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Vice President Kamala Harris and Doug Harris Inauguration Day Body Language Read by Body Language Expert Patti Wood

Kamala Harris & Doug Emhoff's Inauguration Day 2021 Body Language Is Telling

Just when you thought they could not possibly get any cuter, Kamala Harris and Doug Emhoff's Inauguration Day 2021 body language confirms they're an incredible team. The couple made history on Jan. 20, 2021 as Harris was sworn in as America's first female vice president, first Black vice president, and first Asian vice president. For his part, Emhoff made history as the nation's first second gentleman and first Jewish first or second spouse.

Even before their inauguration body language knocked the socks right off my now-bare feet, Emhoff and Harris had made it pretty clear that they're one of the most adorable couples in American history. The two first met via a blind date back in 2013 and, from there on out, they were serious about making their relationship really happen. "The morning after our first date, Doug emailed me with a list of his available dates for the next couple of months. 'I'm too old to play games or hide the ball,' the email read. 'I really like you, and I want to see if we can make this work,'" Harris recalled in her 2019 memoir, The Truths We Hold.

The couple was engaged by March 2014 and married just five months after that in a small courthouse ceremony in Santa Barbara, which was officiated by Maya Harris, the vice president's sister. And now they're literally making history together.

Check out their inauguration body language below.

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While on stage, it seemed as though Harris and Emhoff were in their own little world, according to Patti Wood, a body language expert and author of Snap: Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language, and Charisma. "What is striking is how we see that — with the world looking on as she turns from being inaugurated — this is their moment, exclusive of anyone else," Wood says. "Their focus is solely on each other. This — and his eyes looking down on her, her uplifted head, and open, up-raised arms — show their love."

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Harris' joy was also apparent in the moment. "Note her front teeth, open mouth, full, real smile," says Wood. "Also, notice her open, palm up energy [and] happy hand gesture, showing she wants to caress his face and share her happiness," Wood adds.

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And let's not forget that oh-so-adorable hug shared between Harris and Emhoff. "This what I labeled years ago the 'Heart Hug' — see the full-on secure and locked front of the body contact," says Wood. "And note the equality in the giving and receiving of this hug. He is leaning in and reaching around and laying his face on hers and holding her in the same way she is holding him. That is quite special and bodes well for them dealing with this new to us power structure. I also am struck by her closed eyes, face up at the moment, love, and giving to him at this moment."

I don't know about you all, but I'm so ready for four (or more!) years of Harris and Emhoff's sweet body language.

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Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.
     

President Barack and Michelle Obama Body Language at the Joe Biden Presidential Inauguration

Barack & Michelle Obama's Inauguration Day 2021 Body Language Is Strong As Ever

Barack and Michelle Obama are as beloved a couple as it gets, and you better believe they were not about to miss the inauguration of their good friend, President (!!) Joe Biden. These two always show up as a united front, and today was no exception. Barack and Michelle Obama's Inauguration Day 2021 body language was strong as ever. They took their place outside the Capitol Building alongside the Bushes, the Clintons, the Harris and Emhoff families, and of course, the Bidens, in addition to several other politicians and guests (including Lady Gaga, boyfriend Michael Polansky, Jennifer Lopez, and Alex Rodriguez).

As always, the former President and first lady did not come to play. Michelle stunned in burgundy Sergio Hudson trousers, a turtleneck, and coat with a gold statement belt, per Glamour. Barack's look was also classically elegant; he rocked a long black coat. They both wore matching black face masks.

Elite Daily spoke to Patti Wood, body language expert and author of Snap: Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language, and Charisma, about what Barack and Michelle's inauguration day body language says about their current relationship dynamic. Here's what she had to say. (Spoiler alert: It's still strong as ever.)

Their Strong & Steady Hand Clasp Shows A Consistent Connection.

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Wood says Barack and Michelle's steady hand clasp while they descended the stairs is a strong indicator of the connection between them. It was consistent throughout their arrival to the Capitol, and as they approached the platform.

It's Clear This Isn't Their First Rodeo.

