The only thing keeping us
from crying about Princess Charlotte's start of nursery school (they grow up
so fast!) is the fact that there will be another bundle of joy joining the royal family in a few
months. Even though their love story is practically public news, Prince William
and Kate Middleton keep it fairly private when it comes to their family — until
they have a mandatory royal engagement that gives us a glimpse into their
private life. This is when they prove that they're a normal family after all, temper tantrums included.
Through it all, the
loving couple serves as the backbone for the family — and their body language
is proof. " Overall, their attentive body language indicates that they're
in tune to their children's emotional needs," Blanca Cobb, body language
expert and author of Methods of the Masters, told GoodHousekeeping.com.
Not only
are they in tune with their children, but they try to stay at the same level —
literally. In many instances, both William and Kate will lean down and become
eye level with their children. "This behavior shows that their children
are their primary focus, regardless of how many cameras are in their
face," Patti Wood, body language expert and author of SNAP: Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language, and Charisma
told GoodHousekeeping.com.
Being eye
level creates an intimate moment between them and their children, shielding any
of the craziness going on around them. And let's face it, they're always
surrounded by craziness. "They look their kids in the eye, which shows
that they want a true connection, even a little authority when necessary,"
Traci Brown, body language expert and author of How to Detect Lies, Fraud and Identity Theft: The Field Guide,
told GoodHousekeeping.com.
In
this particular instance, Prince William is leaning
his body over Prince George, proving that he's his son's protector during
uncertain moments. "William is also letting his son determine how much he
needs him," says Wood. "Here, Prince George is only holding on to his
father with a few fingers, proving that he feels comfortable in the
situation."
It's
important to remember that moms and dads comfort their children in a number of
ways — and both William and Kate have their own flair. "Rubbing Prince
George's hair is not only a means of care-taking but also a way for Kate to
protect him from the cameras," explains Wood. A pointed elbow and straight
fingers, like Kate is displaying, is similar to a karate move. In other words,
this is Kate' subconscious — and polite — way to tell others to back off her
little boy.
Now,
prepare for the ultimate Kodak moment. While arriving at the airport, the
couple (yes, both of
them!) reassured Charlotte that everything was a-okay.
"A
double touch is a truly standout moment," says Wood. "They are both
are completely in the moment, ensuring that Charlotte is comfortable." For
extra reassurance, Prince William is leaning forward, trying to catch eye
contact with his daughter. With one lock of the eyes, Princess Charlotte will
feel at ease and they can carry on, no matter what comes their way.
One of the best ways for a
parent to physically show their child that they're there for them is to physically be there for them. Here,
Prince William is taking his son's weight and leaning back to make his son feel
extra secure. "The lower arm acts as a seat for his son and is an anchor
that makes him feel supported," says Wood. The cutest part? Prince George
looks completely serene in his father's arms.
If this isn't enough evidence
already, the couple's body language suggests that they adore being parents. "Both Prince William and Kate are
all smiles while interacting with their children letting us know
how much they enjoy being parents," says Cobb. Our hats are off to you,
Will and Kate! You make even the most difficult of moments look as sweet as can
be.
Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at
www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at
www.snapfirstimpressions.com.
