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What Can You Do If You Think Your Partner is Pulling Away By Dating Coach and Body Language Expert Patti Wood
Why Do Airlines Seats Face Forward Rather than the Safer Option of Having Airline Seats Facing Backward?.
This is a question I get along with why do we all face
toward the door on elevators.
Airlines don't have backward-facing seats as they are
heavier and have to meet higher safety standards, and they would have to have all
the seats face backward, so there is a cost issue.
But the other reasons are more customer service/ body
language-related.
Some people feel more nauseous facing backward,
When we are a passenger in a car, we are used to
facing forward toward the driver, so it gives a sense of familiarity and
control over the experience.
Nonverbally the primal limbic brain wants to face the
body is going.
Sitting backward triggers the same limbic brain fear
response that having your back to the door (as in the caveman does not want to
have his back to the entrance to the cave) makes you feel.
Some people want to face the way they entered the
plane as it calms them down as they think they know where the exit is. (Thus,
the flight attendant's speech that says the closest exit may be behind you.)
It's easier to get the passengers off if they exit up
and out of their seats toward the front.
What Can You Do If You Think Your Partner is Pulling Away By Dating Coach and Body Language Expert Patti Wood
New research says that Nerotics have less job satisfaction and more job turnover.
https://medicalxpress.com/news/2022-03-personality-traits-well-being-satisfaction-life.html).
I speak to business owners and C-suite executives across the US. Most of their
employee problems, complaints, and HR issues are with younger employees who
seem afraid of interacting face to face and on the phone or even speaking about
the personal issue in an email. They also describe these employees as stressed
and having difficulty making simple decisions, especially those related to a
lack of interpersonal skills. That personality seems to fit the definition of
neurotics.
To avoid hiring Neurtotics I recommend job interviews with problem-solving scenarios and taking the interviewee
out for a meal with two or three other employees to see how they handle the
interaction.
If you currently have an employee with these issues, I recommend they give
them a mentor or someone to work alongside so they see how to handle everyday
interpersonal problems. I also suggest a three-day interpersonal skills class or
role-play or modeling interpersonal problem-solving.
For example, I had a team leader having problems getting excessive emails from a stressed team member and other interpersonal issues, and the company was having issues with high turnover. So he hired me to do a team-building program and then roll it out for the whole company.
In working one-on-one with each employee over the three days, I discovered his stressed team member was afraid of talking to the team leader because he always wore black t-shirts, which made him tense. So he was sending emails to his team leader instead of getting up from his desk and going to the NEXT CUBICLE because he was so afraid.
I gave
the team step-by-step instructions on how to have different kinds of
conversations, and they practiced them with each fellow team member until everyone
was more comfortable. It was a group of young employees who hadn't had a lot of
practice working face to face.
Harry and Meghan's Body Language at Invictus Games
Photos are in the link to the article at the bottom
Prince Harry and Meghan Markle gave the crowd at the Invictus Games the royal treatment on April 16. The couple kissed onstage during the Games’ opening ceremony, and the sweet moment was one for the books (and not just because the royal family rarely, if ever, indulges in PDA). According to a body language expert, Harry and Meghan’s kiss was “intimate” and genuine.
Though body language can’t tell us everything about a relationship, this snog speaks volumes for the once-royal couple. And their actual words were just as telling. Apparently, Meghan gushed about her “incredible husband” right before their kiss. “It is my distinguished honor to introduce someone that I think you’ll all be very excited to hear from. I could not love and respect him more and I know that all of you feel the same,” she said of Harry. His response? “Thank you, my love.” (But in a British accent, so automatically 10x hotter.)
Even though Harry and Meghan’s kiss didn’t get too passionate, there were some signs of deep love. See how their bodies make a sort of triangle? That “mutual lean” is key.
“Look how much leaning he is doing,” Wood points out. And he’s not the only one who seems to be seeking closeness. Though less drastic, Meghan’s body is also reaching for him. “She’s lifting up through the body. She’s got a slight body lean (through her pelvis, belly, and chest) that matches his,” Wood adds.
Even their microphone hand-off was significant. “He wraps his fingers around her hand,” Wood says. “His hand curving around her in a way that shows more intimacy than just a simple [microphone pass].” The main takeaway? “It seems like they just want to touch hands as they kiss.” Aw!
Their special moment didn’t stop at the kiss. Per Wood, the duo shared “laser-focused eye contact,” too. “It’s as if it’s just them, and no one else was there,” she says. Not to mention, it looks like Meghan is feeling all the looove.
“The smile on her face is full of wonderment and innocence,” Wood says. “Her entire face is lifted up in an impish, shy smile.” TL;DR: In this picture, Meghan’s expression is basically the heart-eyed emoji.
Even when Harry and Meghan’s attention was elsewhere (like on the huge crowd surrounding them), their attachment is still palpable. “Harry has his arm on her back as if to draw her closer and make sure they’re seen as a unit,” Wood analyzes the photo.
Though Meghan’s arm isn’t wrapped around her husband, Wood notices that “she’s doing a ‘symbolic reach.’” According to her, “Meghan’s outreached arm is showing him that her body is responding to his touch.”
It’s a notable moment, particularly because they’re looking at the crowd—not at each other. Wood says, “Both of their heads are pointed towards the crowd, but they need to connect to each other even as they’re connected to the audience.” It’s not a show though—it’s “just the way they are.”