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One important thing Wood notes about this photo is how stepping out onto the platform makes the Obamas vulnerable to potential attacks. "I train all branches of law enforcement body language and psychological assessment of risk," says Wood. "This would have been to anyone both a terrifying and noble moment." Nevertheless, Wood sees no signs of fear in the couple. "This makes all the warm, positive moments more powerful."

It's clear this is not the Obamas' first rodeo. Wood points to how close they're standing, and how both their arms are down and close to their sides. Matching strides and mirroring body language is always a sign of a strong connection between a couple. Barack and Michelle couldn't be more aligned.

They Look Confident & Strong.

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Wood says Michelle's choice in wardrobe was powerful, making her resemble a super hero that looks "so strong and confident." (Truth!) She also points to the fact that the Obamas are still holding hands and stepping down the stairs perfectly in sync. "What I noticed in the first few minutes of watching them is how close they walked and stood with one another — always in sync and in contact."

This Fist-Bump Moment Is Special In More Ways Than One.

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According to Wood, there are several reasons this photo is both "magical" and "unique." She points to Barack and Michelle's matching posture, and how in-sync they are with their closed fist-bump greetings. Matching postures in couples is always a good sign the two are on the same page. Wood also points to the similarities between this moment, and the iconic fist-bump the couple gave each other back in 2008, when Barack accepted the democratic nomination for President. "I also like how Michelle is leaning her head forward to make the greeting more connected and personal," says Wood.

All in all, Barack and Michelle came to serve and they did not disappoint. Absolutely — and I cannot stress this enough — love to see it.



Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.
     

Body Language in the Virtual World, Training Program to Improve Your Zoom Body Language, By Body Language Expert Patti Wood


Body Language

Create Real Connections in a Virtual World

By:  Patti Wood MA


About Patti Called the "Gold Standard" of Body Language by the Washington Post and credited in the New York Times for bringing the topic to national attention Patti Wood, is a true expert. She creates high energy interactive programs, filled with humor, cutting edge information, and valuable "Take-Aways." She is the author of nine books, and she speaks and consults with Fortune 500 companies and associations. You see her on National TV shows like Good Morning America, The Today Show, CNN, The Talk, CBN, FOX News, The Discovery Channel, The History Channel, The Today Show, and Entertainment Tonight. She is quoted every week in publications such as;  The Wall Street Journal, Psychology Today, Refinery 29, Readers Digest, The Hill, Politico, Bustle, Elite Daily, Bloomberg Business Week, Fortune, The Independent, Good Housekeeping, Oprah, and USA Today

 

What You Will Get

 

In every minute of interaction with another person, you exchange up to 10,000 nonverbal cues that determine what they think of you and how you will connect. If you have an essential idea to communicate, you need to buy in and ache for a true connection you need more than hacks. This high energy, interactive, humor-filled program will teach you the secrets of reading body language and how to use them to create and deepen your relationships in the virtual world.

 

Learning Objectives

These will be customized to the group.

·        Making the other person feel safe and open in a fraction of a second.

·        Using three tools to keep you from being exhausted on a virtual call.

·        Gaining and maintaining connection.

·        Reading people accuracy using the four first impression factors.

·        Understanding how the Freeze Flight Fall or Faint response is triggered in our face to face, and virtual interactions.

·        Improving your first impression and how others think about you.

·        Recognizing when you are with a credible, honest, authentic person and when your NOT!

·        Understanding the difference between danger signals and a

attraction signals

·        Using the Primacy and Recency effect in a virtual meeting

·        Encouraging acceptance and agreement of your ideas nonverbally.

·        What's the First Impression of your "BOX" in the Zoom Facetime world.

·        Body Language cues to note when someone's wearing a mask.

·        Learning the one mistake that people typically make when trying to read body language – and how it can sabotage your business and personal relationships

·        Recognizing "comfort cues" that can show you are stressed could make people think you lack confidence or think you are deceptive.

·        Creating rapport with your voice.

·        Understanding the power and danger of Charisma

·        Using insights into body windows to hide or reveal emotions.

