the cheek put your hands on the man’s arms lightly and offer your cheek. For the man reach out and rest your hands lightly on the shoulders and gently move in to kiss the cheek.
Cheek Kiss
A peck on the cheek for a first date is also a friendly way of greeting someone. A woman can signal she wants a cheek kiss by leaning in. To kiss your date or partner on the cheek put your hands on the man’s arms lightly and offer your cheek. For the man reach out and rest your hands lightly on the shoulders and gently move in to kiss the cheek.
Forehead or Top of
the Head Kiss- If it is the only kind of kiss you get it signal I am your big
brother or big sister kiss. Or if you have kissed before it signals I feel
protectiveness and nurturing as well as lust for you.
Earlobe Kiss
This kiss is more sensuous. The earlobes are a sensitive area and kissing or nibbling or sucking on them can be very arousing.
French KissThis kiss is more sensuous. The earlobes are a sensitive area and kissing or nibbling or sucking on them can be very arousing.
This is the most popular and widely known kiss. It involves closeness along with a hint of sexual excitement. It is a beautiful experience. But it is definitely not a first or second date kind of a kiss. You have to start with a normal lip to lip kiss and then slowly bring your tongue into play. Let your tongues brush against each other but don't go too deep.
Don't rush take it slow. Recognize body cues that show
your kissing partner wants to kiss or is closed to the kiss open vs. closed
windows, blocking gestures, retreat.
Butterfly Kiss
This is a simple and sweet type of kiss that signals a sweet and tender trusting relationship. Because it would indicate that your partner loves only you. To perform the butterfly kiss, bring your face very close to your partner's face so that your eyelashes are touching. Now flutter your eyelashes like the fluttering of a butterfly's wings.
Single-Lip Kiss
This is again a very sensual kind of a kiss. To do it just take your partners lip and suck it with two of your lips. Do it very gently as doing it hard will make their lip go numb and it might even be painful. It is a nice change from the usual types of kisses.
Eskimo Kiss
In the Eskimo kiss you have to get your face close to your partner's and rub your nose against theirs. Do it gently to enjoy it. Based on Greeting followed by the Eskimos.
Butterfly Kiss
This is a simple and sweet type of kiss that signals a sweet and tender trusting relationship. Because it would indicate that your partner loves only you. To perform the butterfly kiss, bring your face very close to your partner's face so that your eyelashes are touching. Now flutter your eyelashes like the fluttering of a butterfly's wings.
Single-Lip Kiss
This is again a very sensual kind of a kiss. To do it just take your partners lip and suck it with two of your lips. Do it very gently as doing it hard will make their lip go numb and it might even be painful. It is a nice change from the usual types of kisses.
Eskimo Kiss
In the Eskimo kiss you have to get your face close to your partner's and rub your nose against theirs. Do it gently to enjoy it. Based on Greeting followed by the Eskimos.
Angel Kiss
In this kiss you lightly touch your partner's eyes with your lips. It is a very caring and loving gesture. This is a very sweet gentle type of kiss. Men just to let you know a woman feels especially cherished when you gently and loving give an angel kiss.
Arabian Nights Kiss -
Seal me with kisses or open kisses that go all over the body all over kisses.
The name of this kiss says it all. There were 101 stories in the Arabian nights. Kiss from the top of the head to the waist and or from the toes to the thigh. You can start this kiss from the top of the head or forehead and slowly move down on the face and further kissing gently everywhere.
Surprise Kiss
Kiss your partner when they don’t expect it for example: in the middle of cooking dinner together, across the dinner table, just after you have gotten in the car, or just after you brush your teeth.
In this kiss you lightly touch your partner's eyes with your lips. It is a very caring and loving gesture. This is a very sweet gentle type of kiss. Men just to let you know a woman feels especially cherished when you gently and loving give an angel kiss.
Arabian Nights Kiss -
Seal me with kisses or open kisses that go all over the body all over kisses.
The name of this kiss says it all. There were 101 stories in the Arabian nights. Kiss from the top of the head to the waist and or from the toes to the thigh. You can start this kiss from the top of the head or forehead and slowly move down on the face and further kissing gently everywhere.
