The O.J. Simpson Interview On Fox: Did O.J, Simpson Lie, Or Tell The Truth? Body Language Read Of O.J. Simpson

https://www.nytimes.com/2018/03/12/arts/television/oj-simpson-interview-fox-lost-confession.html


Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.
     

Quote to lift you up when things look bleak and dark.

Do not be dismayed my the brokenness of the world.
All things break. All things can be mended.
Not with time, as they say, but with intention.
So go. Love intentionally, extravagantly, unconditionally.
The broken world waits in darkness for the light that is in you.
By L.R. Knost.


Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.
     

Tools to Reduce First Date Stress

Tools To Reduce First Date Stress 

by Patti Wood Author of SNAP Making the Most of First Impressions Body Language and Charisma. www.PattiWood.net

1. Relaxation Technique and anchoring :  Tension and stress can literally make your make your heart race so before your date, even in the days leading up to it start training your mind and body to let go of stress. Put aside a few minutes of time in which you can fully relax. That may mean lying down or sitting in a comfortable chair breathing and tensing and relaxing your muscles. You start by breathing in deeply on a count of three, and tensing and relaxing your feet by pointing them downwards and then go through all your major muscle groups going up from your feet up through your legs, stomach, throat, jaw, and facial muscles. As you tense and release, breathe in on a slow count of three, hold three, and release on a slow count of three, the entire time. You may relax by closing your eyes, or looking at a peaceful scene (such as a photograph of water or the trees outside your window), or even by taking a walk. When you feel your body totally relaxed, place your hand on your belly, and breathe in and out slowly. The hand on your stomach becomes a physical anchor, linking you to a memory of your relaxed state. If you practice this technique any time your put your hand on your stomach your bodies muscle memory will recall the state and you will instantly be relaxed. Now whenever you get nervous before a first date, place your hand on your stomach and relax!
2. Visualization:  When we are nervous about a first date, we tend to imagine everything that can go wrong and have the video looping in our brain of all those imagined mishaps. You can reduce your stress by replacing a script of a failing with a script of a wonderful successful first date. When you are under stress your brain goes to the script we have rehearsed the most and that involved the most senses. So imagining your date the way, encompassing all the senses. Get in a relaxed state and imagine yourself being on a great first date. If you can see or imagine the actual place you are going, if you can picture that exact space and your date sitting with you. See yourself in the clothes you will be in, feel your body move confidently and hear yourself speak with ease and energy. Visualize the strong eye contact you’re making. See in your mind your date smiling and interested in what you are saying and you doing the same for your date. Feel the strong connection. Let the strong sense of confidence fill you up and embrace the excitement, enthusiasm, and energy of that meeting. Hear in your mind your own strong voice, as well as the laughter of you and your date. Feel the ease of being with your date. Rehearse your first date success throughout the day and before you go to sleep at night. And have the fun on your date that you have imagined. 

Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.
     

The Young Royal Couple's Body Language, What are Megan and Prince Harry Showing About Their Relationship?

What are Megan and Prince Harry saying with their body language. My read for Elite Daily News.



https://www.elitedaily.com/p/prince-harry-meghan-markles-body-language-on-international-womens-day-spells-good-news-about-their-relationship-8457524

Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.
     

Prince Harry & Meghan Markle's Body Language on Common Wealth Day.

Here is my body language read of the couple for Elite Daily.

https://www.elitedaily.com/p/prince-harry-meghan-markles-body-language-on-commonwealth-day-proves-theyre-so-in-love-8475669

Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.
     

What are Megan and Prince Harry saying

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What are Megan and Prince Harry saying with their body language. A read I did for Elite Daily.

https://www.elitedaily.com/p/the-royal-couples-body-language-on-commonwealth-day-reveals-major-clues-about-their-relationships-8475991

Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.
     

Are Belt Bags, (fanny packs) a sign of new quest for freedom! The Body Language of Belt Bags

To me the biggest aspect of fanny packs or belt bags is the ability to move with a great sense of freedom, to move in fact like a man. Here is the analysis I did for WhoWhatWear.com

https://www.whowhatwear.com/belt-bag-trend--5ac445dc11909

The Fashion Psychology Behind Wearing a Fanny Pack—Yes, Really

“This trend is interesting,” adds body language expert Patti Wood, “because it allows you to move, to a certain degree, like a man does.” Wood is the author of Snap: Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language, and Charisma and provided me with even further insight into what wearing a belt bag, as opposed to wearing one (or, at times, three) shoulder bags, might express about its wearer. “I’d be curious to talk to the women [who wear them],” she adds, “and ask what’s it like not to have this dent in your shoulder and have this thing you’re keeping track of all the time, because it gives you enormous amounts of freedom.” This independence—be it moving “like a man” or simply without anything physically weighing down your upper body—seems to ultimately be the most common standout thread among our experts and insiders. While fashion, as Mair says, is a powerful tool that can be used to create positivity, the belt bag may be less of a gimmick, as initially suspected, and more of a tool to make a woman feel like she’s putting herself first.

“It speaks to a self-focused and self-care attitude,” Woods even suggests. And while, no, a fanny pack certainly doesn’t look like other forms of self-care we may be familiar with—choosing to stay in on a Saturday night so you can take a yoga class Sunday morning or blocking all your social media friends who give their two cents on every news headline—it also seems to be a trend that doesn’t ask you to follow, but rather lead. It’s nostalgic, practical, and doesn’t give a damn about what women are traditionally expected to wear or do or act. If that doesn’t feel very 2018, what does?

