Much has been said of House Speaker Pelosi ripping up her
copy of Trump’s State Of the Union Address but not everyone saw this moment
where Pelosi put out her hand at the beginning of the State of the Union as she
takes the address he offers with her left hand and Trump who just handed it to
her and should have initiated the shake at that time see her hand out and the moment later, not photographed where he rebuffed her outward stretched hand.
This is Iconic because of the controversy including those who said he didn’t
see her hand, when clearly in this photo he sees it. What’s also interesting
are the facial expressions and other cues Pelosi is leaning forward actually
giving Trump a soft smile and her full eye contact as she extends her hand with
the fingers tightly and tensely held together, one finger even bent and folded
over the others and hand-stretched out and downward. She is showing she wants to fully engage with Trump and shake hands, but it’s not a passive shake
offer, nor are the fingers curved in friendship. Trump is looking right
at her outstretched hand and leaves his arm down at his side and fingers curved
down and towards himself. You see his hand in the curved position your hand
typically takes to shake hands and he even has the hand at the ready at the
waist position. But his shoulder points to her in slight “cold shoulder”
position instead. Notice his downward turned “bad taste in my mouth” and chin
and jaw withdraw facial expression.
Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.
