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20 Body Language Signs That Your Marriage Is In Trouble, Possible Signs of Cheating

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https://www.goodhousekeeping.com/life/relationships/g5197/body-language-marriage/

You don't walk as a team.
Power couples (think: Prince William and Kate Middleton) have in-sync walking patterns. "The goal is for couples to walk with their feet side by side on an invisible line," Patti Wood, body language expert and author of SNAP: Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language, and Charisma told GoodHousekeeping.com. "When this walking pattern is disrupted, it indicates that there is a disconnect between the couple."

You're closed off.
When royals cross their legs, they can chalk it up to proper etiquette. But for the average Joe, crossed legs can show that someone feels detached from the situation —or worse, the person that they're with. "If your legs are closed, your partner will pick up on your disinterest," says Wood."And a lack of sexual interest leads to a relationship's downfall

You pat each other on the back (literally) .
Hey, we all need a pat on the back from time to time. However, it's questionable when a romantic partner opts for a gentle pat instead of an intimate embrace. "If you partner begins to pat you on the back during a hug, it immediately desexualizes it, " says Wood. "Let's face it, you and your partner aren't just teammates." 

You touch your neck during a conversation.
In emotional situations, we all have a tendency to find ways to comfort ourselves. Women, in particular, typically touch their neck or throat. "Oftentimes, touching the neck or throat indicates that someone is keeping something from another person," says Wood. "The throat is the gateway for words, and therefore it's one of the most vulnerable parts of the body."

You're not as close as you used to be.
If you notice that your partner (or even, yourself) are physically close to everyone except for one another, then it's time to evaluate your relationship. "When examining the lack of intimacy between you and your partner, it's important to think about if this is singular to you," says Wood. "If so, that means there's trouble in paradise."

Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.
     

Boom Box Love Scene, Stalking or Love?


I loved this movie when it came out and now I wonder if I was loving a stalking movie as John Cusak's character is stalking a women who clearly was not interested in him!!

Patti Wood, MA, Certified Speaking Professional - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com. Also check out Patti's YouTube channel at http://youtube.com/user/bodylanguageexpert.

Raise Your Eyebrows!!! What Does An Eyebrow Flash Mean?


A participant in one of my programs shared this story.

"I wanted to tell you a funny story about “eyebrow flash.”  I have 3 girlfriends from grade school to current – we’re all in our 60’s.  For the past few years, at various times in our get-togethers or get-aways, I’ve been known to comment, as we’re taking pictures, “Raise your eyebrows” convinced this makes us look younger.  Well, the four of us went to my son’s college on a football weekend to visit him and have our girlfriend get-away.  We (just us girls) asked one of his fraternity brothers to take our group picture.  As he was aiming, I said “Raise your eyebrows!” to my girlfriends.  This young man stopped, lowered the cell phone with a puzzled look at us, proceeded to raise his eyebrows and lifted the cell to take our picture!  Needless to say, we were all doing a not-very-flattering laugh in the picture.  This young man, of course, didn’t realize we were talking to ourselves and not to him.  But bless his heart, he gave it the good old college try and complied!"


Patti Wood, MA, Certified Speaking Professional - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com. Also check out Patti's YouTube channel at http://youtube.com/user/bodylanguageexpert.

Science of the Perfect Handshake. The Steps of the Perfect Handshake


Here is a link to an article I did for INC.com on the Science of the Perfect Handshake. For more information you can read the handshake chapter in my book SNAP! Making the Most of First Impressions Body Language and Charisma or go to the books website www.snapfirstimpressions.com  



Patti Wood, MA, Certified Speaking Professional - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com. Also check out Patti's YouTube channel at http://youtube.com/user/bodylanguageexpert.

Travel Tips From A Professional Speaker


I am a professional speaker and have been traveling every week for over 30 years. Here are some of my favorite Travel Tips: 

I use potato chip bag clips to clip curtains, (They are much better than clothes pins) I also carry duct tape to tape the right and left edges of the curtains to the walls. I also use it to go over the clock and other little white lights that seem to be on the light switches, floor plugs, lamps and all over hotel rooms these days. I hate them.

I carry a hot pink velour tract suit jacket to keep warm and to put over the bed side lamp, to keep the horrible blue light bulb light from keeping me awake and to give my hotel room a nice, soft pink glow. It's lovely. I also carry the red piece of plastic from Wal Mart to tape over other blue lights.


Even though I ask that my hotel room bill NOT be put under my door as it wakes me up!!! Hotels still do it. So I tape a note on the outside bottom of the door of my hotel room. With a drawing of the bill under the door with a circle and a cross through it. By the way, they still untape the sign sometimes and ram the bill through!!!

Sometimes the hotel room air is very, very dry and hard on my voice as I am a professional speaker.  There are too many germs in the shower to run the shower steam and that wastes water, so I take a wash cloth and soak it in hot water and breathe that steam and hot water in and sometimes lay it on my face and lay down for a moment, so it's also calming.

I work out when I travel and if I strain anything I either use the dry cleaning bag and fill it with ice to wrap say a strained knee or my shower cap! The ice bucket liner, the dry cleaning bag in the closet or my shower cap can also be used to pack a wet bathing suit or spilled make up or shampoo.

Because I have hacked the ice bag trick so many times I also pack a few gallon zip lock freezer bags. Freezer bags or the ice bucket lining can be used to go over the channel changer so you don’t have to touch that germy device. I don’t typically watch TV when I travel, but sometimes I need to comment on the body language of some public figure so I have it ready.

I carry a pumice stone it can take off magic marker and other stains from your hands if you are very gentle in a pinch so can a cardboard nail file.

I have a little photo of me with my family taped to a bent piece of cardboard that I put on my bedside table in the hotel room. It's wonderfully comforting.

I ask the bellman to unplug the mini fridge for me as the sound drives me crazy, but I have figured out how to get behind almost any cabinet to unplug it myself.

I take the sheet from the second bed or get a sheet from house keeping to lay on top of the bedspread as the bedspread may be "germy" and I want to be able to pull it up and use it.


Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.