You will be so glad you watched this video. It shares in a few minutes what an open heart will do. This is the message of all my work. I would love everyone I know to see it! My goodness how special.
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Emmys 2015: Jon Hamm prostrates himself on stage in supplicating Emmy ‘Thank you’ speech
acceptance speech — and that made him an even bigger winner.
Hamm oozed humility, with an “I’m not worthy” approach that made him the sexiest supplicant in Emmy history.
The 44-year-old “Mad Men” star is in a 12-step program, but he didn’t take the stairs to claim his prize as best actor in a drama — his first after seven consecutive snubs. Instead, Hamm took the floor, wriggling onto the stage on his belly.
Yes, he prostrated himself before millions. And that came after he dropped his head to his chest after hearing Tina Fey announce his name.
“It's not pretty. It’s all awkward. (He’s saying) ‘I don't even deserve to walk up the steps,’” says Atlanta-based body language expert Patti Wood. “It’s clearly saying, I am humble.”
Hamm’s self-censure comes after his personal annus horribilis .
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Yes, Jon Hamm smiled after he accepted the award for best actor in a drama series for “Mad Men,” but not after he prostrated himself on stage and acted very humbled.
Back in February, he spent 30 days in rehab for alcohol abuse. Earlier this month, he split from longtime girlfriend Jennifer Westfeldt. They’d spent 18 years together.
Despite their separation, Hamm thanked “Jen” in his speech — right after he thanked their dog, Cora.
Woods, author of “SNAP - Making the Most of First Impressions Body Language and Charisma,” believes that Hamm’s decision to go belly-up rather than taking the stairs was planned in advance of the telecast.“I know these kinds of events,” says Woods. “It’s as if he’s saying ‘I can’t do this the normal way. I’m doing it the hard way.’”
Patti Wood, MA, Certified Speaking Professional - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com. Also check out Patti's YouTube channel at http://youtube.com/user/bodylanguageexpert.
Recent pics from my Body Language Sales and Leadership program for Hubbell Power Systems in Atlanta, GA.
Patti Wood, MA, Certified Speaking Professional - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com. Also check out Patti's YouTube channel at http://youtube.com/user/bodylanguageexpert.
Patti with famous singer songwriter James Dean Hicks at recent program for Hubbell Power Systems in Atlanta, GA.
Patti Wood, MA, Certified Speaking Professional - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com. Also check out Patti's YouTube channel at http://youtube.com/user/bodylanguageexpert.
Power is communicated by the amount of space you take, whether
your body is open rather than closed and relaxed rather than tense.
Donald Trump finger points and chops in
weapon like gestures, scowls and grimaces and yells a lot. This combined with
his BIG hair, big head and jaw and height make his imprint as the aggressive
alpha male candidate. In addition, he has a low, growly voice. In
the analysis of the Debates from the past hundred years the candidate with the
lowest voice won. Lower tones in the voice are formed by a larger larynx. Trump
is the lion roaring and that can win over a “nice” candidate. Anger can “trump”
nice.
Other candidates
in the first Republican debates:
Jeb Bush kept his shoulders down and
his arms tight to his body. He looked scared. In many speaking situations
he gives an unfortunate puppy head tilt at the beginning of his answers to
questions. In the last debate he also did an “I give up shrugs” and spoke at a
low volume and gave halting, and half-finished utterance. His body
swayed to give himself comfort rocking motion and head tilts. He needs to be
stronger and more forceful and gesture more broadly.
Ben Carson has beautiful words but
he was not forceful enough in this first debate! Several times he held his
arms out with his palms facing upwards in a gesture cluster I call Holy
supplication. This makes him look submissive rather than presidential. He
should gesture more forcefully and forward. He is open and likable and
when he smiles he is charming but so far he is not quite alpha enough in debate
mode. Open and likable are admirable characteristics but he needs to look more
in control to win viewer’s confidence. The biggest issue in the first
debate is that he holds his head back in and down so he looked like a turtle
fearfully hiding his head. He also gulped down his words, and let his voice
trail off at the end of sentences. He also held his own hands. He
has a great sense of humor and he can be spontaneous so he has a chance to win
viewers over if he works on his power.
Carly Florina has the chance to have a fresh
new image. She has a nice, low voice. Slow and deliberate. Margaret Thatcher
trained her voice to go low when she gave serious messages. Carly has a great deliberate
and low presidential voice. Even if you don't agree with her message her delivery
is that of a leader. When she speaks and says things like. “This is a great
nation” her gestures are small, but lady like. The best thing about her
gestures is that they are in sync. They are authentically given in
what body language and credibility detection reads call a “feel show
say” order. She feels something and gestures from her limbic brain and then
says the words from her neocortex. That feel show say delivery indicates she
truly believes what she says. We hear and see that and we believe her. In fact,
her head even moves in sync. She communicates anger well and rehearsed messages
well. We need to see her being spontaneous and giving inspiring messages.
Chris Christie is folksy and relaxed but gets
defensive easily. Anger does not look good on him.
Patti Wood, MA, Certified Speaking Professional - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com. Also check out Patti's YouTube channel at http://youtube.com/user/bodylanguageexpert.
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