I am a body language expert, author, professional speaker, and
coach. Years ago, when I began doing executive coaching to million and billion-dollar
business owners and C-suite executives, I realized that many times the single executive
men said they wanted management coaching. Still, their more profound need was
to learn how to select mates, learn how to safely and effectively flirt, and
form deep, meaningful relationships.
As you might guess, wealthy, successful singles sometimes
find themselves sought after by people that want their money and power, so I
teach body language and other healthy communication cues to know someone is
credible and authentic. I also find that men and women high on the Driver and
Correctors on the DISC type indicator are often successful. However, they may
have trouble with the gentle back and forth flow of flirting and being still
and listening that is required to create intimacy, and I teach those behaviors
as well. I also help them brainstorm
places to go to meet future mates. I assign them tasks like joining a board on
a nonprofit, volunteering for Habit for
Humanity, volunteering to help as a greeter, or sign in person at a nonprofit
or art event, taking an in-person class on their interest in a university
evening education program.
I don't advertise that portion of my business as I like how
my executive coaching naturally creates a safe place for clients to seek that
part of my coaching.
I advise people looking for a matchmaker or dating coach to
look for someone who can assess their strengths and needs, coach them, give
them "homework" assignments, and guide them through the growth
process required to have a healthy, loving relationship.
