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What is collective/group narcissism? What are social narcissism's potential consequences in societies and groups?

1) What is collective/group narcissism?

Group Narcissism consists of people who feed on the narcissistic supply. As a result, they can create more drama from the group and use the power of the group to create havoc on others, creating more emotional supply.  

Malignant Narcissists feed off drama. Research, including brain scans, shows that their brains operate differently. MG's may not feel or get enough supply for healthy human emotions created from love, bonding, and empathy. Instead, their brains light up, are fed when admired, and when they see and or create intense negative emotions like drama, fear, pain, and discord. These emotions create the MG's "Narcissistic Supply." 

 2) What are social

Narcissism's potential consequences in societies and groups?

The most serious is emotional contagion, just like a small group yelling and taunting can create a large crowd to stir to anger an attack like the crowd torch-bearing scene in the classic movie Frankenstein, a toxic group, can contaminate not just those inside that group and those outside the group

In group narcissism, we see unquestioning loyalty and admiration for the group and its ideals and an intense fervor in the persecution of any person who questions the authority of the overarching ideals of the group. The group will do anything to ignore any bad behavior of their fellow narcissists, give him a pass and then another pass, normalize bullying, yelling, crazy, abusive, and even dangerous behavior. They will defend one of their own kind for fear of losing the group. They will even attack any innocent person or persons who threaten the group's status quo. The group is their breath, their life, their sustenance, their "supply." In the presence of other narcissists, who reflect "like" behaviors, they don't see their dark selves. In the group, they are whole and belong. They may see damage in others, yet it only serves to make them feel superior. And in fact, their very acceptance of the dark damage in their fellow tribe members may make them think they are good people. They don't consider that dark damage behaviors are unacceptable in a healthy group. They only see reflections of themselves.

 

Patti Wood is a body language expert with degrees emphasizing Nonverbal Communication. She writes and speaks to corporate clients about body language and honesty, integrity, credibility, deception, narcissism, and psychopathology. She is also an expert on Hitler's body language.

 

 







Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.
     

How to Teach Kids About Body Language Using Mr. Potato Head, Teaching Kids Healthy Safe Touch Using Mr. Potato Head

I have used Mr. Potatoe's head toys to help teach foster parents a safe way to discuss body parts, how a child feels about each body part, and safe and appropriate touch.

I also have shown teachers how to teach simple body language reading cues in a fun way.

So they talk about eye contact and have the children put the eyes in and share what they can see and they put the hands-on and say what it safe healthy touch and other concepts like body windows and how the feet are the most honest parts of the body.  



Play: It can’t be disputed that children learn best through play as language development can be supported, by adults, in a fun and natural way. Playing with Mr. Potato Head can help develop symbolic play, certain language skills and support overall cognitive development.

Choices: Offer your child choices of body parts when placing them into Mr Potato Head. It can support the understanding and expressive use of, vocabulary for body parts. Talk about these body parts as your child is assembling and experimenting with Mr Potato Head. Providing choices can also support a child’s ability to make decisions.

Requesting: Mr Potato Head is a great tool to help support the skill of requesting. It offers many ways to develop consistent use of communication including, gestures, sign and verbal communication. Adapt the way Potato Head is played by holding back some pieces from the child to provide repetitive opportunities for the child to use all their communication skills.




Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.
     

Dating Body Language Tips to Improve Your Listening Skills

Listen to Your Partner with your

 BODY LANGUAGE

Remember To Be Gentler

Patti Wood, MA, Professional Speaker expert in body language and nonverbal communication. Author of SNAP Making the Most of First Impressions Body Language and Charisma. www.pattiwood.net

What you can do to help focus and show that you are listening to your partner

Give Facial Feedback

Let your nonverbal expressions show your emotional response to the message. Matching and mirroring your partner creates similar chemicals in your body, increases empathy and understanding, and signals your partner that you "GET" what they are saying.

Eye Contact

A listener should give more eye contact than the speaker. Research suggests that if you want to have a good rapport, you should maintain eye-contact 60 to 70 percent of the time that someone speaks to you. Females are better at this than men and need more eye contact from listeners to feel comfortable in the conversation. Eye contact cues are more complicated for men. This may be because dominance is communicated by either staring or a lack of eye contact. It would help if you made good eye contact. Research shows that a typical business gaze focuses on the eyes and the upper forehead, and in a social gaze, the listener's gaze drops down to include the nose and the mouth.

Nod Your Head

You do not have to have a bobble toy head. Just occasionally nod your head to show you are listening and empathetic with the speaker's message. An added bonus of nodding your head is that it releases endorphin-like chemicals into your bloodstream to make you feel good and feel more affable about the speaker. Be aware that women nod their heads whether they agree with the speaker's message or not. Men may think that you agree with them if you nod too much, so be careful not as you use it as mere feedback. Don’t give men "I'm Listening" nods if you disagree with what a man is saying.

Turn Off Technology

We have become so accustomed to checking our phones while talking to someone we forget how rude it is. all those things are.  Signal to your partner your intent to really listen by turning away your laptop, turning off your cell phone, and even saying out loud, "Let me turn this off and put this away while we talk."

Lean Forward

Proximity, that is, being physically close, signals your desire to be emotionally or physiologically close. I don't mean get in their face but merely lean in toward your partner. Research shows that in a seated conversation, a backward lean communicates that you are dominant. A forward lean shows interest.

Expose Your Palms

We hide the palms of our hands when we are nervous or lying. Keep your hands open and visible to create comfort in others.

We all want to be seen heard and understood. There is no greater gift to give to someone than your interest. Be GENTLE with your listening.



Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.
     

What Body Language Shows Joy and Happiness?

This is an example of UP body language. Your body language goes upward when you are joyful. UP body language is a term I coined in the field of body language. The photo is of the preview night of the music man on Broadway. Notice how characters are so filled with joy and excitement their feet lift off the ground in unison in the dance. The lift goes up through their bodies so that many also lift their arms high above their heads. When you see this in the theater you are lifted and joyful as you watch it
Can you think of a movie scene or a character or several characters walking or moving upward with happiness that’s a standard drama or comedy rather than a musical?





Patti Wood, MA - The Body Language Expert. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.
     

Tool to Turn off Your Internal Critic and Be Creative.

One of the tools I use to help me when I am stuck on writing a speech on body language or a chapter in a book I am writing or song I am creating is to lie down. Australian National University professor Darren Lipnicki, says that lying down can lead to creative breakthroughs.

"It might be that we have our most creative thoughts while flat on our back," he says. One reason might be that more of the chemical noradrenaline is released while we're standing, and noradrenaline could inhibit our ability to think creatively.

In any case, it's a great excuse to lay back, relax, and just think.





The Body Language Expert Patti Wood, MA. For more body language insights go to her website at www.PattiWood.net. Check out Patti's website for her new book "SNAP, Making the Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma" at www.snapfirstimpressions.com.