Body Language Read of Meghan Markle’s First Event With The Queen

 

Here is my body language read of Meghan Markle’s First Event With The Queen

https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/meghan-markle-first-event-with-the-queen-was-a-smashing-success_us_5aa6b728e4b087e5aaeca294?tn

Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.

     

Rules and Tips for a Proper Apology, How Can you tell a true apology from a fake one?

Apology Statements

I analyze apology statements for the media. The Jules Woodson assault by her minister and his false apology about his horrible attack to his congregation.

This was not a true apology. A true apology is given to the person that you abused, that’s it!
You must seek forgiveness, from the person you hurt not to group your afraid of loosing!!
In a true apology you do not make excuses and you certainly don’t blame the victim as he does in his “speech” and you darn sure don’t act like a little boy victim. You also promise to work on yourself and never abuse anyone again. And if you have done something horrible you pay a price for your transgression. He didn’t pay the correct price he was only embarrassed for the length of the speech.

So what do we do? How do we do the right thing in our lives? It’s not just about noticing bad behavior, I like to follow a negative thing that’s happened with a positive action so we can create a wave of decency and make the world better through our actions. So we need to think about anyone we hurt in any way and give a proper apology. I am starting with myself so I am thinking of what I need to do better.

In addition, if someone admitted hurting someone else to you and didn’t apologize and seek forgiveness from the person they hurt, and you say, “ I forgive you for hurting Sally” you become a part to their crime. You have relived them of their burden of guilt without them doing the hard thing, the right thing. It makes you feel good but it’s an ethical mistake, That’s the big mistake the congregation made. I’m sure the congregation felt good about themselves. They said we are so forgiving! But they were only doing something that made them feel good about themselves. When they gave him a standing ovation they took away his guilt. They gave their forgiveness that he did NOT earn at the cost of his victims pain. It may seem righteous but it’s just wrong.

I have a chapter in my new book on how to give a proper apology! Can’t wait to finish it!

I Was Assaulted. He Was Applauded.

/https://mobile.nytimes.com/2018/03/09/opinion/jules-woodson-andy-savage-assault.html?smid=fb-nytimes&smtyp=cur&referer=https://m.facebook.com/

Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.
     

Melania And Donald Trump's Body Language On Easter Gives Insights Into Their Relationship

Melania And Donald Trump's Body Language Patti Wood body language expert read of the couple.

Here is the link!
Melania and Donald Trump's body language on Easter gives so many insights. 
https://www.elitedaily.com/p/melania-donald-trumps-body-language-on-easter-is-a-hint-about-the-state-of-their-marriage-8681002

Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.
     

Body Language Cues About Trump's Relationship With His Daughter, Tiffany, And Her Relationship With Melania

Here is the link to my body language read for Elite Daily to find out more about Trump's relationship with his daughter, Tiffany, and her relationship with Melania.

https://www.elitedaily.com/p/tiffany-melania-donald-trumps-easter-body-language-was-significant-8685263


Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.
     

Eliot Bronson and The Tin Man's new TV show Versese

Here is the link to Eliot and the Tin Mans new TV show. The links should work. If you like music you can check it Eliot’s videos. His newest is his song Mercy off his latest albulm JAMES. If you are in Atlanta he has a few tickets for his show tonight st Eddies Attic. 
For those who don’t know. I am blessed. Eliot is my Songwriting coach and plays the guitar, ( He is incredible) on my EP albums.

https://www.facebook.com/thisisthetinman/?hc_ref=ART8HoJrZgiRRFqf8xGjJEV6yseeiIP2EPUIvv4amlf73HzI79LBzJmWhJwf5oELbKw&fref=nf&pnref=story

Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.
     

Body Langauge Of Meghan And Kate, The Royals Body Language

Link to Patti Wood's Body Language Read of Meghan And Kate,

https://www.goodhousekeeping.com/life/news/a48135/meghan-markle-commonwealth-day-service/


Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.
     

The O.J. Simpson Interview on Fox Was O.J. Lying Or Telling The Truth? What does O.J. Simpson's Body Language Reveal?

Patti Wood

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If you didn’t see the interview and you’re wondering did he do it? Yes. I speak on credibility and deception detection.

There is a clear record that he abused her. The police came to the house several times. Most people forget that detail. She was afraid enough to call the police.

In the interview he uses a classic abuser technique and gives his abuse a softer term.

Did he kill her? Yes. While describing the murder he smiles with duper’s delight and laughs. Malignant narsissits derive pleasure from inflicting pain, it gives them a sense of control.

If you watch the interview you my feel horribly uncomfortable. That’s your central nervous system alerting you that something is wrong. When someone says one thing with their words and their nonverbal behavior says something completely different your central nervous system alerts you to possible danger.
In the interview, he blames his wife several times for his bad behavior using the classic victim blaming tactic of a malignant narcissist.
In one of the most horrific parts of the interview, Simpson is “remembering” the blood at the murder scene, and for the first time in the interview as he does that, his nonverbal behavior and his words match. He is uncomfortable. Horrifying.

It took the Metoo movement to increase our awareness of abuse and make the Fox network air this interview.
So what can you do? Listen carefully to your friends and family. Look for signs that someone in your life may be suffering under the Shadow of abuse. Believe someone who tells you they are afraid. Don’t discount their fear. And if you are in a healthy, loving relationship hug your partner right now.

https://www.nytimes.com/2018/03/12/arts/television/oj-simpson-interview-fox-lost-confession.html

Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.
     

Body language Read Of Mindy Kaling For Elite Daily!

https://www.elitedaily.com/p/mindy-kaling-bj-novaks-body-language-at-the-oscars-reveals-a-lot-more-than-you-think-8423106

Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.