Looks Can Deceive

Nuzzling Casper Smart, 27, at an Oscars afterparty in 2012, Jennifer Lopez, 44, looks like she is focused on her beau. Not so, observes Patti.  "She's posing for the camera.  Her heart is centered on the camera.  And her eyes are not on him."

By contrast, at this year's Billboard Music Awards, J. Lo wasn't as tuned-out as she appears.  "Her body is more turned toward him and she has a playful energy.  It tells Patti that there is some playfulness in their relationship.

Patti gives this couple in 2012 a 3 on the Life & Style True Love Rating scale.

Patti gives this couple in May of 2014 a 4 1/2 on the Life & Style True Love Rating scale.

Patti Wood, MA, Certified Speaking Professional - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com. Also check out Patti's YouTube channel at http://youtube.com/user/bodylanguageexpert.