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The Working Mom's Perfect Handshake

Patti shared with www.WorkingMother.com her insights on the perfect handshake.  Below is the article that her tips appeared in.  Also here is the actual link to the article:  http://www.workingmother.com/working-mom-hows-your-handshake-tips#page-2






















Patti Wood, MA, Certified Speaking Professional - The Body Language Expert. For more body
language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.
     

Gender Differences In How We Feel About Our Looks

Carol King and her husband wrote “You’re Beautiful as you feel.” It’s a great song lyric, and a great thought.  There are gender differences in how we feel about our looks. Teenage boys and men tend to look in the mirror and think, “I look great!” Teenage girls and women tend to look in the mirror or phone camera and see what they don’t like and think they are not attractive. In the age of selfies, we make faces in the mirror or change the angle of the camera and tweak the photos to make ourselves more attractive rather than accept our true selves.

I suggest that for ourselves and our children every time you look in the mirror smile and say something positive out loud like, “You Rock!”  What a concept. Accept yourself and think you Rock! You can also use other methods to build self-esteem in your children here.

Patti Wood, MA, Certified Speaking Professional - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.
     

Taylor Swift and Tom Hiddleston Show 'Tenderness' According To Body Language Expert | Daily Mail Online

'It's like warp speed dating!' New couple Taylor Swift and Tom Hiddleston show 'true tenderness' according to body language experts as they kiss passionately near star's Rhode Island home... just two weeks after her split from Calvin Harris

Published: 16:10 EST, 17 June 2016 | Updated: 19:11 EST, 17 June 2016

She only announced her split from boyfriend of 15 months Calvin Harris two weeks ago. But according to body language experts Taylor Swift is already well and truly smitten with British actor Tom Hiddleston as pictures emerged this week of the pop superstar kissing her new beau on a beach near her Rhode Island home, before they were seen the next day boarding a private jet together.

Speaking to the MailOnline, the experts point to signs of 'true tenderness' between Taylor, 26, and Tom, 35, but the intimate display has also sparked questions about the 'warp speed' of their relationship, which has developed just a month after they were first spotted together at May's Met Gala.

 
Taylor took Tom to one of her favourite spots on Tuesday, with the couple seen climbing over the rocks at Weekapaug beach, seven miles from the US superstar's huge mansion in Rhode Island.

Casually dressed in a short blue dress and brown sweater, Taylor looked completely at ease in handsome Tom's company as the couple snuggled up together in front of the stunning ocean view, before leaning in for a passionate kiss.

The couple were also keen to capture their romantic day, with both stars taking turns to snap selfies before gallant Tom helped Taylor back over the rocks. 
Speaking to the MailOnline, Patti Wood, MA, who is a Certified Speaking Professional for The Gold Standard of Body Language Experts, is convinced of Tom's affection for Taylor, determining: 'He is smitten.'

Pointing to the moment where the actor is behind Taylor with his legs wrapped around her and kissing, Patti says The Night Manager hunk is besotted with Taylor, but the pop singer appears to be holding back. 'She is more pulled back to sexual intimacy,' suggests Patti. 'I do like how she is seen stretching out her arm to him, she is giving just bit of herself.'

Patti adds that 'there is some true tenderness in the photos, they could be acting, but she shows trust in several photos.'

The body language expert explains that the couple have a completely different level of intimacy in comparison to video footage of the pair hitting the dance floor at May's Met Ball, commenting: 
'The video didn’t show any connection, these photos do. If they were posing on the beach they really thought every move out to catch that gentleness.' 





Patti Wood, MA, Certified Speaking Professional - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.
     

Taylor Swift and Tom Hiddelton Are They Faking a Relationship.

Taylor Swift and Tom Hiddelton Are They Faking a Relationship.


http://hollywoodlife.com/2016/06/16/taylor-swift-tom-hiddleston-fake-relationship-publicity-calvin-harris/



Patti Wood, MA, Certified Speaking Professional - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.
     

The Perfect Realtor Headshot: 25 Ideas &Tips from the Pros

I was featured in an article for Fit Small Business and my insights are below highlighted in yellow on how to practice posing for your head shot.   The link to the actual article is at the end of this blog post.

The Perfect Realtor Headshot: 
25 Ideas &Tips from the Pros

By Emile L'Eplattenier on June 13, 2016

Your realtor head shot should be the keystone of your personal brand. If you are spending money to advertise your profile on places like Zillow Premier Agent, it’s even more important.
In this article, you’ll learn 25 tips from professional photographers, body language experts, and data from photo feeler, to make sure your realtor head shot is sending the right message about your brand.  For our industry, that message should be that you are trustworthy, competent, and confident enough to help people through one of the most important decisions of their lives.  

How to Look Trustworthy in Your Realtor Headshot

1. Smile
According to a study published in the journal of Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, people who looked happier in photographs were viewed as more trustworthy, while people who looked unhappier were viewed as less trustworthy. Both happy looking and unhappy looking people were viewed as equally competent, but when asked who they would choose to be their financial advisor, test subjects chose the happier looking person every time.
Studies from photofeeler.com came up with virtually identical results; people who smiled in their headshot were seen as far more likable and influential than those that didn’t, but only very slightly more competent. The takeaway here should be obvious.















General posing tips

21. Practice Your Pose before Your Shoot
Body language expert Patti Wood, MA, CSP recommends practicing several different poses in the mirror before your shoot to find one that fits your personality. Remember that crossing your arms can make you appear powerful, but closed off or defensive. If you find crossing your arms fits your personality best, Patti recommends crossing your arms loosely.

The Bottom Line
A great head shot should be the keystone of your personal branding efforts. Taking the time and effort to hire a professional photographer, working on your confidence, smile, wardrobe and pose, can offer a great ROI, and put you one step further down to path to achieving your goals.

Article link:  http://fitsmallbusiness.com/realtor-headshot/


Patti Wood, MA, Certified Speaking Professional - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.