Time is a nonverbal communicator. If a man begins to give
you more time in his life for example not going out with the boys but staying
in with you, not watching TV by himself but wants to do things with you, not
leaving you in the kitchen alone to cook but wants to be in the kitchen with
you that's an indication he is ready to share his time therefore his life with
you.
Time may seem a small thing but it's actually a big thing
so if he's willing to spend his time helping you fix things around your house
or apartment, talking and listening with you this is a healthy and good
indication that he cares for you enough to want to marry you. Not taking crazy
codependent time with you but healthy time with you.
He wants to be in your space or wants you to be in his
space. So he invites you over to his place to spend long periods of time. He wants you on his couch and wants you
cooking in his kitchen. Or he, wants to spend time in your space. When we love
somebody and enjoy being with them we want to be in their space and/or share
theirs.
His conversation changes as he describes you and him and
the relationship to you and to the people he cares for. Language style reveals
quite a bit. So the use of we and us increasing in the conversation or
appearing in the conversation for that matter is great. When you're with his
friends and your friends to see how he describes you and how does he describe
the relationship. Does he say us and we are going to do this, this is my
girlfriend or this is my love? Girlfriend, love and we are all forms of verbal
ownership and indicate a desire to be recognized as a couple.
Does he stand, sit and lay down with his arm around you
or arm touching you? The need to and
desire to touch frequently is a good indication of a healthy desire to be with
you. I want to distinguish this from clingy, hang-on body language and warm
protective loving touch. I have been
reading celebrity couples’ body language for magazines such as US Weekly, Life
& Style, Okay and Cosmo for over 15 years. I can tell by a man's touch, how
he is around her and how he holds her hand what's going on in the relationship
and can predict its success.
Does he give you great eye contact? Does he want to look
at the love of his life frequently? When he looks at you do you feel loved?