Surprise Kiss
Kiss your partner when they don’t expect it for example: in the middle of cooking dinner together, across the dinner table, just after you have gotten in the car, or just after you brush your teeth.
Patti Wood, MA, Certified Speaking Professional - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com. Also check out Patti's YouTube channel at http://youtube.com/user/bodylanguageexpert.
Secret Benefits of Kissing
“A kiss is the contraction of mouth due to the expansion of
the heart.”
Secret Benefits of Kissing
When you kiss your sweetie this Valentine's Day, you are
practicing a nonverbal interaction that takes place in over 90 percent of human
cultures.
Research shows that kissing or if you prefer the scientific term Osculation, is often the deciding factor in selecting a
sexual partner as well as first “kiss or miss” determiner of selecting a life
partner, especially for women.
Kissing evolved to stimulate all three distinct brain
systems involved in mating and reproduction those that involve sex drive,
romantic love, and attachment. In fact more of your brain lights up during
kissing than it does for other later romantic activity. Sex drive compels us to
seek partners, romantic love tells us to commit to one, and attachment helps us
tolerate this person (at least long enough to have a child).
·
Kissing
is a stress reliever. Researchers found that in long term relationships the
more the couple kissed the more their stress hormone cortisol levels declined.
·
Kissing
is good for your health. According to the Kinsey Institute New Report on Sex; a
passionate kiss burns 6.4 calories per minute. (And it is a lot more fun than
jogging on a treadmill that burns not much more: 11.2 calories per minute.)
·
Why
women kiss before they say, “I do.” Studies reveal many women use information
they gain through kissing to decide on a mate. Because a woman tends to be
attracted to male partners with a different immune system makeup from her own
and she detects this information through smell when they kiss.
·
Have
a great first kiss or else. A bad first kiss can kill a would-be romance faster
than a woman can reapply her lipstick. In a S.U.N.Y. of Albany survey, a higher
number of women than men said they would not have sex with a poor kisser and
more than 69 percent of women say they would end the relationship if the first
kiss with their partner was bad.
·
A
kiss is the best “On” button. Women are
stimulated faster by kissing than any other physical activity to prompt them to
want to engage in sex. Yes you read that right.
·
Kissing
can improve your immune system by building anti-bodies to foreign bacteria.
Don't worry; about 95% of your partner's bacteria is probably friendly and
familiar to your own body already.
·
Women
like kissing before, during, and after sex. Men use it to get sex then they are
more likely to go to sleep.
·
French
kiss for workout - A simple pucker kiss takes only two muscles, but all 34 of
your facial muscles get a workout during a deep French kiss.
·
Men
like French kissing for a reason - Research shows that men show a preference
for French kissing. Scientist explains this preference. Wet, open-mouthed
kisses allow men to dose women with small amounts of libido-raising
testosterone via their saliva. Over time, weeks or months of this dosing
increase her testosterone which can enhance her libido.
·
More
Kissing More Fun- Testosterone doping can explain why if you stop kissing
before you make love a woman’s libido may go down. This should be great
motivation to kiss and kiss again.
·
What
he thinks and she thinks about during kissing – Because of the chemical and
brain differences in genders research suggests that when a woman kisses a man
he thinks, “Oh boy we are going to get more physically close.” And when a man
kisses a women she thinks, “Oh boy, we are getting more emotionally close.”
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Patti Wood, MA, Certified Speaking Professional - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com. Also check out Patti's YouTube channel at http://youtube.com/user/bodylanguageexpert.
Why Kissing is Important to Sex
Why kissing is so important. The limbic system, what some researchers call the primitive
brain is where our bodily functions, such as heart rate, breathing, and perspiration
our controlled automatically. The limbic
system is the center for controlling our actions that insure our survival and
having sex ( to insure the survival or our species.)
Kissing is important
because it actually excites the limbic brain center so that that it “command
central” can send the cascade of hormones that increase the libido and prepare
the body to have sex. It is up to the
cerebral cortex, also called the new brain, where logic and conscious thought
occurs to put the brakes on or stop us from having sex with the wrong partner
or at the wrong time or to monitor the process enough to ensure we have safe
sex.
Patti Wood, MA, Certified Speaking Professional - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com. Also check out Patti's YouTube channel at http://youtube.com/user/bodylanguageexpert.
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