·        Getting to the truth and revealing answers from even reluctant speakers.

·        Recognizing what part of the body is the most "honest."

 

 

 














Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.
     

I Search For Hope - Song by Patti Wood


I looked for her in the woods today,

took off my shoes to see her.

Put feathers in my hair to hear blue jays.

Twirled in my robe of Douglas fir.

 

Chorus

I stretched out my arms pushed shadows away.

Skimmed stones ‘cross my worries to keep them at bay.

I search for hope every day.

I search for hope every day.

 

I hung fairy lights on the trees

hoping to get their company.

Danced in a parade of buzzing bees.

Got the stings, hoping for honey.

 

Chorus

I stretched out my arms pushed shadows away

Skimmed stones 'cross my worries to keep them at bay

I search for hope every day

I search for hope every day

 

Bridge

Lay down in dry riverbed to ease my thirst.

Feel the concert in the ground, solace in the dirt.

Waiting for the breeze to soothe my hurt

I search I search I search 

 

Chorus

I stretched out my arms push shadows away

Skimmed stones 'cross my worries to keep them at bay

I search for hope every day

I search for hope every day

 

Wrap my loneliness in yellow vines

Lay my palm on rough bark

to hear her heart, is she listening to mine?

Will she spark? Will she spark?


Chorus

I stretched out my arms push shadows away

Skim stones across my worries to keep them at bay

I search for hope every day

I search for hope every day



Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.
     

What Will You Keep And What Will You Change In Your Life Going Into The New Year? An Exercise For You And Your Team

New Year New Behavior Exercise

In a song I wrote called “What Will I Keep?” my character sings in the first verse:

Sitting on the floor, piles of clothes on the bed
Dresses I danced in, glitter and shine from the life that I led.
Wish I could take all the soles of my shoes I’ll never wear again,
walk a grateful life, not the high heeled path I’ve tread … Full lyrics below

The character in the song is evaluating her life and wants to let go of certain parts of herself

As you sort through your life what are parts of your character and ways of communicating and being with people have you recently let go of and or wish to let go of? List at least three here:

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Share what you feel comfortable sharing on that list with someone and ask them for their list.

What parts of you will you keep? List and briefly describe three or more parts of your character, and or ways of communicating with others and living your life do you value?

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Share what you feel comfortable sharing on that list with someone and ask them for their list.


List three relationships that you value in your personal life and one reason why you value them.

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List three people you value in your work life and one reason why you value them.

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Now is the perfect time, no matter what you have or haven’t said in the past to take a few minutes this week to reach out to the people you value on each list and either share what you wrote face to face, over the phone, on a zoom call, email, text or short personal letter.

The character in the song isn’t me, but I have taken time this year to evaluate my life and what to let go of and what to keep.

Click the title below to the vocals in SoundCloud:

What Will I Keep? 

by:  Patti Wood


Sitting on the floor, piles of clothes on the bed
Dresses I danced in, glitter and shine from the life that I led.
Wish I could take all the soles of my shoes I’ll never wear again,
walk a grateful life, not the high heeled path I’ve tread.

 

When all of this is over,
I have a night where I don’t lose sleep
When my losses are sorted and counted
What will I keep?

 

Junk drawer is empty, threw out what didn’t match
worn-out keys that didn’t fit my heart tossed in the trash.
My pantry is bare, all my sell-by dates have passed
Filled the trunk of my car, bagged up my past.

 

When all of this is over,
I have a night where I don’t lose sleep
When my losses are sorted and counted
What will I keep?

 

Bridge

I live in this house alone
Plenty of time to find my place
Let go of the shallow, seek my grace/

 

When all of this is over,
I have a night where I don’t lose sleep
When my losses are sorted and counted
What will I keep?
What will I find in myself?
What will I keep?


You can several of my other new songs in their working versions on SoundCloud under my name. That's a free App you can download.  You go into the App type my name in the search bar and this song is down a few songs. SoundCloud is where I keep the rough versions of my songs before I take them to the studio and record them so know this is a rough version and is sung by the wonderful Libby Nation.


Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.