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Meghan goes through every emotion in this interview, starts nervous and giggling, she gets angry, she is poised calm and confident, she cries, she gets mad some more than she ends happy serene and at peace. There are so many revealing tells. 1. Meghan’s feelings about the Queen 7:16 When I look at interviews, I always pay very close attention to the cues that are given when someone is hearing a topic or person for the first time in the interview, before they think about how they want to look. So when Oprah interduces the discussion of the Queen/Grandmother/matriarch Meghan has the complex negative vocal and gesture cluster, first you hear Meghan in a slightly grow; her response “um her” and then says, “She was one of the first people I met” then she looks down grimaces and does a tongue thrust.” Though Meghan later goes on in the interview to share lovely stories about the Queen and her relationship with her, these cues revealed the her underlying feelings. 2. Baby Bump ***19:49 Baby Bump The way she holds her baby bump compared to Kate Her spontaneous anger as she says, What does that have to do with pride or vanity” We need to hear her voice because it’s the way she strikes down hard on Pride or Vanity with her paralanguage that is revealing. 3. **44:12When Meghan is asked who had the conversation with you?” about what color Archies skin would be. You see Meghan give a “seat adjustment” she rises out of her seat subconsciously wants to get out of her seat an run away and we know why because the she wants to run away because this look of pure fear comes over her face I would love a freeze frame of the fear on her face, because in that moment I was afraid for her. 4. ***1:44:46 They as couple form a heart with their bodies and at the center of the heart they are holding hands. And I want to describe that their legs are crossed towards each other, body windows, belly heart throat are towards each other. So here are extra ideas and topics in order. Here are those topics and more in order. Very beginning when Meghan is talking about revealing the gender of their baby she adjusts her shoulder in shadow near her mike in a comfort cue smiles and giggles 7:16 When I look at interviews I always pay very close attention to the cues that are given when someone is hearing a topic or person for the first time in the interview, before they think about how they want to look. So when Oprah interduces the discussion of the Queen/Grandmother/matriarch Megahn has the complex negative vocal and gesture cluster, first you hear Meghan in a slightly grow; her response “um her” and then says, “She was one of the first people I met” then she looks down grimaces and does a tongue thrust.” Though Meghan later goes on in the interview to share lovely stories about the Queen and her relationship with her, these cues revealed the her underlying feelings. 8:50--- She she talks about the curtain, She does a “cleansing cue” of wiping down her legs to get rid of her negative feelings, then wipes a tear from her eye. 9:18 (I think that’s the time code) Moment when she talks about the polarity created by the media between her and Kate she looks confident poised and wise. _-----------------------Time codes change ***19:49 Baby Bump The way she holds her baby bump compared to Kate Her spontaneous anger as she says, What does that have to do with pride or vanity” 26:15 “I worked for a woman’s right to speak and I was silent” Then she is asked by Oprah, “Where you silent or were you silenced.” And she replies I was silenced. 38:39 discussion about security for baby, “…baby will not receive security she gives a tongue thrust of anger and attack, no security.” 41:13 Discussion about baby Archie not going to be a Prince. “They want to change the convention for Archie.” And she glares. **43:56 Oprah moment “WHAT” about what color baby Archies skin might be when he was born. **44:12When Meghan is asked who had the conversation with you?” about what color Archies skin would be. You see Meghan give a “seat adjustment” she rises out of her seat subconsciously wants to get out of her seat an run away and we know why because the she wants to run away because this look of pure fear comes over her face I would love a freeze frame of the fear on her face, because in that moment I was afraid for her. 55:20 When she talks about her thoughts of suicide. She is at first very composed, even as she reveals that she told them “I don’t want to be alive anymore” and I was watching and saying she is so calm and detached from something so horrible. But when she talks about sharing that with Harry and him saying she didn’t have to go the event the next day, as she says “I can’t be left alone.” She cries, the timing and the tears as she relives that are so real and heart breakiing. ***1:44:46 They as couple from a heart with their bodies and at the center of the heart they are holding hands. And I want to describe that their legs are crossed towards each other, body windows, belly heart throat are towards each other. When he is asked about his relationship with his father, first he gives a long silent pause, sticks out his tongue, and then though he says, “I will always love him.” He shakes his head no. showing he doesn’t feel that love. H

Here are my rough body language notes that I gave in my interviews with the media about Meghan and Harry.

