When the weather turns cold so do many
relationships. It's called the "relationship freeze" as many
couples break up, or decide to around the holidays. Divorce attorneys see
an uptick in business in January, immediately following the holiday season. So
this shows how temperature effects the cooling of a relationship and why you
want your relationship to stay hot, or at least warm!
One in three teenagers have experienced violence in a dating relationship.
Patti Wood, MA, Certified Speaking Professional - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com. Also check out Patti's YouTube channel at http://youtube.com/user/bodylanguageexpert.
10 Strange but True Facts About Kissing. What does Research Show About Men, Women and Kissing?
1.
What is known as a French Kiss in the English speaking world is
called an English Kiss in France.
2.
Studies indicate that a man who kisses his wife goodbye when he
leaves for work averages a higher income than the guy who doesn’t.
3.
If a man kisses his wife good bye every morning both members of
the couple report the marriage is happier and the morning kissing also has been
shown to lead to long term happy marriages.
4. Research
shows that kissing or if you prefer the scientific term Osculation, is often
the deciding
factor in selecting a sexual partner as well as first “kiss or miss” determiner
of selecting a life partner, especially for women.
5. Kissing
evolved to stimulate all three distinct brain systems involved in mating and
reproduction those that involve sex drive, romantic love, and attachment. In
fact more of your brain lights up during kissing than it does for other later
romantic activity.
6. Why women kiss before they say,
“I do.” Studies reveal many woman place great emphasis on a man kisses before
going to bed with them.
7. A woman tends
to be attracted to male partners with a different immune system makeup from
their own and she detects this information through smell when they kiss.
8.
Have a great first kiss - A bad first kiss can kill a would-be
romance faster than you can reapply your lipstick. In a S.U.N.Y. Albany survey,
shows that higher number of women than men said they
would not have sex with a bad kisser and more than 69 percent of women say
would end the relationship if the first kiss was bad.
9. A kiss is
the best “On” button -Women are stimulated faster by kissing that any other
physical activity to prompt them to want to engage in sex. Yes you read that
right.
10. Kissing is a
stress reliever. -Researchers found
that in long term relationships the more the couple kissed and the more their
stress hormone cortisol levels declined.
Patti Wood, MA, Certified Speaking Professional - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com. Also check out Patti's YouTube channel at http://youtube.com/user/bodylanguageexpert.
A Strange but True Fact About Women and Men and Gender Differences in Communication
On an average, women say over 7,000 words per day. Men say only
around 2,000.
Patti Wood, MA, Certified Speaking Professional - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com. Also check out Patti's YouTube channel at http://youtube.com/user/bodylanguageexpert.
Strange but True Facts About Dating, Men, Women and Relationships
1.
40% of women would consider dumping a boyfriend if her friends
didn’t like him.
2.
Wednesday is the best day for a first date according to a survey
of singles.
3.
The most common time for breakups is around three to five
months.
4.
50% of men claim they would feel comfortable if their girlfriend
had a lesbian lover.
5.
In an argument with your partner, when your heart rate goes over
100 beats per minute, you are incapable of hearing what your partner is trying
to tell you.
6.
On average, it takes between 12 to 14 dates before couples will
trade house keys.
7.
Only 16% of single Americans
say they are hunting for a partner. That group represents 7% of the entire
adult population.
8. Few of
today’s seeking singles describe themselves as active on the dating
scene. Asked how many dates they had been on in the past three months,
singles who said they were in the dating market reported the following: 36%
said they had been on no dates in the previous three months. 13% had been one
date.22% had been on 2-4 dates25% had been on 5 or more dates.
9.
Of People who use the internet who are in marriages and long
term relationships
§ 38% met
at work or school.
- 34% met through
family or friends.
- 13% met at a
nightclub, bar, café, or other social gathering
- 3% met through
the internet.
- 2% met at
church.
- 1% met by
chance, such as on the street.
- 1% met because
they lived in the same neighborhood.
- 1% met at a
recreational facility like a gym.
- 1% met on a blind date or through a dating service.
- The remainder cited a variety of other ways they met, such as growing up together.
Patti Wood, MA, Certified Speaking Professional - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com. Also check out Patti's YouTube channel at http://youtube.com/user/bodylanguageexpert.
10 Strange but True Facts About Attraction, Men, and Women. Plus Body Language Signals of aAttraction
1.
It takes 1 hour for a woman to determine whether or not she
wants to date a man again. A man decides in 15 minutes
2.
It may
surprise you to know that women typically exhibit about 52 ways to signal
attraction, where men use only about 10! - See more at: http://www.omharmonics.com/blog/body-language-of-attraction/#sthash.bXgeigcB.dpuf
3.
Flushing - Blood likes
to hover in our cheeks when we’re attracted to someone (the exact reason women
wear blush, but men can’t hide behind that). A man with a lot of color in his
face is a good sign. Interestingly, the lips and eyes are even better
indicators: red lips and exceptionally white eyes mean a man is completely
locked in.
4.
Feet point where the heart wants to go. Feet
are like the needles on a compass, but in this case they always point towards
the object of attraction. Feet that point towards you or feet that move up and
down or bounce towards you (especially to the point of bumping) is a strong
indicator of interest.
5.
Couples usually wait until six to eight dates before they are
willing to enter into an exclusive relationship.
6.
Studies show that women are attracted to men in blue.
7.
The average man sees five women a day with whom he would like to
sleep with.
8.
Only 10% of people who leave their marriage end up marrying the
person with whom they had an affair.
9.
Women who post a photo on Internet dating sites receive twice as
many email messages as women who don’t.
10.
On internet dating sites, men who reported incomes higher
than $250,000 received 156% more email than those with $50,000.
11. Leaning in is a
researched attraction signal. Leaning your body towards another person says 'I
would like to be closer to you'. It also tests to see whether they lean towards
you or away from you. It can start with the head with a simple tilt or may use
the entire torso. This may be coupled with listening intently to what they say,
again showing particular interest in them.
12. Men tend to “Peacock”
when they are attracted. Men peacock by standing
up straight, inhaling deeply to expand his chest, positioning his shoulders and
feet squarely, and showcasing his hands, especially the palms. A peacocking man
may arch his spine, lean too far back in a chair and rest an ankle on a knee so that his lap appears bigger.
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