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Narcissists Negativity - Character Assassination Through Name Calling. Notice the Good People

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Narcissists Negativity - Character Assassination Through Name Calling

I speak on body language, how to deal with difficult people, including how to deal with bullying, and narcissistic attacks.

Look at the wall of bad names that one man has used to attack and smear the character of people and institutions he interacts with or that talk about him.

Narcissists devalue people and reduce them to mere objects that have one purpose which is to fulfill their every need. People are just “supply.”  Their world is black-and-white good and bad. If we produce  "Narcissistic Supply" for them we are the best, great guys, good guys, queens, goddesses, gorgeous the best and Superbest.

If we do anything they don’t like, if we see them for who they really are they give us bad names, attacking our intellect our sanity and or our physical appearance and our character. We are dismissed, we are nothing, we are objects. The supply then comes from inflicting pain, they actually are gleeful, as they try to discount what we know about them by calling us the bad names.
Look at the wall on this news show with all the people and organizations and governments institutions Trump has denigrated labeling them with bad names since he started running for president. This image is mind-blowing. These are people and organizations he has discarded. He is making a smaller and smaller world for himself he is constantly having to look for new supply. He even has to pay people to give him attention. His world of his "good guys and terrific gals" becomes smaller as he discards more and more people. Now he is all alone in his room on twitter looking for supply. 


So what can we do? Notice what you pay attention to. Do people you know "name call"? Today what can you do to create good in the world? Turn your focus not to people that name call but to who is good person in your life. Support anyone who is bullied and or whose character has been attacked. That means write to the Parkland kids if you support them. It means telling good people who work in a political office tell a teacher that you support them.  Notice them, compliment them, tell them you are grateful for all they do. Expand who your notice and are grateful for and today thank Firemen,  grocery store checkout person, your dry cleaner, your neighbor, your family members, your coworkers, your favorite news reporters. Be part of the wave of goodness and integrity. Notice what is good!!!


Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.
     

Santorm On CPR Comments ... Santorum Did Not Apologize... How To Make A Good Apology



As you know I am a Media coach and prep executives for their media interviews and I analyze apology statements for the media. This is NOT an apology statement. He uses a deception technique of changing the definition of a softer word “misspoke” in stead of saying he made a mistake.
So he uses an inappropriate term to describe his actions. “ I misspoke using the term CPR... I should have talked about school security.” That is not misspeaking. He knows what CPR means and he was telling teenagers to learn to do it, and use it on their friends to deal with their gunshot wounds.
He should have said but didn’t.
“I messed up, I should not have said that teenagers should learn CPR and use it on gun shot victims."
 "I realize now that would be absurd, and I apologize for saying it." Then if he felt like making another point he should have said what I feel strongly about is that we need to make our schools safer with stronger security to guard our children." 

Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.
     

5 Qualities Malignant Narcissists Look For In Their Victims – And How They Use Them Against You



I was consulted for this story. I speak on how to deal with difficult people including how to deal with narcissists. She didn't quote me in the piece but she did use my insights.

https://thoughtcatalog.com/shahida-arabi/2018/01/5-qualities-malignant-narcissists-look-for-in-their-victims-and-how-they-use-them-against-you/
Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.
     

What Prince William's Body Language Says About Him As A Dad ... He Is Definitely Doing Things A Bit Different From Other Royal Fathers



The fact that Prince William kisses Prince George in public is, well, incredible. "In these intimate moments, Prince George is peaceful and relaxed in his father's arms," 

Patti Wood, body language expert and author of SNAP: Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language, and Charisma, told GoodHousekeeping.com. 

"These moments are proof that Prince William's relationship with his children are completely independent of the crowds or chaotic situation around him." Instead, Prince William is totally focused on his children and making sure they feel safe, secure, and most importantly, loved. More of Patti Wood body language read at the link below. 

https://www.goodhousekeeping.com/life/entertainment/a19598354/prince-william-body-language-parenting/


Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.
     

Parkland survivor throws up, continues 'incredible speech' at March for Our Lives

Many professional speakers give speeches when they are sick. But that’s nothing like the bravery of this amazing young woman, who injured from the Parkland shooting, threw up during her speech paused and finished her speech. Read her powerful Words. I am in awe of these children.
https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2018/03/24/parkland-survivor-throws-up-during-march-our-lives-speech-then-continued-her-incredible-speech-like/456064002/


Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.