Meghan goes through every emotion in this interview, starts nervous and giggling, she gets angry, she is poised calm, and confident, she cries, she gets mad some more than she ends happy serene and at peace.

There are so many revealing tells.

1.    Meghan’s feelings about the Queen

7:16   When I look at interviews, I always pay very close attention to the cues that are given when someone is hearing a topic or person for the first time in the interview before they think about how they want to look. So when Oprah introduces the discussion of the Queen/Grandmother/matriarch

Meghan has the complex negative vocal and gesture cluster, first, you hear Meghan in a slightly grow; her response “um her” and then says, “She was one of the first people I met” then she looks down grimaces and does a tongue thrust.”  Though Meghan later goes on in the interview to share lovely stories about the Queen and her relationship with her, these cues revealed her underlying feelings.

2. Baby Bump

***19:49 Baby Bump

The way she holds her baby bump compared to Kate

Her spontaneous anger as she says, What does that have to do with pride or vanity” We need to hear her voice because it’s the way she strikes down hard on Pride or Vanity with her paralanguage that is revealing.

3.

**44:12When Meghan is asked who had the conversation with you?” about what color Archies skin would be.

You see Meghan give a “seat adjustment” she rises out of her seat subconsciously wants to get out of her seat and runaway and we know why because she wants to run away because this look of pure fear comes over her the face I would love a freeze-frame of the fear on her face, because in that moment I was afraid for her.

4.

***1:44:46  They as a couple form a heart with their bodies and at the center of the heart they are holding hands. And I want to describe that their legs are crossed towards each other, body windows, belly heart throat are towards each other.

 

 

So here are extra ideas and topics in order.

Here are those topics and more in order.

 

Very beginning when Meghan is talking about revealing the gender of their baby she adjusts her shoulder in shadow near her mike in a comfort cue smiles and giggles

7:16   When I look at interviews I always pay very close attention to the cues that are given when someone is hearing a topic or person for the first time in the interview, before they think about how they want to look. So when Oprah introduces the discussion of the Queen/Grandmother/matriarch

Meghan has the complex negative vocal and gesture cluster, first you hear Meghan in a slightly grow; her response “um her” and then says, “She was one of the first people I met” then she looks down grimaces and does a tongue thrust.”  Though Meghan later goes on in the interview to share lovely stories about the Queen and her relationship with her, these cues revealed her underlying feelings.

 

8:50--- She  talks about the curtain, She does a “cleansing cue” of wiping down her legs to get rid of her negative feelings, then wipes a tear from her eye.

 

9:18 (I think that’s the time code) Moment when she talks about the polarity created by the media between her and Kate she looks confident poised and wise.

_-----------------------Time codes change

***19:49 Baby Bump

The way she holds her baby bump compared to Kate

Her spontaneous anger as she says, What does that have to do with pride or vanity”

 

26:15

“I worked for a woman’s right to speak and I was silent”

Then she is asked by Oprah, “Where you silent or were you silenced.” And she replies I was silenced.

 

38:39 discussion about security for baby, “…baby will not receive security she gives a tongue thrust of anger and attack, no security.”

 

41:13 Discussion about baby Archie not going to be a Prince. “They want to change the convention for Archie.” And she glares.

 

**43:56 Oprah moment “WHAT” about what color baby Archies skin might be when he was born.

 

**44:12When Meghan is asked who had the conversation with you?” about what color Archies skin would be.

You see Meghan give a “seat adjustment” she rises out of her seat subconsciously wants to get out of her seat and runaway and we know why because she wants to run away because this look of pure fear comes over her face I would love a freeze-frame of the fear on her face, because in that moment I was afraid for her.

 

55:20 When she talks about her thoughts of suicide. She is at first very composed, even as she reveals that she told them “I don’t want to be alive anymore” and I was watching and saying she is so calm and detached from something so horrible.  But when she talks about sharing that with Harry and him saying she didn’t have to go the event the next day, as she says

“I can’t be left alone.” She cries, the timing and the tears as she relives that are so real and heartbreaking.

***1:44:46  They as a couple from a heart with their bodies and at the center of the heart they are holding hands. And I want to describe that their legs are crossed towards each other, body windows, belly heart throat are towards each other.

When  he is asked about his relationship with his father, first he gives a long silent pause, sticks out his tongue, and then though he says, “I will always love him.” He shakes his head no. showing he doesn’t feel that love. H

 

 

 

 

 

 




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